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ozarkG #51

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:05/20/2009 04:38:42Copy HTML

  I had an interesting moment lastnite. My wife and I had just finished having some fun, and I had been wearing boxers that I had worn to bed, as all my thongs were in the wash. i usually wear thongs 24/7. She said she like the easy access of the boxers. That ten years or so of thongs, the excitement had gone.  Mind you I started wearing thongs on a dare from her. As I had been wearing boxer briefs. i never like the loose feeling of regular boxers.   i didn't continue the subject with her lastnite, as I needed to get to sleep.
  Guess I'll be wearing my thongs only for me now. Be it as underware or swim wear.   By the way, I only started thonging infront of other people a couple years ago in our backyard pool, which took a little her getting used to. But the way she put it when I asked her about not saying anything about it, "the more I say about your thongs showing.... the less you wear." I guess she figured I would keep going and eventually start swimming nude with the neighbors around. Who by the way are ok with me thonging infront of them, and their kids.
levis #52

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:08/01/2009 10:15:40Copy HTML

Well my experience is quiet different. She is a thong lover, I got to know her 1yr ago and we are getting married end of this year. Currently, we live miles apart and we usually communicate thru skype. Initially, when we talked about swimwearéunderwear preferences, she told she wears thongs 100% of the time. With that good news, for our honeymoon, we ended up ordering thong sets online. First her choice was white two tone thong set from lookswimwear. When I mentioned that to her that thong will become see-through when wet, her was Ok with that and she said she dont mind as long as I am around. When I asked to pick the second set, she showed me a skimpy mesh thong and asked do I feel ok with tht. Well, for me it was really a turn on. Then, we followed up buying some really see-through thongs sets, one is a really see-through (even when it is dry) white G string. The lastest is a very skimpy teardrop thong, which I think it is the closet to been nude and she said she can`t wait to try those at the beach. Given that she is born and raised in asia and wearing a thong is considered as a sin even as underwear, I must say I am really lucky to have a wife that is more open to wear thong to the beach (of course not our native country)

Well, when I asked what should I wear to the beach when she is wearing those skimpy clothes, she told I should wear thongs. Though I had few thongs in my closet, I have never worn those in public. She insisted me to wear thongs even as an underwear, she knows my collection and each day before I go to work, she selects the one that I should wear. And I have to show her through skype how I look in that thong. We sometimes have online thong fashion shows, where each of us show their collections. She selects my thongs when doing online shopping. Her`s newest recommendation is a Dore`s very low rise thong, which I think it covers only my package. With her encouragement, I am sure I will try those at a beach very soon, no matter how daring the design is. 

After getting married, we`ll be heading Tulum, Mexico and Sentosa Island in Singapore to try our thongs. That will be our first public thonging experience for both of us, and we selected these locations since we like our first experience to be at rather secluded with few gawkers. Ideally, there will be someother thongers around so that we wont feel we are not the only thongers at the beach. More thonger`s you have, I sure she will most of her daring swimsuits.
pkthong #53

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:08/03/2009 10:11:44Copy HTML

I have written about my wife's attitude toward my swim/underwear preferences over the years. She (like most wives on this board) was totally against anything but Dorks in the beginning. With time and maturity she has become tolerant of the Rio's but is still against public thonging for me. She does not thong in public but will wear a rio if she feels comfortable in the environs.  Overall I thought that she was becoming more open minded but lately she has been displaying more disdain about the rios. I don't know if it is because the kids are getting older or that more and more people know about my preference and she gets ribbed by friends colleagues and neighbors. I have decided to stick with my "Don't get too defensive strategy" and not give in. Time will tell how this will play out.
JM_Runs #54

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:08/03/2009 04:41:47Copy HTML

One thing you might consider...I've noticed that my wife's attitude about my swimwear changes with how she is feeling about HER body. I know that sounds weird...but when she feels good about her figure, she seems much more open and accepting of me wearing what I want (skimpy bikinis or thongs).....however, if she is feeling "fat" she tends to not favor them. I think it goes along with the idea of...."hey, you look good wearing that...but I don't!" and if there's one thing about women, don't go looking better than they are (or at least how they feel they look).

