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tbck1000

Date Posted:06/03/2007 06:55:24Copy HTML

1) Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?
2) Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs?
3) Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did?

sarasotajt #1

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/03/2007 10:40:00Copy HTML

1. yes, she minds. Doesn't like me wearing them. I have to go to the beach by myself. I'm prohibited from wearing anything less than running shorts in front of my kids.
2. No, she doesn't; not even underwear except when wearing special garments (rare).
3. No. I wore them first. Didn't hide it when we were dating. She married me anyway. Guess she thought she could change me...
stringman #2

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/03/2007 11:50:44Copy HTML

1 She says she doesn't mind, but will not go woth me when I'm thonging. If we are together, I have to wear at least a squarecut.
2 She wears them as underwear maybe 15% of the time, and never as swimwear.
3 No, she started after me.
TDStorm #3

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/04/2007 03:42:06Copy HTML

1. We haven't had an opportunity, but I think she'd warm up to it
2. Yes, 90% of the time
3. Yes, I had a few thongs before dating her, but now, have expanded my wardrobe
nicksthong #4

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/04/2007 07:42:09Copy HTML

1. Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public? -No, as long as its appropriate, but she thinks Im nuts to do it.

2. Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs? -Unfortuneately not any more, she had a handfull of them whe we were first dating, and seemed to wear them regularly, but she now says she cant stand them.  I think though, that its a body image thing, she cant stay in controll of her body fat, and it REALLY depresses her. (Id love to talk about that on this board sometime, soon)

3. Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did? -Yes, but see #2.  As for me, I made my own when I was eight years old, and began full time wearing when I was sixteen. 

bmicro #5

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/04/2007 07:49:19Copy HTML

1. Not only does she not mind, she chooses and buys them for me (she likes the Skinz M-1 and Alphamoda Skiathos). The really small ones I wear when I am alone.

2. Sometimes to the beach. Almost always as underwear. She feels that she has to look perfect to wear one in public, 5 lbs overweight and they get put away.

3. We were both wearing them for underwear when we met. I was wearing thongs as swimwear then and she came around fairly quickly.

tbck1000 #6

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/04/2007 12:11:20Copy HTML

Well, I'm not attached right now so I can't really answer my own questions. But I have a very hard time finding a long term GF who is OK with my thong hobby. Some of my past GF's liked me in them, others did not. I don't seems to attract the type girls who can accept guys in g-strings or thongs in public or private. It's always "fun" when the time comes for them to find out. The few who liked my thongs were fun for a while - really fun - but they were always incompatable with me in other ways.
Ex_Member #7

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/05/2007 10:09:25Copy HTML

Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?  Only on the islands and not near anyone close. SO NO!
Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs?  She wears them with sports clothing or a dress on ocassion! 
Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did? NO_ - I have worn them for 20+ yrs.

 

Thonglicious #8

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/06/2007 02:27:03Copy HTML

I've only thonged in public once.  Wifey wasn't with me but she didn't seem to mind. 

She wears thongs every once in a while.  More of a boy shorts gal though.

She didn't start wearing thongs until a few months ago.  I've been for about 14 years.

Thonglicious

NCThonger #9

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/06/2007 02:56:50Copy HTML

Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?  Won't happen
Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs? VERY rarely
Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did? Not really
mrever_ready #10

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/06/2007 03:50:44Copy HTML

1 - My wife and I both enjoy wearing our thong swimsuits to the beach, I refuse to wear anything but a thong.    If thongs are not allowed at a particular beach, we find another beach.    For example, I've never been to Clearwater Florida where they have a ban on thongs.     And to be honest, I could care less, there are many other beaches where thongs are allowed, so they get my tourist dollars.    OOOOPS, sorry about the rant.

2 - I am a very lucky guy, my wife enjoys wearing thongs almost as much as I do.    I'm also lucky because she is still a HOTTIE who looks so yummy in a thong.

3 - I am the original thonger in our family, and my wife never had a problem with that.    She then started wearing thong underwear which lead to thong swimsuits.    Now that's about all we ever wear.  Life is good !

Dr S #11

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/07/2007 03:21:25Copy HTML

1. She prefers my choice of underwear. I think she'd prefer I wear more substantial swimwear sometimes, but more because she's bothered more about acceptance and not offending people than a dislike of my choice of beachwear.

2. Thongs exclusively as underwear. She has worn thongs to the beach but body confidence dictates whether she will again!

