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Date Posted:07/18/2017 02:18:16Copy HTML

I was wondering if anyone (besides me) has met a fellow thonger on the beach (at a lake or wherever), hit it off, and wound up dating that thonger.  I am interested in people who were both in thongs when they first met.  Dating to me means going out together (someplace other than the beach) and doing so at least once.

My husband Randy and I first met on the beach.  I was thonging (I was not into topfreedom in public yet -- he taught me how cool that was later) and he comes along, slips his tiny little shorts off, and has on the cutest thong.  This was at a time when guys were not afraid or ashamed to wear thongs.  He was alone and when he exposed his buns, I decided it was time to go over and meet him.  We spent the day at the beach together and later went to my house to have dinner with my parents.  I had never taken a guy I had just met home the day I met him before, but Randy was special.  Mom gave him two thumbs up.  She really liked him a lot, and he liked everyone else in the family.  We did all the normal dating stuff -- went to movies, went out for dinners, etc.  We continued to go to the beach together or meet at the beach, but our relationship was more than just beach related.  Seven years, two jobs for each of us, and several living changes and we finally tied the knot.  I first met Randy about 20 years ago.

He was the type of guy who I would have checked out better if I met him in a different location.  I just think the shared interest in thonging made our relationship kick in a little faster.  I like to think I would have dated him anyway -- even if the first time I saw him, he was not wearing a thong, but there is no way to know.  My sister, Nikki, actually met him before me, and actually got to see him nude first (he had modeled at a college art class she had taken).  There was a little sibling rivalry between us, but Randy was more interested in me from the start -- even though Nikki was also into thongs.  He said he would have probably run with Nikki for a while if he had met her at the beach first, but once he met me, he liked me so much more that any such thoughts would have quickly left his mind.

Has anyone else dated a fellow thonger, and how did it turn out for the two of you?

JM_Runs #1

Re:Meeting a thonger and dating them later

Date Posted:07/18/2017 02:38:14Copy HTML

For many years a thong is about the only thing I have worn on the beach or when boating. I have been dated by women who approached me on the beach, when I was wearing a thong, and they were too.

I often meet women thongers on the beach. However most of the time I have NOT ended up seriously dating a thonger that I approached.
The ones I ended up dating tend to be the ones who approached me, who were interested in me when I was in a thong, including my ex-wife.   

Never was it when I was sitting around, but always when I was doing something: Sailing, running, playing volleyball with friends, etc.

I have also ended up living with women who I met else where, off the beach, and they were generally not so keen, or ambivalent, about thonging.

I am not currently going to the beach to run, because of an ankle problem. I am not currently dating. Maybe there is a correlation. 

As a general rule I think it is better to be friendly to all, and let the women who are interested in a man in a thong make the first move.  
Most women I have dated have come over to me to join in an activity or showed interest in what I was DOING, (other than just sitting or lying around.)

We often have posts on this board from young men who wish to meet women who like to thong, or asking how to approach women in thongs.  They are a women in a thong, so they know almost every straight man, and half the gay women on the beach are interested. They know this, but as a rule they don't want lots of people coming over to bother them, no matter how good your intentions might be.

It has been my experience that on the beach it is best to let the women make the first move. Act confident: Most times, if they are at all interested, they will come to you.  If you want to make first contact, a simple thumbs up when passing will do. 

The key to getting women to come to you is to be doing something other than sitting like a lump. For example paying frisbee or flying a kite. If a women is interested she will come over to ask questions. If there is no wind for a kite get out your painters easel and start painting. You don't have to be good. It is just an excuse for her to be more curious, without it looking too forward.

It is also an excuse for her to get up and show off her thong, by walking around, and then nonchalantly moving around while talking to you. Give them an excuse to show off a little too. If they enjoy that, they will enjoy their visit with you. 
The Swan #2

Re:Meeting a thonger and dating them later

Date Posted:07/21/2017 12:46:41Copy HTML

 I've dated women I've met on the beach, but I've always been the one wearing a thong. Although I have had a few wild experiences on the beach while thonging, it seems the women I meet on the beach, while having a physical attractiveness, don't have the mental attractiveness I need to sustain the relationship. It's not say the women I meet on the beach are not right for somebody else, they just were not right for me. I've actually had more success in dating and long term relationships meeting women at coffee houses and wine tastings.