Now, I think my wife is drop-dead gorgeous and what she's complaining about is maybe, maybe 5-10 lbs. of extra weight (so her weight might be 130 lbs! oh my god! instead of 120) but psycologically she's not feeling attractive and doesn't want her man flaunting himself in front of other women who she thinks looks better than she does.

I think this also relates to the post that's going on about a woman's attitude changing after bringing children into the mix. If I had to make a guess, she feels bad about her body and is simply projecting those feelings onto her husband's desire to wear a thong or bikini.

Or I could just be completely wrong...just a thought.
DavyJ #55

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:09/11/2009 02:42:56Copy HTML

Oh, no, I think you are correct, Joseph.  My wife is not real supportive and I think your comments may also apply to her somewhat; it is hard to tell.  You must remember that women have faced a lifetime of brainwashing from the fashion industry (and TV and Hollywood, etc. etc.) which has to make it real tough for them for maintain healthy attitudes about their bodies, especially as they get older.  I try to compliment her as much as I can when she does wear an attractive bikini (which is as far as she will go), but often it appears my comments fall on deaf ears.  I suspect if I weren't around she would be back to the "granny" one-pieces in an instant.
JM_Runs #56

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:09/11/2009 02:55:53Copy HTML

The rather "ironic" side to this whole thing is that men are far more forgiving of a women's "curves" than they are (or other women for that matter). I can only speak for myself, but if I see a woman wearing minimal swimwear, I'm usually struck by her confidence and dis-regard for conventional norms. That is what makes her instantly attractive. It doesn't matter if she has a "rock" hard body or not, most of the time, they don't. A little cellulite or extra tummy jiggle is not a big deal to most men I would guess. Men are turned on by women period. Especially a women who portrays herself in a bold, sexual way.

My wife would revert to standard apparel if it were up to her...fortunately, I insist on giving her "presents" of skimpy apparel and a simple "cover-up" to go along with it. Given time, the cover-up is discarded and she relaxes and accepts the skimpier style. Patience is the key.
stanpuppy #57

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:09/11/2009 08:49:08Copy HTML

I think that most guys would find a woman in a thong sexy....regardless of what her body looks like (unless she is a complete train wreck)
DavyJ #58

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:09/12/2009 09:29:08Copy HTML

Joseph and Stanpuppy:  Correct and Correct.  An older women in a thong or tiny bikini is particularly attractive because of what it says about her self confidence and self image.  Ditto for a late-stage pregnant women.  And the same argument applies for a really short dress as well.  Women are often their own worst enemies; they always look better than they give themselves credit for.
JM_Runs #59

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:09/12/2009 09:54:16Copy HTML

Well said.  "Women look better than they give themselves credit for"  true, in the eyes of MEN !!

I rarely notice a man that the women around me nudge each other over, because I am into women and not men.  On the other hand I often think that women, especially younger women, have everything they need to carry themselves with pride and wear a thong swimsuit, but they don't. Possibly becuase they don't see their own attractive features that look just fine through the eyes of men.
John Howard #60

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:09/13/2009 03:22:17Copy HTML

I agree too....
A female friend of mine and I were talking about older women (35 or 40 +)wearing short skirts or muffin top, and she said that a woman "should accept her age and avoid wearing clothes that belong to younger people"...
I said that it depended on how did that particular woman looked;  if she takes care of her body and has nice legs and small waist, there's nothing wrong with that.
She said that even men wouldn't like that;   hello?????
Is she going to tell me that any man wouldn't appreciate an older woman showing off her beautiful toned body in a short skirt....
I just replied that any negative comments always come from other women, who unfortunately don't have the same control over their food, or self discipline to attend a gym to workout their bodies and look hot.   If they had a hot body, they wouldn't be so jealous....  that was the end of the conversation,  I think the boot did fit!!!
I think that some women who disapprove men in thongs, could be  women who are jealous of men grabbing the spot of the attention on the beach, instead of themselves.  In my own experience, one of the very few times I was harassed for wearing a thong on the beach, it came from a tall attractive woman wearing a thong as well!!!   Go figure...
288988 #61

