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epicinspeedo #101

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:05/16/2013 02:10:03Copy HTML

 1- she doesn't mind, I think she likes them more as I have made weight loss a priority, and she enjoys how I'm starting to look in a thong.2 she doesn't wear them3 I can't imagine she will change her mind, unfortunately.
JM_Runs #102

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:12/22/2013 07:29:09Copy HTML

LOL, my wife won't wear a thong in public, although she'll go to a nude beach with me and partake fully.  I love nude beaches but sometimes you can't go, and a thong is the next best thing to nude.  I absolutely cannot stand those $&@* board shorts; if I am at the beach I want to swim and move around and dry off quickly without some stupid wet baggy thing hanging on me.  I am in good shape and still weigh what I did in high school, so after 27 years of marriage I figured correctly that she would put up with my preference.  Turns out she likes the thongs (on me only) but she gets nervous and uptight about what other people think.  Best place I've found where we can both be comfortable is Haulover Beach, where you can either be nude within the designated area, or put on a tiny g string and walk the much larger "textile" areas as well.  The tiniest g string there doesn't draw much attention because those areas aren't crowded and anyone there probably has already seen it all anyway.
JM_Runs #103

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:02/24/2014 09:28:28Copy HTML

A study found LGBT people living in bigoted communities tend to die earlier. 

http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2014/02/24/lgbt-people-living-in-bigoted-communities-tend-to-die-earlier-study-finds/


Given the continuing level of anxiety some experience from a disproving spouse this may be true for some thongers too.
RapidBlue #104

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:03/21/2014 05:09:18Copy HTML

 1. My former SO liked thongs on me. She wasn't very comfortable with me wearing them in public but accepted it. In private a thong was the only thing she wanted to see me in.2. She would wear thong undies but never swimwear.3. I started wearing thongs long before she did and long before we met.
Thongdude87 #105

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:03/22/2014 05:41:25Copy HTML

 My new girlfriend doesn't mind, she likes me in them. We are possibly going to a warmer country together this summer and I've already said I will wear thongs to the beach. She hasn't protested on it so it seems I have her support although we only discussed it shortly once some weeks ago.
JM_Runs #106

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:03/23/2014 05:34:55Copy HTML

 1. My gf loves to see me in thongs, and is incredibly supportive of me wearing them. She insists (and i agree with her,) that i use a great deal of discretion when thonging alone on the beach. Can't be too careful where i live; there are some weird people here that have probably never seen a thong on a man before lol. Even if i don't think i'm at risk, it's worth both our peace of minds to be safe. Most people here are great, but every now and then someone's horrible id comes out and the results tend to be violent. The city i live in has one of the highest percentages of hate crimes in the state of florida. That said, i've never had any problems and intend to keep it that way by choosing my ground, covering up or leaving if i don't feel safe (i've gotten weird vibes but not unsafe ones directed at me) and for last resort there's martial arts and pepper spray ;) of course, in safer and more thong friendly areas i'm going to be a lot less paranoid-seeming.
2. My gf has a couple thong bikinis but hasn't worn them out yet; she's getting close to where she'd be comfortable wearing them though, and i have no desire to rush her. Plenty of upcoming opportunities :) She does wear thong underwear occasionally but prefers bikinis as she finds them more comfortable for everyday wear.
3. She's worn thong underwear for much longer than I have, since the 90s; i started wearing thongs six years ago lol, but i started laying out in them first (beginning last year)
thonglife #107

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:03/23/2014 03:07:07Copy HTML

1) Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?
She has wavered back and forth over the years but now says she does not like guys in thongs, including me. However she knows I enjoy wearing them so she allows me to thong on my own and also joins me on less crowded or private beaches. She prefers me to wear speedo/bikini suits or go nude but respects my confidence to wear thongs/g's.

2) Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs?
Yes but not as passionately as me. She likes wearing g-strings in private and cheeky bottoms everywhere else.

3) Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did?
Underwear yes, swimwear no. I introduced her to Malibu Strings then Wicked Weasel bikinis.

stanpuppy #108

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:03/26/2014 12:55:08Copy HTML

 OMG thonglife....I was almost temped to just copy your exact thread and post it as my own.  That is exactly my situation!!!!
Microron #109

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:03/27/2014 09:41:13Copy HTML

On a recent vacation to the North shore Cuba... My wife volunteered to take pictures of me on the beach in my thongs... Take a look at the most recent uploads... Then you'll know how the wife has spoken to this question.~ ~ ~ MicroRon ~ ~ ~ The Less You Wear ~ ~ ~ The More Important The Fit !!~~!!
Krizay #110

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:03/28/2014 03:20:27Copy HTML

 At first my wife was fine with it, and she knows that I rarely wear "real underwear", and by that I mean boxer brides; however, she knows that I truly enjoy wearing gstrings. She has tried to compromise with me on different types or styles of underwear, but I'm not sure what would offer the same feel around the goods that my Roma g-strings offer, but that neither here no there. She does wear them as underwear more often than not. She has many thong/g-string bikinis and last summer I can count on one hand the times that she didn't wear them. She says that she loves the tan she gets from wearing them plus they look better and feel better too. She was wearing them before I was.
JM_Runs #111

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:05/19/2014 01:38:48Copy HTML

The joke can be found after just past 11:15
http://youtu.be/U3BYXjWm9_g
LoveMyThongs #112

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:12/24/2015 08:18:52Copy HTML

When I first met my wife our second date was at the beach. She striped down to a thong and when I did too she was blown away. Loved it and the tan lines. She loved I wore thong underwear and she never saw a guy in em. 11 years later we only thong
undercover20 #113

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:12/25/2015 02:03:12Copy HTML

 My girl doesn't mind, as a matter of fact, she loves it when I wear a thong. Makes it easier to grab my ass ;) And she is a thong swimwearer too 
bronzedbuns85 #114

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:12/25/2015 06:04:33Copy HTML

 She thinks they are silly on guys but ultimately doesn't care if I wear them for underwear. Have never done it by the pool or beach.
NudeNArizona #115

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:12/28/2015 12:39:28Copy HTML

 Actually my wife prefers me to wear G-strings, I usually don't wear underwear but she wants me to wear them so I will for her, and the only underwear I own are G-string as with her.
Happy_Thonger #116

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:12/28/2015 03:29:10Copy HTML

My wife loves them. Loves the look. The tan lines. The "edginess". I don't wear anything esle. Nor does she. 
Latex_Fan #117

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:12/28/2015 04:32:25Copy HTML

 By GF loves me to wear thongs and g-strings. She loves to go shopping for me and comes home with some amazing items both make and female variations.  She tries to find items that match either in colour of fabric. We often go out, even to the supermarket, in matching thongs.  Her favourite is the Wicked Weasel 611 for her and the 609 or 607 for me.
Beached_Santa_Cruz #118

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:12/30/2015 03:22:33Copy HTML

 My GF of one year hasn't gone anywhere with me where I could wear a thong in public.  She does approve of my wearing them as underwear.  I've got several David Alexander g-strings, a lot of Joe Snyder thongs and string bikinis.  She loves them on me.  I've even got her wearing thong underwear now.

My GF lives in San Diego and I live in Santa Cruz.  When I go to her place I try to pack light so I always pack a pair of leggings/tights.  I was down there for Christmas and packed my black Matty M leggings that I bought at Costco a few weeks ago.   I usually wear them around her house rather than jeans.  One morning we were going out for breakfast and I said I was going to change into my jeans and she said "Why?".  She said the leggings looked great on me and I should wear them to breakfast.  I wore them and told her about "meggings".  She googled "meggings" and loved them and stories about them.   When we saw her daughter who's 31 that afternoon asked me why I was wearing leggings?  I asked her why she wears them and that I had the same reason.  They're comfortable!  We got into a "discussion" on meggings and she insisted that guys tights are baggier at the top.  I told her I had several pair of men's tights and capris and that they fit the same as women's leggings and the womens leggings were way cheaper.  Anyway, we all went out for sushi, my GF, her two sisters (one 65 and the other 70), and my GF daughter. My GF and her sisters insisted I not change into my jeans and wear the leggings to dinner.
CDNThongLover #119