As for dating a fellow thonger, except for my ex-wife (who I met at work), I've never dated a woman who wore thongs. Some non-thongers had sheer or lacy panties or rather sheer bathing suits, but no thongs. My current girlfriend of three years has never even tried on a thong and wears the most conservative panties. I developed a relationship with her at a weekly wine tasting. While she now loves me in thong and is always disappointed if I don't have one on, she wont wear them. Que sera sera.
LoveMyThongs #3

Re:Meeting a thonger and dating them later

Date Posted:09/22/2018 06:59:33Copy HTML

Before I met my wife I met a male thonger at the beach with a solid bulge and fantastic tan lines. We hit off really well and hung the whole day. I invited him back to my apt to hang and. Have a beer. When I greeted him in my thong and nothing else, you can guess the rest and we dated for two years!!
NudeNArizona #4

Re:Meeting a thonger and dating them later

Date Posted:11/28/2018 07:52:27Copy HTML

When I first met my wife we were talking and she was flirting with me and let me know she wore thong underwear in our conversations and her preference of sleeping nude, so as we talked while being friends she also let me know she had never wore a thong to the beach even though she lived just a few miles from Destin beach in Florida and her reason was she didn't have anyone to go with and she didn't want to ask her friends to go with her and either surprise them or shock them when she wore her thong. This friendship lasted for 2 years before I was in a position to actually visit her in Destin due to where we were both assigned. Then the opportunity arose I had to go for training in Biloxi, Ms. for a month and during my trip I had a rental car the entire time, so I planned on visiting her my first weekend. So thru numerous e-mails and phone calls we planned our visit, and since up until this point we had only been friends she let me know she had a 2 bedroom 2 bath and I was welcome to stay with her for the weekend, but she did remind me of her nude preferences so not to scare me off. Friday I finished my training early and was on the road by 3PM and was in Ft. Walton around 6PM. When I arrived I didn't mention anything about wearing thongs to the beach but did mention how I would like to go which she was up for. Then we ordered a pizza and decided to stay in that evening, and later on she mentioned about wearing a thong but admitted she hadn't purchased a swim thong, so i let her know I anticipated this and had already prepared and brought one for her, which really shocked her. Then I also reassured her that she wouldn't be going alone and I showed her my G-string I had brought which was noticeably smaller and sheerer in coverage compared to the thong I purchased for her, which she mentioned was more close to her G-string underwear. So I figured at this point nothing was to lose so I ask her to show me what she was talking about, and she went into the bedroom and brought out a pink fishnet G-string with a similar style v-string back and sides. So I ask her if she would rather wear her G-string instead of the thong I brought her. At this point she was still unsure so I assured her either would be fine and I just didn't want to force her into something too extreme for her first time and the decision was hers. After talking for a while and relaxing over a few drinks she went into the bedroom to change into the thong bikini I brought to model it for me, then she ask me if she could see what mine looked like on so she could get a true comparison. But as I went into the spare room to change into my G-string she went and also changed into only her pink fishnet G-string which to my surprise was quite small as I came out of the spare room. I complimented her on how nice she looked in it especially since she had been using the tanning bed nude and had no tan lines as she also noticed I was free of tan lines and pubic hair. She mentioned she wasn't sure about the G-string since her pubes were visible thru the fabric and wasn't sure if she wanted to go completely bald down below. I told her it was her decision but if she didn't like the shaved clean look she could always grow it back and if she didn't like the fishnet she could wear the thong I brought. My comments got her thinking and she ask for my opinion, and I told her personally I preferred being shaved because nothing showed thru the fabric, but with sheer fabrics everything was more visible especially when wet this might be something she might want to see before being surprised on the beach. She pondered my comments and decided to give it a test, first getting the G-string wet then showering and shaving the remaining pubes off to my surprise. Because I expected her try the thong first after shaving but instead she came out of the bathroom soaking wet in the fishnet G-string which now was completely transparent except for the strings and commented "how do I look?"
thedruid #5

Re:Meeting a thonger and dating them later

Date Posted:01/05/2019 11:47:16Copy HTML

NudeNArizona: So how did it go, did you guys go to the beach? And did she choose to wear the fish net G-string?
NudeNArizona #6

Re:Meeting a thonger and dating them later

Date Posted:01/09/2019 02:33:27Copy HTML

Thedruid, yes we did go to the beach the next day and she decided on wearing the thong initially to get a feel for wearing a minimal bikini for her first time. After laying out for a while we decided to take a walk down the beach and on our walk we saw a couple who were sitting back away from the shoreline who appeared nude, so when we got back to our things she decided to switch into the fishnet bottom and forego the top as we also decided to move down the beach to where we saw the nude couple. After moving we both removed our bottoms and as we laid out the other couple passed us walking to the water both wearing G-strings
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