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:09/13/2009 12:04:29Copy HTML

Amen John H   What is wrong with a attractive older women wearing a sheer dress or short jeans skirt with thong underwear. Thats hotttttttttttttttttttttttttttt, and shows confidence. They probably are in the gym, so the jealous ones f off.
6242 #62

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:10/31/2009 01:21:07Copy HTML

 My wife hated my thongs; however, she loves me and she loves my mannerisms. I told her the thong provided me "support" and was beneficial. No problem; ignore your wife.
John Howard #63

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:10/31/2009 05:39:38Copy HTML

The important thing is that she loves you;  her hatred for your thongs would eventually disappear, she will accept you the way you are.
JM_Runs #64

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:10/31/2009 09:05:57Copy HTML

I guess my wife must be the exception, because she only wear's g-string underwear, and g-string bikini's.  She does own a few conservative bikini's for traveling but she hasn't wore them in years.  At home after work she will wear a crop t-shirt and a g-string, and if we go out to the pool or back yard she is nude 100% of the time weather permitting.Now i usually wear shorts and a t-shirt after work, and will go nude around the pool, and she gets on my came for wasting so much laundry at home. 
stanpuppy #65

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:10/31/2009 07:01:39Copy HTML

My wife only owns g-string underwear as well.  While she has 14 g-string/thong bikinis, she also has a number of full backed suits for our country club pool (thongs not allowed).  It gets much colder in the northeast than in hawaii, so after work, we both remove all of our clothes, but we usually put either sweat suits or shorts/tees on until bedtime (where we are both nude again)
JM_Runs #66

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:10/31/2009 10:04:23Copy HTML

My wife really likes my thongs - i'v convinced a few other guys to wear them too and she loves to see us in them when they come over for a swim.
stanpuppy #67

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:11/01/2009 11:45:22Copy HTML

Steveh9....that is something that I could never ever see happening in my circles.  I am really stretching to imagine that it could ever happen with our female friends, but certainly not with our male ones.  Thats kinda cool that you were able to achieve that.
JM_Runs #68

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:03/11/2010 10:47:33Copy HTML

I'm unattached right now, but of the half-dozen women who I'd consider to be former significant others or "serious" girlfriends over the past several decades, about half liked or didn't mind seeing me in a thong in public (in the appropriate setting, of course).  Two of the three that were okay with thongs were also in the lifestyle (swingers) though, so I suspected that they'd be a little more open-minded about micro swimwear...and I was right in those two cases.

Four were okay with thongs and g-strings in private settings.  (Nudge, nudge, wink, wink)

The other two did not really like thongs at all on men...not on me or on guys in really good shape.  Neither of them were really fond of Speedo-type briefs either, but they were okay with my wearing a Speedo if I was involved in lap-swimming, a swim meet, or a triathlon.  Otherwise they were happier if I was wearing trunks (I have boxer-style swimsuits -- Speedo brand, as it happens -- that made the grade).  Neither of them ever said that a Speedo or thong made me look gay, but they both thought that the bikinis and thongs just looked too feminine on men, and it bothered them. 

I think it's ironic that one of the two that did not like to see me in a thong -- public or private -- is a nudist, has dabbled in the swinging lifestyle, and is also otherwise a very openminded person. 

Whatever.  Everyone has their likes and dislikes.

And just to let you know, thong-wearing was never really a cause of a break-up, or even a major issue in why these relationships failed.  I am totally capable of screwing up a relationship whether or not thongs are involved.

stanpuppy #69

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:03/12/2010 12:44:25Copy HTML

I have only had one significant relationship in my life with a women who did not like me wearing thongs.  She said they were "gay".  (note...this was back in the 80's).  The odd thing about it was she wore thong underwear exclusively, and would wear a thong suit on the beach.  She just didnt like when I did it. While we eventually broke up, it had nothing to do with thong wearing....but....in retrospect alot of her attitude about me exposing my self and being comfortable in skimpy clothing spilled over into other aspects of our relationship. 
mrhb2008 #70

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:04/29/2013 03:25:10Copy HTML

