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blackthong

Date Posted:12/28/2005 10:55:00Copy HTML

The other day I was sitting at my computer and watching tv and my mom walks in with a few things in her hands.    She wasnt mad or anything but she said i was washing some of your clothes and found this in your clothes pile.   She tossed me my black thong I bought from Wal-Mart.   I got RED. LOL  She asked if it was a gag or something and I said no.  Then she said that is girls underwear and where did I get it.  I told her No I bought these not long back and they are mens underwear.   I told her to check it out the next time she goes to Wal-Mart.  She just kinda laughed about it and that was it.  Boy,  that was a uncomfortable moment for me.  HAHA  But in a way, im kinda relieved someone knows I wear them.  I just hope she doesnt go telling everyone. 
thong bassist #1

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:12/30/2005 03:52:03Copy HTML

Believe me, when everyone knows about your thongs, you'll feel way more comfortable. I used to hide mine from my parents. When I joined a band I used to strip down to a thong on our last song. Of course my parents were at a few of the shows, and probably haven't seen me that naked since I was a baby. Anyways, they told everybody, and now it's a running gag in my family. It's actually funny because my grandma will ask me if I'm wearing my "silver sack". Do they think it's weird? Yes. Do I care? No. Is it a great topic of conversation? Hell Yes!

Ex_Member #2

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:01/01/2006 06:40:06Copy HTML

I'm kind of overwhelmed. My mom found out today also. I had decided, not for the first time, to sleep in nothing but a thong last night. I set my alarm to wake me up at 9:30 so we could go to church; but, apparently I set it incorrectly. The next thing I knew, my mom performed the universal mother "get him up" tactic. She jokingly turned on my light and ripped my comforter off me. I was sleeping on my stomach, so she got a full view! All I heard was "It's time to...errr....get...up...". I tried to remain calm, so I smiled and said "...just my New Years pajamas!" and laughed. She laughed too, and was never angry or upset.
thong bassist #3

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:01/01/2006 10:11:08Copy HTML

That's the best way to approach it. Comedy is the only way I've been able to be open and comfortable about wearing thongs. I wouldn't sweat it. I'm sure she'd rather be suprised at your underwear selection than find out you had some substance abuse problem. Being a Christian, I find it funny that I wear thongs. Thongs are sometimes equated with secularism, which I find funny.
Ex_Member #4

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:01/02/2006 03:57:31Copy HTML

Yeah, humor always works in dealing with it. In fact, before I went to bed, she reassured me that what kind of underwear I wear is of no concern to her. Then I started thinking of what had happened just that morning, and I told her, "Boy, what a way to kick in the new year!" She just started laughing!
undercover20 #5

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:01/02/2006 05:31:30Copy HTML

my mom's known for atleast a year now and I don't think she really likes me wearing them when I'm at home but oh well.
thong bassist #6

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:01/03/2006 11:18:22Copy HTML

What would she prefer; you wearing thongs or doing drugs? The choice seems pretty clear.
sheluvsmythong #7

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:01/03/2006 02:41:50Copy HTML

My mom hasn't found out I wear thongs but because my Undergear catalog comes to the house, I think she's figured it out.  All she said when she saw the catalog in the mail is "Eh sexy boy, a catalog came for you."
skelly24 #8

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:01/28/2006 10:36:37Copy HTML

My mom always just folded them with my underwear, and never said a word.  She once caught me thonging in their back yard when I was visiting them on a break from college.  She didn't say anything then either.  She always had us in a speedo as kids(3 boys) so I guess she was sort of responsible!

This past week I recieved an undergear catalog in the mail.  When I went to her house to visit, she said that some thing came for me in the mail.  I was surprised to see the same catalog had been sent there also.  My dad said that he was sorry they had opened it,  but they had to order him a swimsuit  from Undergear once they saw the cover!!!!

My parents are totally cool!!!

I am going to they gym to swim in my Dore very low cut push-up blue bikini right now.  Been doing it now for weeks and no one seems to mind the TINY  FRONT  and 1/4 INCH SIDES!!!   It has been such a rush! Today I am only taking a wash cloth to sit on... so I can't cover up at all!!!