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:01/10/2016 03:44:33Copy HTML

 My wife doesn't mind at all that I wear thongs and gstrings.  She found out when we were dating that I wore them.  We had been dating for about three months when I first wore a thong to bed.  At first she was surprised, but really liked it too.  Needless to say, it was a good night.  I wore them more often from then on.  She also found out that I wear them because I was using a tanning bed before going on a vacation and she saw my thong tan lines.  No problems at all!
danny108 #120

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:01/10/2016 10:50:41Copy HTML

Mine thinks it all a bit weird and doesn't get it. I don;t care! I'm confident and proud to be a thong wearer.
JM_Runs #121

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:01/19/2016 04:05:25Copy HTML

 My wife knows I wear panties.   I also have some men's thongs, but I mainly wear thong panties.  She even has gone shopping with me to get panties.  
nautirogue #122

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:04/07/2016 03:18:01Copy HTML

1) Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?

She's not a big fan of guys in thongs, but she doesn't mind me wearing thongs when we're on vacation at Hedonism.  I've worn a thong on Lake Michigan beaches before, and she didn't say anything, but I'm sure she would have preferred that I wear a square-cut or at least a bikini.

2) Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs? 

Yes, she wears thong bikinis all the time when we're on our boat on Lake Michigan.  She wears them openly and without concern on public Lake Michigan beaches.  She's worn them in our gym's co-ed hot tub, and at hotel hot tubs.  

3) Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did? 

I wore thong underwear before I met her, but she also wore thongs before we met.  An ex-girlfriend had gotten me into it, and I just decided that I liked to wear them and it didn't matter what anyone else thinks.  However, I had never worn a thong in public until after I met my current wife.  For that matter, neither had she.  I bought her some Wicked Weasel thong bikinis to wear on my boat after we had met, and she liked being able to wear the minimal swimwear in public.  Now, I like to push the limits with her and buy even skimpier and more revealing styles for her.  Last summer, I bought her the Wicked Weasel Mega-Mesh bikini.  The mesh holes in this bikini are so large that her nipples poke out.  She wore the bikini to a Lake Michigan beach and wore it in public.  Her nipples and aureola were completely visible, as was her pubic landing strip, the slit of her vagina, and her ass crack!  Hot suit, but when we saw her tan lines later that night, we laughed for half an hour!  She had spotted tanginess from all the mesh holes.  The suit is very cool, but the tanginess are a huge drawback.  That was the only time she's worn it.
JM_Runs #123

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:04/07/2016 08:19:50Copy HTML

1) Yes.  But only because she doesn't like the attention it tends to bring.  Privately, she couldn't care less and we're wearing as little as possible/nothing at all.2) Yes.3) It's probably a tie.  We both started in our late teens.
AussieExPoser #124

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:04/07/2016 11:58:14Copy HTML

 1) Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?
She Loves it and it's the main thing that attracted her to me in the first place

2) Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs?
She would love to but hasn't got the figure for it at present so just goes topless at all beaches

3) Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did?
About the same 2 years or so ago
dk31 #125

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:04/15/2016 10:00:33Copy HTML

 My wife used to wear them (claims she's too big now)..Not true I say...but there you are...so I'm the thong wearer (about 20 years now) in the house.I'm totally shaved and work-out religiously at the gym...so she's happy to see me struttin my stuff around the house. 
Nuwalket #126

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:04/15/2016 10:17:18Copy HTML

 1) We only crossed that question when I stumbled on the thong section of the beach. Then it was off to find one she liked. So I've only worn one in public a few times. 
2) 30 plus years of marriage and my underwear has gotten skimpier from bikinis to thongs but I usually go commando.
3) Neither of us wore thongs before we met. She still feels uncomfortable in them.
skipp2016 #127

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/02/2017 08:23:29Copy HTML

1.) My wife is who has been encouraging me to wear thongs in public.

2.) I don't think my wife owns a pair of underwear or swimwear that isn't a thong or g-string.