 Yesterday she voiced her true feelings.  I bought 2 racer suits (Speedo style) for a video shoot, & she said I should start wearing them to the beach instead of a thong or G.  I pointed out that she did not go to the beach with me.  She replied that she doesn't go because of the T/G factor.  She continued with the fact that I was getting too old and it probably comes across as creepy old man and she would be more comfortable with my ass covered in public.
Why is it that a woman who, in her youth, as crazy and uninhibited as she was, starts getting more and more conservative?  I figure I'll abide by her wishes if & when she suggests we go to the beach, but I'll continue to bare my bum when I am solo at the beach until I am revolted by the sight of my self in T/Gs.
She didn't state that she minded me wearing them in our yard by the pool, but is that coming next?
Grabeach #71

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:04/29/2013 10:08:49Copy HTML

Never really know which way they'll go. Before our first beach 'date' (we were both aged about thirty) I told and showed her what I wore. This didn't stop her wanting to come, though she later admitted that at the local beach she couldn't really relax because she was a bit worried that someone she knew would see us. At other beaches that was not a problem, so she didn't care. Up until this point she had always worn an average to conservative sort of bikini.

Post babies, she never got her figure back, so suntops and board shorts became the norm. Still worried about me being seen by someone she knew and still unconcerned elsewhere. Sometimes on holidays she would actually encourage me to wear my g-string at places (eg. resort pools) where she knew I would be the only one, though looking back I suspect she was just trying to test my limits.

Once my son was old enough to go to the beach on his own and my daughter had decided the beach was not her thing, my wife totally lost interest in anything to do with beaches or pools. Disappointing, but each to there own - going shopping is not my idea of a recreational activity!

Now in our mid fities, she has no problems with my being seen in a g-string on the local beach. Once she figured out that the neighbours didn't care, she's even fine when I occasionally sun nude on our balcony. I guess she always had the sense to realise that's the way I am and dealt with it. 

 
thong_jock #72

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:04/30/2013 02:24:17Copy HTML

I'm gay and partnered and my partner doesn't like my thongs. Too bad for him. I tell him I'll wear them until gravity gets hold of my ass and drags it down to the back of my knees. I'm perfectly happy going to the beach solo in my thongs and do so often.
orlspeedo #73

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:04/30/2013 10:19:30Copy HTML

I'm gay as well and my partner doesn't care for my thongs either, but I go to the beach wearing them anyway.  Come on down and join me at the beach sometime!
tiggerix #74

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:04/30/2013 12:35:39Copy HTML

Mostly I try to find a nude beach and my wife is comfortable with that, although she will keep her bikini on while I strip off.  I had previously bought her thong bikinis which she didn't like and I had to admit that a brazilian back was my favourite on her.  She is pretty tolerant, but doesn't like me in a thong/string on a busy beach where others are wearing 'regular' swimwear.  She says she prefers a speedo (I have asian import smaller styles - but the quality is poor) or nothing at all - so often it's 'nothing' at all, even on busy beaches if I think I can get away with it.  She is ok with us walking on a beach with me nude and her in a bikini, if it is a fairly relaxed place and at least a few people are nude.  As we approach a car park, boardwalk or sun loungers, I am told to cover up.  I had a white string that she used to be ok with, but now thinks it a bit feminine (holiday in Italy with locals pointing and laughing didn't help..), and another Hom one that she doesn't like too much.  I have to agree that I probably look better in a speedo type, but as soon as the sun is out I want to be in as little as possible....  She would like to wear less, I think, as she often arranges her bikini to get a bit more sun.  I joke that I had the answer for that and she says no thanks.  I also think she would wear a nicely cut thong/string bikini, if she felt it was flattering.  So in my mind, I come down to: she has to be comfortable in her surroundings, so will take a cue from others,  she doesn't want us (me) to be taking a lead in the skimpy department, she would like to wear less, provided it was flattering.  My challenge is to find something for her that she will like to wear - maybe a 3 part set with choice of bottoms, and me to find a better cut swimsuit/sporty thong that we are both happy with - I'm working on it and ever optimistic.
pkthong #75

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:05/04/2013 09:14:06Copy HTML