I will have to walk out in front of 5 huge windows that let everyone in the gym see into the pool area!! Wish me luck!!!

treasureisland #9

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:01/22/2007 10:01:32Copy HTML

I told my mom two years ago that i wear thongs on the beach. She just told me if they are legal at the beach then go for it. I have found out that she accepts this , as i do not bother anyone , and i am her suport system
ville2k1 #10

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:01/28/2007 12:03:59Copy HTML

A funny story...  I had already moved out on my own with my wife (then girlfriend) and would frequently use parents or siblings homes to wash clothes to save $$$.  On one occasion we washed clothes at my wife's sisters house and inadvertantly left a red silk g-string in the dryer.  She folded it and put it in a gift bag a delivered it to us.  It was an awkward moment.  Almost 20 years later, it is just another thing we can look back and laugh over.

Still wearing them on a daily basis... 

steve543 #11

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/11/2011 03:46:23Copy HTML

Today when my mom came to my house I was in the kitchen and I could hear that she'd just slid open my wardrobe door open. My thongs were sitting right their. So when I got to my room she was standing their looking in my wardrobe and she suggested that I get some drawers to put my UNDIES and socks in.That must have meant that she's seen them.Later on today she had been in town shopping and she had bought me some drawers for my wardrobe so I helped her carry them in to my room, I left the wardrobe door open so she could see them again. When we'd put the drawers down she said for me to clear a space for it to go so I grabbed all my thongs and put them in the middle of the room, right in front of her. Still nothing, no talk - which I was expecting and looking forward to. I'm a bit unsure where I'm at, surely I'll get the talk tonight. I'll keep you all posted.
JM_Runs #12

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/11/2011 01:10:53Copy HTML

Ha my mom and sister did know i thong from when i was a teen. They just never quite new what to do but i never really cared either. Strangly I got into thonging by hanging out with my close buddy and family. They had a cabin he she wore high cut bikinis and he wore regular speedos and they lounged in the cabin in thong underwear. My thong introduction.
DarkThong #13

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/12/2011 01:04:41Copy HTML

nie to hear she now knows so you can throw them in with the other clothes, she will no doubt wash and fold them.. Did you have a talk yet ?
steve543 #14

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/13/2011 07:26:14Copy HTML

 Yeah I'm glad she finally knows, it's a big weight off my shoulders lol. Just this weekend I brought all my other thongs down so she's definitely going to see lots more of my thongs lol.Nar DarkThong, I haven't gotten it yet but my dirty thongs are going in the wash this week so no doubt it's only a matter of time.Do you guys have any advice for me in regards to when I get the talk?
XChip #15

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/13/2011 12:39:06Copy HTML

 Tell her you really like them and suggest she get some for herself!
7423080 #16

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/13/2011 01:00:16Copy HTML

She has known for years, trust me.
steve543 #17

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/16/2011 10:42:20Copy HTML

 I just got the talk and the whole, are you gay thing. I was so unprepared I think I choked. I told her I thought I would give them a crack but that I found them uncomfortable and that I'd be getting rid of them. She called my bluff and I lost so I'm done with thongs now. I'm going to throw them all away. It was good while it lasted.
XChip #18

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/16/2011 12:44:25Copy HTML

 Bummer!  Don't throw them out, though.  Put them away until you're living on your own.
hotbunz1969 #19

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/16/2011 01:11:42Copy HTML

What a shame your jacking thongs in, I was lucky when my mom found out she was totally cool with it, I can't say the same with a few of my GF's though, some have loved me in them, some have tolerated it and as now, some have hated it. I respect that and just wear them when she is not around, perhaps you might do the same! 

Regards PAUL
thong_jock #20

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/16/2011 01:35:52Copy HTML

 I know when I was younger I would purchase skimpy swimwear and wear them for a bit, and sneak off to the beach to wear them by myself, and I was so erotically charged from them I would get all freaked out and eventually throw them out, then end up buying another pair and doing that all over again. Guess I was freaked out that I was gay. This went on for a few years until I finally accepted who I was and as it turned out I am gay, not saying that you are though. At the end of the day no mother, girlfriend, wife, boyfriend of husband is going to change who you really are and what makes you tick, whether you are gay, bi, straight or whatever. Eventually you will come back to thongs and you will continue to enjoy them, either secretly or unabashedly. As someone who struggled with his own sexual orientation and sexuality for years, I can say this....life is short - you need to live it for yourself first. I wear what I want in appropriate settings and do my best to stay in the est shape I can, so I do my skimpy micro swimwear and underwear justice. :-)
JM_Runs #21