3. Me first, but this was a long time ago when they were much less common as mainstream women's underwear. It didn't take long for her to catch up and we probably only own maybe 3 bigger items of underwear between us!
thongboy052000 #12

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/07/2007 11:38:36Copy HTML

I'm 26 and my girlfriend is 23, and we only wear thongs at the beach. We both find each other incredibly sexy in them and also feel sexy wearing them.
I have a couple of brief-side Speedos for more conservative pool areas, and so does she, but thongs are our Number One choice. At my last birthday, she gave me a couple of Koala's more obscene creations, and I have worn both in public. She is a 36 24 36, and she virtually spills out of a thong bikini, which is how we both like it.
I can't understand relationships where the girl wears the skimpiest bikini while insisting that her husband or bf wears those awful dork shorts. For the record, we're Canadian and even have 90 per cent thongs in our underwear drawers.
NoVAThonger #13

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/08/2007 12:25:40Copy HTML

Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public? - My wife does not mind at all. She has helped me pick out thong suits to wear at the beach.

Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs? - She wears 100% thong underwear but does not typically wear beach thongs, although I think if the beach was deserted enough, she would consider it.

Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did? - Yes, we both wore thong underwear when we met.
camplag #14

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/11/2007 06:23:40Copy HTML

1. Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?
She likes for me too or be nude if possible. I thinks she wish all men did she hates the board shorts

 

2. no she won't, but will on a secluded beach or go nude.

3. no

glutesie #15

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/16/2007 06:53:35Copy HTML

Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?

she's tolerant when I wear my thong in the backyard. She knew I thonged when we travelled to Mexico ( I went to a beach by myself), I think she'd prefer if I didn't, but she doesn't raise a big stink. I've never bothered to ask her to come with me when I thong, I get the feeling I would be an embarrassment to her, even though my body is in great shape.

Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs?

She wears them as underwear. She will not wear a thong in public, too self-conscious.


Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did?

Nope.



Anudebeachr #16

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/18/2007 11:43:06Copy HTML

When the tan lines started to show in the spring my wife asked if i had been sunning, but never said a word about the fact that i was obviously wearering a thong. finally one afternoon I just walked out to yard in a thong and she gave the classic "no comment". When asked she said i looked great but be careful and don't get caught by the kids. she does not thong
rickl454 #17

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/19/2007 09:44:43Copy HTML

1. Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public? Not at all - I try to keep my weight under control and have made the gym my second home. At the beach one should wear whatever is comfortable. For us that's a thong or less.

2. Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs? Yes - we're nudists so wearing little or (better) nothing at all is a natrual state for us. At the beach we wear as little as the situation allows.

3. Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did? Actually we started at the same time in the 1970's on Cape Cod: progressing from bikinis to string bikinis to thongs to g-strings until we finally discovered a nude beach closer to home.
ThongLoverOBX #18

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/19/2007 10:42:15Copy HTML

1. Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public? : Unfortunately she does make a big deal when I wear thongs/g-strings in public. Which is a bummer because it makes me not want to take her to the beach with me.

2. Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs? : Unfortunately no. She was raised in a very conservative family where showing skin was basically considered a "sin" (she's still recovering from her BJU years). To her the wearing of thongs is "immodest". I've had debates with her, insisting that modesty is relative and who is to decide what is "modest" and what is not? But she won't listen. What's interesting with her, as well as most "Christians" I've met, is that they hold some values above others. For example, she claims that modesty is important... but when she's around her girlfriends I know that she sometimes drinks, curses, and lies. How's that for being "modest"?

3. Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did? : Nope.

rickl454 #19

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/20/2007 02:46:44Copy HTML

SlidingG

Yes it was Moonstone. We were regulars there until it got so well known that it became a major hassle and ended up not being worth it. Parking was always a problem for non-residents of South Kingstown. The solution was to park at Roy Carpenter's Beach to the east and walk. On weekend days you could see legions of people headed to Moonstone beach from Carpenter's parking lot. The beach got to be so well known that it would be as crowded as any other beach. My wife even met one of her grad school profs there one day (that's one way to get an "A"). We ended up parking at Green Hill - to the west of Moonstone - and walking to the federal section of Moonstone where nudity was prohibited but minimal swimwear was not.
DavyJ #20

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/25/2007 10:15:47Copy HTML

1.   Depends on where we are.  She is ok if we are on vacation and in an area where they are generally acepted and not "pushing the envelope", so to speak.  Otherwise, she gets a bit weird about it.  We have a "game" we often end up playing, where she sees how much she can tease and embarass me, and I respond by seeing how little I can get away with wearing.  Initially, I was a bit put off by her teasing, but I have come to enjoy it, so this really increases the places where I can wear thongs.  She would probably never admit it, but I have come to think she really does enjoy my thong wearing.  Sometimes it is hard to tell.  She hasn't started taking pictures yet, but I imagine that will come soon enough.  I haven't tried it with anyone we know; she would definitely not go for that.

