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ithongit

Date Posted:04/05/2012 01:26:15Copy HTML

My boyfriend, who is a stripper part time, tells people who ask him to put some shorts on or whatever at the beach that he is a stripper and needs to work on his tan.  Most people immediately stop pestering him when he says this.  Women realize they are getting a "free show".  A few times he has had women sneak over when he appeared to be asleep to put some bills in his thong or g-string strap.  Some women ask where he performs or similar questions, and many ask him to have their picture taken with him.  Men seem equally at ease once they hear his is a stripper.  They will ask him how it feels to take off his cloths in front of a room of women and similar questions.  It doesn't seem to matter if the person he talks to is older, younger, or anything else.  A guy who is a stripper seems to be immediately accepted in a thong on any beach or pool setting. 

Often, the person will tell others in his or her group, or others on the beach who seem equally impressed.  Sometimes people want to come over and talk about stripping, wearing thongs, etc.  Others just sit back and admire the man once the know what he does for a living.

I have told other men about this and the other day I met one at the store who I had not seen for about a year.  He said he told complainers the same thing and in all but one case, was immediately accepted without changing his wardrobe.  So I think this might be a way for men to be more acceptable.  Most men are strippers (at least for their girl friends) and a fit man using this excuse seems to be give additional freedom to wear what he wants.

Is it because a "pervert" suddenly becomes a sex icon?  Is it because women appreciate getting the "free show" they had not thought about before?  Is it because other men are envious of the man who gets to show off for women and get paid for it?  The reason I can't say, but it does seem to gain a man a lot of acceptance.

Traci
SlidingG #1

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/05/2012 02:07:39Copy HTML

Fascinating, Traci, I'm going to give this a lot more thought.  It won't work for me, though, I'm too old to pull it off.  Besides, I'm still trying to convince myself I'm respectable, even as I want to model nude or race naked, to which my wife insists, "Respectable people don't do that sort of thing!"  Oh, the curse of middle-class hangups.
thong_jock #2

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/05/2012 02:55:28Copy HTML

 I was a stripper back in college and I think that's what got me into thongs, although I was into very brief underwear and swimwear before that. If you've got what it takes it's a great way to express your exhibitionism and get paid for it! I think for younger thongers, it's a great counter to some of those stupid comments you hear about. I think most men would LOVE to be objectified my either women, men or both. Even though I'm still very fit and get all kinds of gawkers at the beach, I don't think the stripper thing would fly at 47yo - unless I was stripping at a senior's home. Check our batteries on your pace-makers ladies!
stanpuppy #3

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/05/2012 08:33:16Copy HTML

I know one women who does something similar.  She says she is a swimsuit model, and she needs to wear a G so she does not have big tan lines (for when she models G's).  Pretty smart
fitfreak823 #4

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/06/2012 12:30:15Copy HTML

It is also a good way for friends to accept your thong wearing.  Most of my girlfriends female friends know I wear thongs.  Many found out at parties first hand.  They are more than accepting at that point, most think its cool that I do.  I strip occasionally for hire and do some local male reviews.
Ex_Member #5

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/06/2012 01:20:16Copy HTML

 I have had a different experianc with this, when I was younger I regularly had women come up to me while sunbathing in a G-string and ask if I was a stripper or a model because I was so confident to wear a G-string on a public beach.
hotbunz1969 #6

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/07/2012 09:42:53Copy HTML

On occasions when I have been joined when out tanning (by both males and females)  and the conversation turns to my rather unique style of tanning wear. I have used this explanation for my choice of suit. I don't however, use it as an excuse for what I am wearing, I feel I can wear what I like when I like, If I get on with the person/people that have joined me I will tell them what I do as a part time job, otherwise I keep it to myself. I have no shame in what I wear, with my body or what I do to earn a few extra pounds! 
And thong-jock at 47, you are not to old, you have a great body and I'm sure many women (and probably a good few men) would be more than happy to see you up on stage in your thongs!! Hell,  I still get great reactions and I'm 42! 

Cheers Paul 
ohiothonger #7

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/09/2012 01:21:53Copy HTML

 I am not a stripper, but I do think that many people expect others to conform to "social standards" which include the fact that men should not wear thong swimwear.  Giving these people an easily understood reason why a man would wear a thong makes his behavior acceptable.  It isn't that only strippers can wear thongs, it explains an acceptable reason (work related) that a man would wear a thong.  The same people might not understand other "legitimate" reasons for wearing a thong -- more all-over tan, better freedom for swimming, or whatever.  But make a link to an item of clothing being "work related" and people are probably more willing to accept the reasoning.  In the same way men with long beards are accepted more easily when they explain they play Santa at Christmas time.
steampowered #8

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/09/2012 08:54:44Copy HTML

 ohiothonger, i find it's exactly the same with leg shaving. a lot of people need that legitimate excuse, like cycling or swimming for it to be "acceptable".