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/16/2011 02:14:34Copy HTML

 Just tell your mother that you are not gay but you like thongs.  You can say you have found out most male thong wearers are like you, not gay.
ithongit #22

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/16/2011 04:03:23Copy HTML

Steve543 --

I think XChip has some good advice -- you obviously have an investment in you thongs that it would be ashamed to loose.  If you remove the thongs from your Mom's world, they are gone.  The bad thing would be if she ever found them again, hidden away, she could get very very upset since you lied to her.  So if you do decide to keep them around, make sure they are very well hidden, and resist the urges you will undoubtedly have to get one out from time to time.

I don't want you to think of this as criticism of your actions, Steve543.  I certainly don't know if I would have done any better.  But I do want to open up the "what could have been done differently" side of this story so others facing similar issues down the line might have some alternative ways to go.

Hind sight is always 20-20, and you probably should have seen the "are you gay" question coming.  For others facing this question, I might suggest saying "of course I am not gay" or whatever.  Keep the thonging and gay issues as far apart as possible.  If you were gay, not wearing thongs would not change you.  If you are not gay, wearing thongs will not make you gay.  Your actions probably didn't  help things either.  Undoubtedly, you did some sneaking around and hid your thongs for some time.  If your mom noticed you were behaving oddly, or stumbled across your stash of thongs before you were finally "discovered" then she had time to imagine all types of sceneareos.  Again in retrospect, you may have done some damage by acting nonchalaunt about your thongs when the big unveiling did occur.  Had you told her then you were experimenting with the style or whatever, it may have been better than simply keeping your thoughts to yourself. 

A person, especially a  parent, would probably not really think you were gay based solely on the cut of your swimwear or underwear.  (Of course, if the parent's only knowlege comes from Jerry Springer and Dr. Phil, who knows what they might think.)  I would assume that perhaps there were other things pointing at your potential "gayness".  Do you parents know you date girls and or sociallize with them?  I had a boyfriend when I was in High School who was a real romeo, but never brought his dates home and never discussed his evening's plans with his parents.  His folks, seeing him only hanging out with the boys thought he was Gay, and took him in for several weeks of phyciatic sessions before he convinced the shrink -- and his parents -- that he was not gay at all, but instead hiding his overly active sex life.  At the same time I have known gay men who regularly date women simply to mask the fact that the are gay.  Most of the time it works.  There is nothing wrong with not dating, if that's what you want to do, but I think some parents put too much emphasis on it.  There are a lot of social and peir pressures to do things you may not want to do when dating -- like having sex.  If you do not want a romance, I'm sure you could find a girl who feels the same, and would love to just go see movies or whatever with no intamacy involved.  If you find such a lady, and spend time with her, make sure your parents know you are seeing her.

My upbringing was so much different than that of most other people.  My dad was already a thonger, and my mom didn't mind a bit, so thonging was never an issue around our house.  Nikki and I were not pressured to wear thongs, and didn't until we were around 15.  Another thing that is different is that my mom has always been sickly and has survived several life-threatening illnesses.  She developed a "live as if the world will end tomorrow" attitude which we grew up with.  Combined with this were personnal failures she attributed to her lazyness, shyness, or concerns for how others would perceive her actions.  She always told us girls to "go for it" and the only rule was to be sure we knew what we were getting into and how to stay safe.  Nobody got into trouble when Dad found out that Nikki and I had bought sex toys.  There were no curfews set by my parents.  We were responsible and knew to come home on school nights at a reasonable hour.  We were also not given the fifth degree if something came up and we didn't get home until very late.  As long as we kept the folks informed, we were okay.  We could have done all sorts of stuff and gotten into all types of trouble, but we didn't because we didn't want to shame our parents.  We were taught to THINK, and expected to learn from out mistakes.

Yes, Nikki and I made mistakes but fortunately nothing too big.  We never felt the need to cover things up, and never got scolded for doing dumb things.  Instead we would sit and discuss the issues logically with our parents.  They didn't always agree, but gave us the right to live our own teen lives.  They would rather have us telling them the truth and come to them openly when we had troubles or issues than have to ride us and set up an expanding list of rules to live by.  I can not imagine growing up any other way, and hope I will be able to share some of the same philosophies with our children.