2.   No, unfortunately.  I have tried (gently) to persuade her, but have had no sucess.  Once we were on a nude beach where over 95% of the people were nude, and she would not even take her top off.  Once or twice at nude beaches I have tried to get her to just strip down to her underwear to avoid having to find a place to change, but even that didn't work.

3.   No (see #2).

616 #21

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/28/2007 09:50:06Copy HTML

My respnses are similar to DavyJ

1. Approves out side the state where no-one knows or on vacation

2.Definately not she thinks they're un-comfortable

3.No- did try but not common

sheluvsmythong #22

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:07/12/2007 04:37:08Copy HTML

Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public? - I've only worn it once with her in a hot tub in Napa with other people in the tub and she didn't mind at all.  In fact, she likes it when I wear speedos and thong underwear.
Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs?  - Now she does, after I started getting comfortable wearing them in front of her and she got comfortable wearing them in front of me.
Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did? - Rarely, except when her husband left her for another woman and she bought thongs to make herself feel sexy. 

I love my MILF

Ex_Member #23

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:07/13/2007 05:02:43Copy HTML

We both wear them in public and we both wore them before we met
stanpuppy #24

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:08/16/2007 04:34:43Copy HTML

1. No, she strongly encourages it. We often wear them togeather on the beach or tanning at home

2. 100% of the time as underwear.  100% of the time when we are childless on the beach.  0% of the time when we have the kids at the beach of community pool

3.  She has only worn them as long as i have known her.  Same for me, so i am not sure what the exact answer is.

DavyJ #25

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:08/19/2007 06:20:31Copy HTML

Stanpuppy says:    100% of the time when we are childless on the beach.  0% of the time when we have the kids at the beach of community pool

How come?  Wouldn't it be better to show the kids there is nothing wrong or "weird" with wearing a thong?  I know attitudes on this are going to vary and depend on the age of the children, but it seems like the more we do to stigmatize thong wearing the worse off we all will be, if not initially, then certainly down the road a bit.

(PS, understand your reluctance at your community pool.  My wife wouldn't go for that either.)

stanpuppy #26

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:08/20/2007 09:29:06Copy HTML

We are really not that interested in making a social statement, we just want to enjoy ourselves.   We are totally comfortable (in the right scenario) being minimally dressed (or completely undressed...for that matter).  When our children are with us (and they are 3, 4, and 5) we just do not feel as if that is the most appropriate choice based on the dynsmics of the situation.  We save the micro swimwear when for when we can enjoy it with those of our choosing.  When we are with our very young children, we have other priorities

canucme #27

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:08/20/2007 09:49:48Copy HTML

Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public? No, she actually encourages it and wishes I wore only that!
Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs? Absolutely! As underwear and swimwear! WW fan!
Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did? don't know, when we met we we're both already wearing them!
Ex_Member #28

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:09/15/2007 11:37:58Copy HTML

Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public? Overall, she doesn't mind, even when we're at a crowded beach and I'm a little cautious about wearing a thong, she's like "who cares what people think? you'll never see these people again"

Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs? Only as underwear. Never in public.

Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did? Yes.
sherryrandy #29

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:09/22/2007 02:24:38Copy HTML

Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public? Not at all. She has been encouraging me to try it. Maybe one of these days I will. I see a lot of thongers go to Ft. Desoto. Have to check things out over there and see. She already insists I always wear a bikini or speedo. She doesn't approve of those aweful long shorts that so many guys wear. So I guess the thong is my next step.

Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs? Only as underwear. Not yet in public, but she says she is willing to try it.

Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did? No. That's mostly all we wear as underwear, but I wore them first. She started after we met. Neither of us at the beach yet, but we would like to give it a try. Might help if we see some other thongers there from both of the genders.
Ex_Member #30

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:09/25/2007 07:13:46Copy HTML

1.  Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?
No not at all, she seems to enjoy me wearing them. 

2.  Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs?

Yes and I think think this why she doesn't mind if I also wear them

3. Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did?

Yes   she did and still does

thongjake #31

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:10/01/2007 01:49:05Copy HTML

1. Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?
She would prefer I didn't, but she accepts it

2. Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs?
Yes, she almost only wear thongs for underwear. I got her a thong bikini but bad weather has prevented her from wearing it yet.

3. Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did?
I don't know but I don't think so, because she was only 13 when I started wearing them. (When I was 15)
thonglife #32

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:10/15/2007 11:30:59Copy HTML

Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?
No, she encourages me to wear what I want and likes my confidence

Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs?
Yes, she always did as underwear and now as swim wear at times too.

Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did?
Yes, but not in public. I encouraged her to try them as swim wear on the beach for the first time.
mrhb2003 #33

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:04/19/2008 07:59:15Copy HTML

 Seems like most are in the same situation I am.  She doesn't mind (and will jump to my defence when necessary) but wont make the plunge herself!?  She has a smoking figure and puts women to shame half her age!  (44)I was going to ask how one would convince the misses to take the plunge, but it seems folks is folks and it's gonna be if and when she feels comfortable. A coupla times on vacation but never at home.  Maybe with the new boat I can convince her if we are off shore!
JM_Runs #34

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:04/20/2008 12:43:06Copy HTML

You are right "it's gonna be if and when she feels comfortable".  I am not sure that a new boat is the key.

You may want to very carefully consider if a little competition would not spur her along.  Women can be quite competitive, so long as they are not feeling invaded.  It is touchy, but it is worth some 'careful' consideration.

It sounds like she is comfortable when away on vacation.  Is that because she will not run into any one she knows, or is it because of the more relaxed attitude from the surrounding people?  How does she feel about her self, and her self confidence?  I think you need to figure that out before hoping something you do will change her. You need to know what makes her comfortable in one situation and not in another. The real reasons my be difficult to get at, you have to talk it through a bit.

Self image and confidence comes from deep inside and is not easily changed by hardware upgrades, (new boat), but may be changed through more relaxation and more enjoyment of the occasions.  Does she really enjoy the day when you are out in thongs?  What can you do to increase her pleasure on those days?

I have found that a women’s attitude can change a lot when they get a lot of attention, and when other women see and approve....  For example, lets say I am on the beach in a thong with a women who does not thong.  She may start out by being a bit embarrassed of, or for me in my thong...  But after I show that I have eyes for her only, and proceed to give her a long sensuous massage with the suntan oil, that attitude changes.  Now she is lapping it up and other women are no longer looking over with a disapproving look but with looks of envy.  It's like she were thinking, oh yeah, I have a gorgeous man, in a thong, paying lavish attention to me, and all you can do is wish you were me.  After that she will tuck in the sides of her own swim suit to make it as small as possible, maybe not a thong, but we are going that way. She is longer embarrassed by having a man in a thong, for this man gives massages and I am feeling like a queen, and other women are jealous.  Not that she is the jealous type, but it is nice, once in a while, to be envied by others.
chris0721 #35

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:04/20/2008 09:48:35Copy HTML

Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?
I keep doing it and she is slowly warming up to the process but thinks I am nuts.

Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs?
No

Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did?
No
modelnude4u #36

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:04/21/2008 12:34:36Copy HTML

Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?
She is grudingly accepting. 
Everytime we travel, she asks if I brought a "Normal" swimsuit, but she's been on the beach with me in a thong before.

Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs?
She's tried them a time or two as underwear, but never swimwear.  As many others in this thread have, I blame it on body issues.

Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did?
I wore them secretly before she did.  I got her started and then told her I'd like to try them too.
They stuck with me but not with her.
Microron #37

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:04/23/2008 08:26:22Copy HTML

I've worn thongs for most of the years of our marriage... well over 30 years. My wife is not a thong wearer... she doesn't find them comfortable but she does enjoy going topless on appropriate beaches. The only times that she has worn thongs are for intimate moments in private places.
Ex_Member #38

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:05/01/2008 09:46:24Copy HTML

My wife insists I can wear thongs at the beach whenever I want, as long as that's what I'm comfortable with! She says if anyone else has a problem, it's their problem, not mine!

She wears thong underwear 99.9% of the time, and used to wear thongs to the beach a few times when we were younger and she hadn't had kids (the body image is preventing her now, but she's working on that!)

I wore thongs occasionally when I met her, and started buying them for her as sets of lingerie. I'd buy her a bra, brief, and thong, in the same set, so it was her choice. Now I have no other underwear but thongs, and she is a 99.9% wearer (for the obvious womens' reason). I wear thongs to the beach a lot, she wears skimpyish bikinis, and I'm working on her!
intellamour #39

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:07/24/2008 04:49:34Copy HTML

 He loves me in my WW or Skinz!  Very supportive.
I wear thongs 100% as underwear and 75% as swimwear (when we go with non-thong friends).  He wears them about the same.