I think the stripper defense might only apply to a small band of people that could potentially look like strippers. otherwise people might be fairly skeptical.
No ones ever actually come up to talk to me while wearing a thong. But i think i'd get away with the stripper defense if i tried. So i'll try it if i am ever approached.
flthongbutt #9

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/09/2012 09:46:55Copy HTML

yeah, with all the politically correct BS going on, you could just say you have to wear a thong for medical reasons, or something. Lol.
starkist #10

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/10/2012 12:13:59Copy HTML

"just say you have to wear a thong for medical reasons, or something"
My psychiatrist put me on confidence and skin-thickening therapy.
LOL!
thonginthesun #11

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/12/2012 12:46:30Copy HTML

 I'm also a bit old for the "I'm a stripper" defense, that is, quite a bit older than you, thong_jock. I also used to strip for girlfriends and wife. Maybe I could say "I'm a retired stripper and want to maintain my g-string tan lines." Hmmm...wonder if that would work?
mack_back #12

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/14/2012 02:31:12Copy HTML

You need the body for the  protypical stripper defense. Once early when I began wearing bikini swimwear to the beach woman looked at me with her family saying I must be a stripper. During my stay at the beach I didn't notice this married woman was so intrigued of my swimwear. She told her family that she will meet up with them to go ahead because she wanted a closer look of me laying on my towel. Suppose she wanted to chat finding out why I wear such tiny swimwear to the beach. Had my headphones on and closed my eyes laying there. She passed by slowly even blocked some sun then went further down the beach meeting her family. She turned around discussing me with her hubby. She said I must be a stripper. The hubby said, no. Then the boy yelled out, he's wearing a European speedo.. They got everyone's attention and began to leave the beach. I chuckled laughing knowing its not that big of a deal wearing what I did. 
True people do think wearing a thong is wrong but when they know it's because of your occupation then things are accepted. 
tanlines2thin #13

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/14/2012 03:09:33Copy HTML

if ya gotta give people the impression you're a stripper, to justify wearing a cute and adorable, risque and revealing, skimpy and sexi swimsuit, i think ya need to get a refund on who you are........of course, if it's harmless role playing, let the good times roll!!!!!!!!
thonginthesun #14

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/18/2012 02:31:49Copy HTML

 aw gee, tanlines, now you know my fantasy...er, at least one of them.

Ex_Member #15

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/29/2012 07:18:48Copy HTML

 Yeah, I agree with tanlines2thin. Why do you have to come up with excuses and explain to others that you have a legitimate reason to wear a thong on the beach? You should just do the things that you like, without worrying about what others think about you.
leo40 #16

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:04/29/2012 11:34:37Copy HTML

I tell those who question my skimpy swimsuit, quite truthfully, that I am a nudist, and that I now have on my SECOND favorite swimwear.
Ex_Member #17

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:05/05/2012 02:51:56Copy HTML

 LEO I agree with you and I have said the same about it being my second favorite swimwear, but to answer the stripper question it has usually been asked because they have noticed I was completely shaved in a G-string
bikinicouple #18

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:06/25/2015 01:54:15Copy HTML

Last weekend some new girls in the neighborbohood at our community pool struck up a converastion with my wife and I about our swimwear.  They areoughly ten years younger than us (low 20s to our low 30s). When the girls commented about my thong, my wife joked saying we were strippers.  The girls didn't quite get the joke and asked my wife if she would give permission or me to attend their party this upcoming weekend in one of swim thongs. I never danced a day in my life and have ZERO moves but my wife is all about it.  I know it will be fun to dance in front of a lot of drunk girls but I seriously have no idea what to do - HELP!  Any suggestions from strippers on here?  What type of thong??  Pack up or down?  C-ring or no ring?  Any other advice?  This is at one of the girls' private residences so I don;t really know what the situation will be.
JM_Runs #19

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:06/25/2015 04:38:41Copy HTML

The two of you should go in your thongs.  Explain you are delighted to be invited, but you are not really strippers, however if they think it would be amusing you are still prepared to come in your thongs. When you go arrive in thongs with a loose cover up that shows you have thongs underneath. The girls will want the guys cover up off, and the guys will want the girls cover up off, resist until you and them have had a drink. Fun should ensue.  
hotbunz1969 #20

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:06/25/2015 08:47:23Copy HTML

 Sounds like the pair of you are in for a fun evening.......... It's my experience that it doesn't matter a damn if you can 'push out some moves' or not. Just as long as you both have a great time. 
Enjoy the atmosphere, have a few beers then give them the best show you can.........