Traci

DoreFan #23

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/16/2011 06:37:14Copy HTML

Steve, why in the world would you lie and tell her you find the thongs uncomfortable? That doesn't make sense. If you like them, and find them comfortable, why don't you just say that? You could have told her that they provide better support for your balls and may help prevent injury during sports.

Seems to me you just ruined your own opportunity to wear thongs by lying to her.
Thongsc #24

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/16/2011 07:45:06Copy HTML

"but mom they provide better support for my balls", yes everyone wants to talk about ball support with their mother.

Am I missing something in this whole post?  Your profile says your 31, why do you need your mothers premission to wear whatever you want?  And why did you really feel the need to have a discussion about your underwear choice with her? 
spdojon #25

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/17/2011 02:43:53Copy HTML

Something kinda tells me these conversations with mom are for our entertainment only!
Navel Nine #26

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/18/2011 02:56:09Copy HTML

 Spd
No, some people have fixed ideas  - and these conversations aren't entertainment.
My mother started with the belief that SHE ran the world - she was here to HELP you - provided you toed the line.If you didn't do as you were told, you got bullied until you DID agree with her.
She would have really gone overboard with the idea that you were wearing thongs. and as for coming  home late - as Traci said - it's been different.     I was worried about you . . .            Just about to call the police to search for you.  .  .    .   great excuse for anything.
DarkThong #27

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/18/2011 06:06:18Copy HTML

Steve, My mom when I lived home never said that... She only said that she found them uncomfortable and that I could (I washed them myself at first so she wouldn't find out but she did) throw them in the wash and she would wash them and put them with my undies. I did and it never was a problem...

Sorry you had a bad experience but don't throw them away make up your own mind of what you like wether you are gay, bi or straight does not matter at all wear what you like and hide them until you dare to do it's a waste of money to throw it away while you obviously liked to wear them.
steve543 #28

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/28/2011 12:15:30Copy HTML

Thanks for all your advice guys, it's much appreciated. But I think, sadly my thonging days are over. You guys know I'm straight and it really hurt me that my mom was asking me weather I was gay because of my wearing of thongs. It just illustrates that my mom isn't as open minded as you guys' moms and friends and honestly I don't think I will risk another situation like that again.
Even though I was hoping it would be a good experience, it has turned out very negative.
I won't hrow my thongs out, I'll hide them for a few years until I'm 100% independant (not having mom do my washing) and then I might get them out again for another crack.

Thanks guys
7423080 #29

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/28/2011 12:31:51Copy HTML

... another crack,  really lol on that one...
NW_Thong_Guy #30

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/28/2011 11:40:05Copy HTML

You know, I was forced to move back in with my parents about two years ago and I had no problems wearing thongs as underwear.  I just made a point to wash them seperately (which I always do anyway) so my parents never even knew.

I would encourage you to keep wearing thong underwear and simply hide the fact that you do which shouldn't be hard at all.  Other than laundry, how else would your mom discover that you wear thongs?  As long as you wash them seperately and keep them stored in a discreet place I would say you should keep on thonging!

hotbunz1969 #31

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/29/2011 08:55:51Copy HTML

You could do what I did when I was younger and still at home during college and just after. 
I used to wear thongs 24/7 after my then GF got me into them, so to throw my mom off track, I'd wash my thongs myself and put clean briefs (never have been never will be a boxers wearer!)  into the wash for my mom, this worked well until one morning she came into my room after I'd had a night out, it was mid summer so no covers on the bed, just me in a thong!!!  She commented later "not seen those in the wash before!" she knew I liked my skimpy speedo styles for swimming and nothing more was said. I guess I was lucky, my mom was so cool 

Regards PAUL
treasureisland #32

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/29/2011 11:30:20Copy HTML

When I first started vacationing in Florida, probably on a regular basis ten years ago, I told my mother that I have purchased some skimpier suits. She thought I was saying a thong, well when she saw me in a speedo, her comment was, thats a swimsuit, and you have the swimmers body. One day, in front of the condo we stay at, we were in a swimshop, and there was the speedo thongs on sale. My mom saw , that others were wearing on the gulf waters, and said those suits would be fine. I purchased 8, and since that time have purchased many tbacks. She says, just wear them were it is legal. I say a cool italian mom.
SlidingG #33