We met with me wearing a sheer red thong and him wearing...plain white briefs!
koalafan #40

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:07/26/2008 10:20:11Copy HTML

I've never worn a thong in public yet but my girlfriend doesn't like the fact that I wear thongs full stop. I've worn thongs and g-strings for about seven years now but not exclusively. She has worn thongs as underwear 100% of the time since the age of 15 and owns a few thong swimsuits yet still makes negative comments about my choice of underwear. She also doesn't like the fact that I shave most of my body hair. I do wonder though how much of this is her own opinion and how much is due to social conditioning.  
showoffmark #41

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:07/26/2008 01:44:52Copy HTML

My partner doesn't mind my wearing a thong to the beach but I think only because we are usually away on vacation when I do. Thong underwear is not an issue except when I spend to much money on-line purchasing. I'm the one unhappy with his underwear. I have to throw out his worn tighty whighties  or he would keep them till there are too many holes to still call them briefs.
clubthongs #42

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Date Posted:07/28/2008 02:10:43Copy HTML

Both my partner and I enjoy wearing thongs as swimwear. However, this season he seems to be wearing more rio back bikinis than thongs. I am more inclined to wear thongs when the situation allows.
depiladobcn #43

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:01/12/2009 05:40:30Copy HTML

 1. At the beginning She did not like me wearing them. But now she is used to and  she even prefers that I wear them.
 
 2.  Sometimes. She thinks they're not for her.
 
 3. No.
tanandtaut #44

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:01/12/2009 09:26:12Copy HTML

Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?

Since I wore one on our honeymoon, she has accepted the fact, but is less than supportive.  Since that's the way she married me, she can't complain too much.  She does not like all the attention that comes my way - finding it embarrassing.  When I wear my most extreme suits or ring or go nude, I usually leave her out of the picture and go alone. 

Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs?

No.

Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did?

N/A.
T-Back #45

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:01/18/2009 09:57:23Copy HTML

My partner does not understand, but tries to!  I am fortunate.  He is a tighty-whitey guy and I like the skimpy thongs.  I don't wear thong all the time (about 50%) the other 50% is skimpy bikinis.  When I wear a thong to bed, he know what I want.  Gradually, I have gotten him to understand that I love foreplay while wearing my thongs.  Sometimes, he really gets into me wearing a thong and others, he just wants to remove it.  I am making progress.  Recently, I bought him a pair of square cut trunks.  I have stopped trying to get him to wear thongs - it's not going to happen.  He asked me the other day WHY I loved them and I explained and, while he did not understand, he listened.  
In his eyes, he can't understand why I bought ANOTHER thong (I have 100+).  Whenever, he says, "Is that new?"  -  I say, "Oh no, this is years old", but somehow it gives me reason to scour the web for the latest design.  
For me thongs are so hot, that sex without them seems less.  Are there any solutions? 
woodyone #46

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:02/02/2009 11:59:43Copy HTML

Yes me and the wife both wear thong's
ownpool #47

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:03/14/2009 03:35:22Copy HTML

I swim in a thong or totally nude.  Often my wife wears a two-piece, but sometimes she swims nude.
bajaflyer #48

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:04/02/2009 04:45:11Copy HTML

My wife does not have an issue with me wearing a thong in our pool, even with neighbors over.  I also thong 24/7. I dont think she would have an issue with me thonging in public, as I have yet to have the opportunity to do so. The first time I thonged infront of people other than her and the kids was two years ago. i said I was surprised that she did not say much about it. Her reply was, "the more I say about your thongs and them showing, the less you wear." So I guess she's just going to go along with it, and figures if she says more that I'll likely just start going nude. She only wears thong underware, when the mood strikes her.
tnline #49

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:04/02/2009 06:58:10Copy HTML

1. Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public – Not at all, though I am more likely to wear a thong solo at the beach. When we go together my wife will usually wear a thong swim suit too

2. Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs? Yes.  I generally wear a thong only to the beach while she often wears thong underwear
3. Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did?  I was first.  We were dating and she lived in CT and I lived on the beach in MA.  I spent the later part of a summer wearing a thong to the beach so it was a surprise to her when I first got naked with a thong tan line.  She soon purchased her first thong bikini for a trip we made to the Bahamas.
TDuctman #50

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:04/19/2009 05:06:29Copy HTML

1. Yes, my girlfriend really minds. She things it looks gayish. It is a pitty as I really like wearing them. I think they are extremely comfortable and sexy. I really wonder how I can change her mind.

2. Yes, she wears skimpy thongs 95% of the time.

3. She was wearing it when I got to know her. She did not know that I had thongs too. Freaked out out when I was wearing one
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