With regard as to what to wear, all I can say is........promote yourself to your best!!!!! Go for something that shows off your tan lines and don't be afraid to present yourself....... So, yes, a ring is a MUST!!!! 


ENJOY! 
JM_Runs #21

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:06/25/2015 11:52:06Copy HTML

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mo_thong #22

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:06/26/2015 09:24:52Copy HTML

 Tell them you would love to come and ask if they have their own thong suits or if they need to borrow one from your wife. 
SlidingG #23

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:06/27/2015 01:21:17Copy HTML

Bikinicouple, were you both invited?  Reading your post carefully makes me think they wanted you to attend, and merely wanted your wife to give her permission.  Is that true?  Would she?  Sounds dangerous to me, especially with alcohol flowing.  If they believe you're a stripper, they probably think you'll do anything they ask.  Would you?  What does your wife think?!  Your marriage is more important than satisfying their jollies (and your own in the process, if that's your motivation).  Looks like you've got a great thing going with a great dame, why spoil it?
sailor250 #24

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:06/30/2015 01:23:59Copy HTML

 If I were you I'd bring a few condoms in my bag along with some suits of varying exposure levels!  I'd bring a face mask too if you're going to let them take any photos!  Don't want that to bite you in the ass later.
bedada #25

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:06/30/2015 02:27:52Copy HTML

 Bikinicouple, I agree with JM_Runs.  Tell them the truth or they might be pissed if they expect a real stripper. My girlfriend and I are professional strippers.  We do it full time. That is why we both started to wear thongs.  Yes, we have seen strippers wear thongs during a show and have a white butt and tan legs.  It looks horrible.  Watching videos on youtube will not teach you to dance in one day.  It takes years to understand how to entertain a crowd.  If they still want you to strip here is what to do:  Put a girl in an armless chair in the center of the room.  Have them hit your music (very loud and up to date music).  Go in, start clapping your hands a lot and telling the girls to make some noise.  Tell them the more noise you make the more you will take off.  Take your belt off, snap it on the ground and ask who has been a bad girl.  Tell them you are a bad boy and ask them what they do to bad boys (you lay on her lap for a spanking).  Pick them up, lay them on the ground and tell the girls to put money on her.  Get it off with your teeth and act like you are seducing her.  They will put bills in the girls crotch area.  Be prepared to hold your breath because quite often they will not clean themselves before you arrive and be sweaty from partying.  It is all about controlling the crowd and making sure they have fun.  Hope this helps.
JM_Runs #26

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:07/13/2015 05:17:30Copy HTML

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NudeNArizona #27

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:07/14/2015 07:49:05Copy HTML

 When I lived in Key West my next door neighbors were strippers, and they would always walk around the yard and back patio nude along as when home inside.  I got to know them pretty well and they would ask me to go with them to the beach, because they liked the idea of having a guy with them to ward off other guys who would bother them. They also encouraged me to wear my G-strings, and every once in a while someone would make a nasty comment or ask a silly question "like do you not care that the entire world can see what should be private" and they would say that they were strippers and most would not say another word and walk on
Da6772 #28

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:09/27/2018 01:21:59Copy HTML

I'm slowly trying to catch up with some of the topics having many replies. I had been wearing thongs for a few years and had started wearing g-strings every so often. One day at the local park, I was walking toward the water to cool off. A 16-year-old girl walked up to me as I was waist-deep and asked, "Are you a stripper?" I chuckled because I'm 5" 10" and all of 140 lbs. with skinny arms. "No, I'm not a stripper." Then she asked me if I were a porn star! Precocious young lady, she was. (This was probably before the web was open for business, so she had to learn somewhere.)
mack_back #29

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:09/27/2018 04:23:29Copy HTML

Had same comments made towards me at the beach.Woman came up to me asking if I was a stripper. I laughed saying it’s the thong I’m wearing isn’t it? She said no then you must be a prostitute I was in shock amused at her allegations. She said sorry, i relaxed at her outlandish assumption for a second, before she corrected herself I mean an escort. 

Found it funny but knew she was curious of me the way I appeared then came thousand questions but she never believed a word I said. 


Da6772 #30

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:09/28/2018 03:40:24Copy HTML

mack_back,


Wow, she really used the word "prostitute"?  I would have thought no woman (or very few) would use that word, even when referring to a guy.