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/29/2011 01:31:37Copy HTML

 Mom bought me briefs when I was growing up -- that's what boys all wore in those days -- but she hated men in speedos, so I always wore trunks.  Late teens I bought myself a reversible suit that required a separate garment underneath.  This was pre-thong days, and most guys wore jocks with these suits, but I was too shy for that and settled on a bikini from Parr of Arizona, responding to a magazine ad.  Seeing it on the line one day she wondered whose it was, maybe my little nephew's (it was small)?  I owned up, but it was okay since it was worn underneath.  Till the day she died, she never saw me in a speedo.  Imagine her reaction to my thongs and strings! 
JM_Runs #34

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:03/29/2011 02:44:56Copy HTML

I started wearing thongs at 15, my mum was totally OK with it, my dad tolerated it. It was 4 years later before they saw me on a beach in one, my mum couldn't say anything, she had one on........

My mum has seen some of the swimwear my boyfriend's have bought me, my dad....... let's just say it's a need to know basis......and he doesn't need to know..... J 
steve543 #35

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:04/19/2012 01:05:11Copy HTML

I'm back with great news guys.
It was way better than what I thought would happen!!Today, I threw all my boxer briefs out so I can have no excuses not to wear a thong. I wanted to go the next step and 'kill two birds with the one stone', I wanted my mom to see and acknowledge my thong wearing.In the past I have had 'the talk' about thong wearing and weather I am gay (which I'm not) and to be honest I got spooked and gave up thongs for a month or two. It really rattled me, I was no where near ready for it.Today was different, I knew she would be coming home for lunch so my plan was to give her a good view of my whale tail to generate the conversation again. That was where things started to get better than I had hoped.She was a fair bit later coming home than I had anticipated so I had already finished my lunch. My plan was to be sitting on a stool with my back to to the door (the stool is virtually in the middle of the room) with my bright pink VS thong on display, discretely of course so she wouldn't think I was doing it on purpose.Seeing as I had finished my lunch I just went about my day as per normal until she got home, This was when things got interesting, my heart was racing, especially considering my last efforts at doing this, When she came in I went and sat on the stool with what I thought was about an inch or two of thong sticking out above my pants. Now she either must not have seen, or she was ignoring it (it wasn't something new to her that I, to her knowledge occasionally wore thongs).After no reaction at that I decided I needed to make it blatantly obvious to her. So when she was behind me, and walking in my direction I leant right forward over the bench, exposing my entire thong ( about 6 inches) and asked her a question that required me to point to where I was talking about, This would have made her look at me, having to look past my thong to where I was pointing. The perfect plan!The first time I asked, she was just coming back through the door and didn't really hear me. SO I leant right over again and repeated it pointing, as I did before.Then I got her answer, followed by ' WHAT ARE YOU WEARING?' I acted dumb and asked what she was talking about, it happened pretty quickly so I was still leaning over the bench, The next thing I know she has snapped my thong, then another 2 more times. It was a dream come true,Then she started saying 'they're girls undies', I reckon she said this about 4 times. I manned up this time and told her that I like them, and that It was no big deal.That was were it ended, she didn't take it any further. She'll see my thongs in the wash form now on. By the way things turned out she seems to have accepted it and doesn't mind. Though I'll no doubt hear more about it come washing and ironing time, I'm looking forward to it!!
BarelyCovered #36

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:04/19/2012 01:48:38Copy HTML

 Great  story steve543. I have thought the same thing with my underwear. To throw them all out and replace them with boxers. I would like to hear how this thing will develop between you and your mom.  
NW_Thong_Guy #37

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:04/19/2012 08:45:31Copy HTML

I don't understand, I'm glad that your relieved that your mom knows you wear thongs, but why was it important that she find out in the first place?  I don't announce to my parents that I wear v-neck t-shirts, jeans, coats, ect., why should thongs be any different?  They're an article of clothing, simple as that.