3.) Before we met she wore thongs as underwear, but not as swimwear. We met our freshman year of college. At that time I was a "boxers and board shorts" guy. For our first anniversary she bought me a thong and I immediately loved it.

Within six months thongs and jockstraps were all I owned and to this day all I wear (thongs as underwear, jockstraps for working out).

For our honeymoon in 2014 she bought a thong swimsuit and I bought a few mid-thigh swim trunks from Orlebar Brown.

Since then she has only worn thong swimwear and has been trying to get me to wear thongs on the beach but I've been reluctant.
However, I think she's finally won and on our upcoming vacation in a few weeks I'm only taking swim briefs and thongs. We shall see how it goes! 
Happy_Thonger #128

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/04/2017 04:32:52Copy HTML

My wife loves them and encourages me to wear whatever I like. She wears only thong underwear and has a few thing bikinis she mixes up with her Brazilian cut options. I only wear thing underwear and mostly thong swimwear as well, in public and in private. We are a happy, thong wearing family.  
tiggerix #129

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:06/06/2017 08:50:11Copy HTML

1) Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?

She used to be tolerant but less so the past few years - she would rather me nude or speedo - she prefers a racer fit on me, which I will agree can look good).  Like many of us if more normal guys wore thongs; she would accept them.  I figure that I need to try again with thongs and let her get used to seeing me on the beach.  She worries what people think and doesn't quite get that most people aren't bothered.

 

2) Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs? 

She has grown in confidence, wearing what she calls cheeky suits - they are thongs though.

3) Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did? 

She has always worn bikinis, but wearing thongs is more recent, in line with the trend towards cheeky bottoms. 
NudeNArizona #130

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:08/19/2017 08:31:41Copy HTML

 1) Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?

This was a real issue with my EX WIFE, even though I wore G-strings prior to meeting her, and even when we dated and were first married, she wore them as well and even worked in a Victoria's Secret as a manager. Then once we had kids SHE had a MAJOR issue with my choice of swimwear and underwear.  So when I first met and started dating my current wife G-string were a serious topic, and she was VERY supporting of me wearing them and was willing to join me.


2) Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs?

She wore thongs as underwear when we met but had never wore one as a swimsuit before we started dating, but since being together she has switched to much briefer G-strings for underwear and swimwear if she isn't nude


3) Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did?

Yes she wore thong underwear but not swimwear priot to meeting
Sunfly #131

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:09/12/2017 07:14:56Copy HTML

1) Does your Spouse or S.O. mind that you wear thongs in public?

She does not express any displeasure with it. Sometimes she encourages me by pinching my cheek or telling me I look hot. I think on some level she gets self-conscious in certain contexts but doesn't let it show.

2) Does your Spouse or S.O. also like to wear thongs?

I wouldn't say she likes to but I have convinced her a couple of times when there was nobody else around. She's more the skinny-dipping type.

3) Did your Spouse or S.O. wear them before you did? 

No way. She had some body image issues when we first started dating (married 7 years now) and would wear running shorts and a tank top to swim in, despite having a great body. I strongly encouraged her to try a bikini and she now will usually wear a fairly conservative bikini.
32189 #132

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:09/17/2017 07:07:51Copy HTML

My spouse does not mind if I wear thongs in public.  It took some warming up to the idea so at first it was not easy for her to deal with it.  She has been out with me a few times while I thonged and I think she understands more that people do not really care.



motox295 #133

Re:Does your Spouse / Partner Mind ? ( Girlfriend Boyfriend wife husband - think)

Date Posted:11/17/2018 03:26:34Copy HTML

 I love this board and have read most all the post, this is the first one that I just had to absolutely reply to.


1)  I had been trying to talk her into wearing them at the beach, she said she would if I did too. I thinks she thought I wouldnt do it.  She bought her first one in Aruba and picked one out for me to wear, I already had several but never wore one in public.

2)  She has always worn thong underwear, this was our first time at the beach

3) She wore them before me, but I am catching up, We now wear them in Columbus and Cleveland at the parks.  I have a few times without her, but its always better when she is there.

After her getting through the first time nerves she has got really at ease, I dont think either of us could go back to regular bikinis or board shorts.

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