 My wife does not like me wearing them in public. She does not like all the stares etc. it makes her very uncomfortable. She is okay with the rios but would rather me wearing standard speedos or squarecuts. She has come to dislike the boardshorts especially when guys wear their underwear underneath!
dobbybeach #76

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:05/28/2013 10:19:55Copy HTML

My wife was shocked when she found wal-mart string bikinis (Life brand).  It was my way of opening my thong fetish issue to let her in.  I was made fun of, scolded, told I was bad and evil, she threatens to leave all the time.  Now I keep all my thongs, g's, and bikinis in my top drawer, and tell her I'm gay (which she knows isn't true).
This year I've invited her to go with me to the beach, she said, "I'll go but not if you're where those faggot ass g strings", 
       I said, "what do you want me to wear?"            She didn't answer.  I know she'd say some kind of baggy shorts.  You see, she's fat, and from a poor gang neighborhood where they beat the "different" people.  And she's brainwashed by mainstream tv.

So I'll invite her, and let her tag along if she's ok with me in a bikini with a full back (something more broadly excptable), but i know she won't.  To be continued.
You fellas with wifes who not only accept you, but thong and go nude with you, are something to admire.
Hotbeachthonger #77

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:05/28/2013 08:17:53Copy HTML

 I feel your pain, man. My wife also does not approve and won't go with me if I'm wearing a thong. She also complains when I go to the beach alone - saying I just don't want to be with the family. It's an hour and a half drive each way, so it takes the better part of a day at the weekend. I have also used the community pool because it doesn't take so long to get to, but she was horrified that the neighbours and friends of my sons might see me. She is trying to shut down every option except wearing dork shorts with the family, like a husband and father "is supposed to behave".
Grabeach #78

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:05/28/2013 11:27:38Copy HTML

Hotbeachthonger;
How about trying pools that are not your local, but would still be more convenient than the beach. I don't use the pool closest to me simply because the pool surrounds are not inviting. But within a 30 minute drive there are others that have so far been g-string friendly. Most councils have at least one pool and at the worst they will politely ask a thonger to wear more. I can't remember in 100 plus visits ever coming across anyone I knew at these pools, so perhaps that would placate your wife. Then again, if she's got a thing against thongs, it probably won't help no matter what you do.
pkthong #79

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:05/30/2013 03:32:27Copy HTML

 @Hotbeach and dobby:
I am in a similar situation, my wife has a love/hate attitude towards my minimal tendencies. When we were first dating I told her about my thonging in beaches in Goa,India. She found it funny. She then sent me a care(gag) package. We lived in different cities so we could not see each other often. The care package contained some silly t shirts  and fake dog poop AND a red speedo(3"sides). I thought it was funny. 
Fast forward 15 years, I have thonged on public beaches with her around, I usually wear rio type swimsuits which she does not care for but tolerates it. She tells me that I look great in them and wear them well but she does not like the stares etc. I some how fail to notice the stares as I am not looking for them but just mind my own business. So we have an understandin where if the environment is right she does not mind my thonging but does not like to be around me while I am doing so. She does not mind hanging with me while I wear my rio's, but would prefer me in regular speedos or squares. She has grown not to like the long boardies especially when dudes wear their underwear with them.
I think that change is possible so don't give up hope for ur better halves. If change is not a reasonable expectation then compromise is good. If they just become standoffish about it then use your better judgement and proceed.
All the best!!
John Howard #80

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:06/22/2013 11:21:44Copy HTML

A controlling intolerant wife deserves to be asked 'honey, what do you like me to wear"?  and do the opposite, just to piss her off.
I would not ask permission on what to wear, I might listen to her opinion, but I would still wear what I decided  looks better on me.
Some wives that are so vocal on their negativity to their husbands style of clothing, might be showing insecurity on themselves, would it be that they can't cope with their husbands looking more attractive than them..   pkthong, your wife should be proud of you mate, you look after yourself, eat wisely and enjoy displaying your body wearing a tiny thong at the beach,  other women might by ogling at her hubby, but she is the one who sleeps with him at night.   I know some women would be parading with their husbands like if they were a trophy, if they look like that.