But all in all I'm glad you're relieved to let your mom know.  Do you wear men's or women's thongs?  If you wear men's (like I do) it should be easier to explain that they are a legitimate form of men's clothing and offer many advantages over other forms of underwear.
JM_Runs #38

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:04/20/2012 04:38:30Copy HTML

Steve - it is great that you are relieved that your Mom now knows you wear thongs. Moms are supportive no matter what you wear, trust me the first time my mom saw me in a thong, I just walked into her bedroom one morning with a pair of thong underwear on, her reply was like your Moms was. No big deal and from then on it was skimpy all the way.
wedgieme #39

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:04/22/2012 01:07:03Copy HTML

Well done steve im glad you finally got up the nerve to do it. Maybe she would have not thought  it was girls undies if you had worn a black one and not bright pink. Im still at the stage where i want my mum to know as it would be alot easier for washing and not having to hide them. Do you think its best to flash them like you did or leave them somewhere that she will see them? Also what did your dad say to your new choice of underwear?
JM_Runs #40

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:04/28/2012 10:30:01Copy HTML

 Great story, Steve. I'm very happy for you.
I have been wearing thongs since I was eleven, but I have always kept my thonging as a secret because of my strict parents.
My parents aren't so open-minded, and like all Asian parents, they are very conservative. I know that my mom doesn't wear thongs because she thinks that they are for hookers. My dad is just a stern man who is very old-fashioned.
Growing up in my parent's house, I would hide my thongs in my schoolbag because I didn't want them to know. I was scared of my dad because he used to beat me. He would beat me whenever I did badly at school or whenever I did something that brought shame to my family. (I know that some western parents are against beating, but this is how it works in Asia.) My dad stopped beating me when I turned 16 because he felt that I was too big. But, I still felt uncomfortable whenever I was with him. Even though he had stopped beating me, I still considered him as a disciplinarian. So with that kind of dad, I was scared to open up to him.
As soon as I graduated from high school, I left my parents' place and went to university. And now that I'm not living with my parents, I have all the freedom to wear thongs. But, I don't know what to do when I'm with my parents. I still don't feel comfortable around them.
For now, I'll do my best to keep my thonging as a secret. I think it would be very awkward talking to them if they got to find out about my thongs. But if they do find out, I'm not gonna hide my thongs from them.
JM_Runs #41

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:04/28/2012 10:33:20Copy HTML

 Here is the irony. Even though I don't feel comfortable being with my parents, I'm usually in my boxers when I'm at my parents' place.
JM_Runs #42

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:05/06/2012 02:25:58Copy HTML

Hey guys and gals, I just wanted to share a recent experience with you all.  First off, here's a little background on the situation.  I am a college student, living away from home.  My parents only live about 1.5 hours away, so I go home as often as I can to visit them, and to get the occasional free laundry service (aka mom. LOL).  Anyway, a couple of weeks ago I decided to go home for the weekend.  This time, my mom told me to bring all my dirty clothes home and she would wash them for me.  Well, like any college guy, I decided to take her up on the free laundry service offer.  Unfortunately, I throw all my dirty clothes into one single laundry hamper, including all my thongs.  So, I grab the laundry hamper and a dirty clothes bag and begin sorting everything.  I sorted through all the laundry, putting all NON THONG items into the laundry bag and leaving all the thongs in the laundry hamper... or so I thought.  Apparently, one of my thongs, which happened to be a black Gregg Homme Torrid thong and also happens to be my skimpiest thong, was caught in some other clothing and I never saw it.  So, it ended up going home with me, in the dirty clothes bag.  When I got home, my mom told me to dump all my clothes in the bathroom floor, so she could sort them with all the other laundry.  I did as she requested and went on about my business.  A few hours later, my mom tells me to go fold what is in the dryer.  So, I do and the first thing I see is that black Gregg Homme Torrid thong laying out on top of the washer.  Apparently, she didn't know if it could be dried, so she layed it out on top of the washer to dry.  When I saw this, I panicked and grabbed the thong, balled it up, and stuffed it in my pocket.  I folded the clothes in the dryer and went to my room, to try and process what happened and what I would say, if confronted.  After thinking about it, I concluded that she had to have found the thong when sorting through all the clothes, looking for things that needed to be spot treated.  However, she never said a word to me about it.  The next day, we were at Walmart and she asked if I needed anything at my apartment.  I said no, but then she asked if I needed any new underwear.  I said no, again.  Then, she asked if I was sure, to which I replied yes.  I could tell she was hinting around at something, but she never came straight forward and asked about what she really had on her mind. 