Luckily my wife couldn't care less what I wear;  I reckon that she gave up because she knows I will always wear whatever I want;  I walk inside my house naked after I shower to let the body moisturiser dry, I always sleep naked in bed and I know that she hates it because I sweat a lot at night and the sheets become dirty faster;  life is too short to worry about pleasing anyone by myself,  workable compromises every now and then?  why not, maybe......  But the main person who needs to be pleased regarding John Howards' looks, be it swimwear, gym wear, jewellery, ties, shoes.....  bleaching my hair,  waxing,,   is  me.
iloveum #81

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:08/23/2013 01:10:17Copy HTML

 Just back from Hols. Had a great 3 weeks in France. I went our running a few times and notices the wife picked up my running gear. I have a micro thong in the machine with her thongs. The whole trip she wore many different thong including WW's and Tangaland micro thongs. She looked great. She then asked me one night why I wore them, and told that there were comfortable, and made me fee sexy.She said they were for Gays.......I asked here if I was gay, and she said no. So What is the problems. I feel bad when I wear them in her presence, and wont undress infront of her with them on, unless I go commando, or wear boxers.Any advise would be appreciated. 
DoreFan #82

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:08/23/2013 06:09:38Copy HTML

You're married and your wife doesn't know you wear thongs???????How in the world did you manage that??????
iloveum #83

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:08/23/2013 07:50:38Copy HTML

 She does, but but I never wear them in front of her. Normally boxers or briefs.
DoreFan #84

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:08/23/2013 08:35:27Copy HTML

That kind of relationship sure wouldn't fly with me. If she has a problem with what I wear as underwear, that's her problem, not mine. I guess that makes it okay for you to tell her what to wear and what not to wear too.
dobbybeach #85

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:08/24/2013 02:04:29Copy HTML

I only go to the beach alone....and get lonely. my 'other' just reminded me why. i told her i was going to the beach tomm.(osterman-montrose), she said, "i would be embaressed to be seen w. you. you think other people think you look good, but they're looking at you wondering why you choose to look like that." i'll be going alone again!
dobbybeach #86

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:08/24/2013 02:12:16Copy HTML

I do believe she's correct. but only that some people think i look odd. but every time i go to the beach i get positive feedback of some sort. there are all kinds of people out there with all kinds of opinions. too bad the woman i live with/have child with absolutely hates my bikini under/ swimwear. I'm not changing that part of me. i give it all. i'm not giving up how i feel about my body.
JayByrd #87

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:08/25/2013 01:55:12Copy HTML

 the previous missus jay was not at all thong or skimpy bathing suit tolerant. We'd sun nude on occasion back in the dunes (Indiana Dunes State Park), or on our boat,  but let me slip into a thong and I'd hear about for the next week. My current wife is very supportive and actually bought me the skinz stuffit g-string I wore at Fort Desoto on our last vacation. She also has no problem with me wearing them on our deck in the backyard. 
1skinnydipper #88

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:08/26/2013 03:27:35Copy HTML

 My wife was slow to accept what I wear but I continued to wear what I like.  Now she likes them on me.  You just have to stick to your principles and wear what you like.  My daughter-in-law loves thongs and is encouraging my son to wear them.  He is still hung up with the board shorts mentality but I hope she can convince him to try thongs.  He is a scientist and a police officer and has a great build.
75texasthong #89

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:08/26/2013 06:22:03Copy HTML

Just keep wearing themI did,  and now it's the norm.When something is said just say its "just underwear"- At least that works with my cotton thongs. If you're going extremeThen it would be more complicated 
Then ease into the swimwear etc. comfort with the underwear would be a good startThen expand ...
Sybok #90

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:08/27/2013 07:13:21Copy HTML

I feel I have to contribute my two cents on this subject.
I'm not married, but I've been in similar situations with past relationships. How much are you willing to compromise just to satisfy your SO? And would you really be willing to pretend you like something else to please that person? For how long can you keep that up? I learned the hard way that if your companion can't accept you for who you are, warts, thongs, moles and all, then it isn't meant to be. This sounds harsh, but if the girlfriend is a daily thonger and the guy can't be because she doesn't like it or thinks it's gay, the insecurity will definitely cause a dent in the relationship for it won't just stick to underwear styles. It also affects your self esteem.
To those that stuck to their guns and toughed it out, my hat's off to you. We really should just accept it and keep moving forward. 