In conclusion, I think this entire experience went a lot smoother than I expected it, but I am honestly beginning to wonder if my mom thinks I am gay.  I know it's bad to say that, but she has a valid reason to wonder.  For one, I haven't had a girlfriend in several years, but that is because my last one got to be way too expensive and the relationship was moving way too fast.  Then, to add to the issue, she randomly finds a thong mixed in with my laundry (....only if she could see my underwear drawer... LOL).  Additionally, she has been asking me if I have met any interesting girls.  I usually say yeah, there's a few, but I always leave out the fact that I am too scared to ask any of them out, because most are incredibly beautiful / hot.  Anyway, she hasn't mentioned anything to me about the thong yet, but I know for a fact that she saw it, because she laid it out on the washing machine to dry. 

Do you all  think it went well?  Do you think I did the right thing, by snatching the thong up and "hiding" it, after it had obviously been seen?  What would you all have done?  What do you think I should do in the future?

Thanks  
JM_Runs #43

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:05/06/2012 11:30:04Copy HTML

 It doesn't really seem to be an issue, what is probably more of an issue for her is that you only have one pair of underwear with you in your laundry, not that is was a thong
JM_Runs #44

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:05/06/2012 01:08:55Copy HTML

I had all my "regular" underwear (i.e. briefs and boxer briefs) in that bag, too.  I normally wear the "regular" underwear at work, but save my thongs for school, sleeping, and exercising.  I would wear them at work, but due to the nature of my job, I don't. 
JM_Runs #45

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:05/06/2012 01:22:50Copy HTML

 Why don't you wear them at work? I can't imagine a job where they check you underwear?
thong_jock #46

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:05/06/2012 02:52:38Copy HTML

 I think you're making way to much of this. Mom's love their kids no matter what. I know about keeping thongs a secret and all. None of my straight friends know I wear them and I don't care for them to know but if they found out it wouldn't be the end of the world. And because you're talking about your Mom - well - don't sweat it. As far as the gay thing goes, what of it? She'll figure our you're straight sooner or later. She's going to think what's she's going to think. As a gay guy who feared coming out for a long time I can say that our fears are always way worse than reality.
ShadowT #47

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:05/07/2012 12:41:12Copy HTML

Honestly, if you're mom is wondering about anything, it's because you're acting suspicious and hiding something rather than the fact that you're wearing a thong. 

Also, frankly, flashing your thong at your mom is weird.  I don't know why you would feel so compelled to share your thong wearing with your mom and I certainly wouldn't have chosen that as the method.  It's just underwear.  Swimwear would be a different thing.  And I would think most of us would opt to leave our thongs in the laundry if we wanted mom to find out or otherwise be mature enough to discuss it as an adult.  But I've never cared for my mom to know.  She doesn't need to know, and I doubt she cares, what type of underwear I wear. While I have no place to judge you or your situation, and I don't know all the facts, I get the feeling you are torturing yourself far more than is necessary.

Parts of your story are also getting mixed up as well:
"Today, I threw all my boxer briefs out so I can have no excuses not to wear a thong."
"I had all my "regular" underwear (i.e. briefs and boxer briefs) in that bag, too.  I normally wear the "regular" underwear at work, but save my thongs for school, sleeping, and exercising."


JM_Runs #48

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:05/08/2012 12:50:53Copy HTML

 ShadowT,
I think you are getting me and steve543 mixed up.  Reread the posts, man.
ShadowT #49

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:05/08/2012 01:10:28Copy HTML

Doh!  You're right.  My bad, sorry!
ozarkG #50

Re:My Mom finally found out I wear thongs!!!

Date Posted:08/16/2012 08:17:32Copy HTML

  My sister just found out last month that I wear thongs. I was back in town for my mothers funeral. She never said anything to me about them. My dad was sitting at the kitchen table and then my sister says "I don't know how he is comfortable in those", My dad says huh? And my sister points to me and says the thongs that I wear. My dad turned his head towards me and just shrugged his shoulders. He did care what I wore.
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