iloveum #91

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:08/27/2013 04:10:39Copy HTML

 Thanks for the info.I will keep moving forward, and wearing them!
nude2020 #92

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:10/16/2013 03:24:38Copy HTML

 Same story here. However I told her that this is what i like wearing and I have never told her what to wear or not to wear. She still doesn't like it however I really don't care. She has to accept you for who you are. 
mrever_ready #93

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:11/23/2013 02:32:01Copy HTML

I guess I'm a lucky guy.    I got my wife into wearing thongs and we both couldn't be happier.   That's all we both wear as underwear and whenever we're in the sun, we're in our thongs.     Can't wait for this winter's vacation in the Dominican.  
JM_Runs #94

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:11/23/2013 12:52:07Copy HTML

yes we are.  I got my wife to wearing them too - and now she goes topless most of the time and we have even been to some nude resorts and beaches
mrever_ready #95

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:11/23/2013 03:45:24Copy HTML

Like  yourself, we enjoy nude sunbathing too, I think I enjoy it a bit more.    The last time I was on a nude beach, I was soon sporting a hardon which was fun to show off.    For this coming vacation, we've booked a B & B in Sosua, Dominican Republic where we'll enjoy a private roof top terrace which will be great for some nude suntanning.    I'm just not sure if I'll want to ruin my thong tan lines, since I think thong tan lines are incredibly hot.    Hopefully there will be other thongers on the beaches of Sosua but I'm not holding my breath.
navythong #96

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:11/23/2013 04:16:29Copy HTML

My wife is also not what you call a thong-fan. When I started wearing thong-swimwear she told me she thought it is weird for a guy to wear thongs. She also was affraid that people we know would see me in a thong. That's why we always choose a beach where it is not crowded a few km's from our home.
I convinced her more or less by saying that I'm not doing any harm to anybody by wearing thongs. I also said that I like to have a tanned bum, but don't feel confident enough to get naked (which is true). So the only 'option' for me is to wear thongs.
In the mean time she has accepted that I wear thong-swimwear. Every now and then she makes a comment about me wearing thongs to the beach, but only to tease me. When we hit the beach together she even wears a thong herself about 50% of the time!
It would have been even better that she likes me in a thong, but I thinks that will not happen.
All in all I'm happy that I can wear my thongs when hitting the beach!
JM_Runs #97

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:12/01/2013 03:34:19Copy HTML

 My wife only owns G-string panties and a few G-string bikini's but she doesn't really like wearing them, so She prefer's we go where we can be nude on the beach or at the pool.  But if that is not possible then she will push the limit because she has to wear something!! She has wore complete exposure open Cage G-strings, single strings, and pasties  with me to hotel pools and non-nude beaches, and more often than not once people see the G-string they are no more shocked by the front or they didn't realize what they were seeing
SlidingG #98

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:12/02/2013 02:47:46Copy HTML

Hmmm . . . . my orange Dore cage has a nice geometric design.  Do you suppose when people focus on that, they don't realize what they're seeing?  Haven't gotten in trouble yet (though I'm careful where I wear it).
JM_Runs #99

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:01/06/2014 03:04:43Copy HTML

I have been wearing thongs before I met my wife.  She has said to me that it's not her preference of underwear for me.......but all she owns is thongs and G-strings.......10 years later married with children she has accepted me in thong underwear.  We have vacationed on a private island in the Grenadines and she wore thong swimwear every day which was awesome but back at home she refuses.  My challenge is how do I get her to wear a thong swimsuit to a local beach (Sandy Hook) and how do I break the news to her that I would like to thong in public also.  Any suggestions would be appreciated!!!
Sybok #100

Re:My wife does not like me to wear thongs

Date Posted:01/06/2014 04:29:38Copy HTML

 I would be completely honest and ask her. If she refuses then ask "why not?" For fear she'll be seen by people you both know? Who cares? They don't pay your bills or share your roof. Go and enjoy it! 
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