As you've found, some people don't know what to say when they talk to a guy wearing a thong.  They should take a few minutes and make a "script" in their mind, so that they don't put their foot in their mouth when they talk to you.


Good luck with your future encounters!

mack_back #31

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:09/28/2018 05:16:30Copy HTML

Da6772 That wasn’t entire conversation. She probed many questions I thought because of my muscleskins thong tiny strings and being nude earlier caused her all afternoon to be intrigued upon what I was all about. Heard from others talking I appear all to sexual when at the beach. Funny thing was when I was answering questions topic of the sex trade I told her I know a co-worker that filmed porn movies for vivid. She then said with ahh now it explains it. Whatever that meant suppose the way I look. After answering her questions truthfully about my background, neighbourhood I live in she believed I was a liar except for the porn associate I spoke of. After few days I seen the same woman at a local bakery. She was with her sister and mom. I said nothing to her but she recognized me for sure open mouth but left the store quickly before I got close to them. Knew then she began to believe my answers at the beach now seeing I was in her neighbourhood and mine.
Da6772 #32

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:09/29/2018 04:56:16Copy HTML

mack_back,


It sounds as if that woman thinks she knows more than she really does.


She didn't believe anything, except the bit about a co-worker formerly working in the porn movie biz.


Then she's shocked when you are in the same neighborhood store and her mouth falls open!


I don't know about that woman.  She's certainly an odd bird, if you ask me.


Why would she ask all those personal questions, then be shocked to see you in a local store, when you plainly told her the general area where you live?  It seems like she's got toys in her attic!

mack_back #33

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:09/29/2018 03:48:54Copy HTML

Da6772 Don’t believe she is insane but very prudish when comes to showing off ones body. Often CFNM situation conservative woman visitors at c/o beach find anyone nude or wearing minimal clothes insane. They can’t comprehend, puzzled why anyone would want to display there private parts on a public c/o beach or wear minimal swimwear.   She asks questions because a male gay older beach member accompanied her to make sense what I’m about. Sure she was attracted to me observing from a distance making assumptions about me to her group. Is he gay, does he have a girlfriend, what’s his occupation, where’s he from, is he a tourist etc... After answering her questions while she judged it as normal answer following up with a test to figure if indeed I was telling the truth. While laughing at her clinical verifications of my answers it made me laugh at her assumptions. Which fueled her assumptions I was a liar made it even more funny. Her questions stopped when the gay male told me he acted in gay porn movies in southern FLA when younger. Then solicited me to strip at friends gay bar because I had nice C*cK. The female then began to feel uncomfortable about the tone of the conversation and decided to leave us alone. While laughing at the mans proposal I thanked him for the offer and compliment about my penis. Interestly the female never mentioned it agreeing but did say generally I had nice body. Although seeing how she observed me all afternoon camped out with her group and days later at the bakery tells me she is more then curious  Just like other woman I come in contact with they may compliment my body generally. While in truth they would never admit there true desires and lust what they see. Like most woman who frequently observe me initially they feel disgusted or give off a salty demeanour. Sooner or later they weaken breaking down there binary beliefs of what a man should dress like or appear. Then smiles and grins upon woman I observe persists even a remark compliment or two are said. Then I know most woman are much more deeply affected viewing my entire body then they let on initially. Some woman cover it off lying to themselves or others for male to coverup but that is only a rouse for them to control there primitive desires.

 Yes woman enjoy looking at a males body displayed provactively. They can complain, huff and puff stomp there feet but in the end they love looking upon every males features. This of course deals with females that have stronger then normal Lobito towards males.


Just to digress had very attractive leggy, big booty, tall, black, tongue pierced, female trainer stop me to chat in the gym. She asked how much time I spend in the gym, all awhile complimenting liking my “body”. She had wonderful smile and demeanour asking how much body fat I had. Then again told me she LOVED my “body”. 

This chat happened week later after my manhood accidentally dropped out of my short shorts when doing wide leg stretches. The trainer was further away twenty feet glancing upon me frequently in the gym working out with her client. While I never had such a mishap wearing short shorts with a inner lining and thong underwear my entire manhood dropped out hanging like fruit from a tree. Quickly I put it back in but wasn’t sure who or what they seen it all unfold pardon the pun. Wasn’t sure if the black attractive trainer seen it but I assume so now. Just proves some woman desires need to be quenched once they observe something they need or desire. 

Experienced enough to know when females state “body” thats code, really meaning my manhood. Only couple times a woman has spoken complimenting my package looking upon it saying it’s impressive. Displayed often in leggings prominently seen in the gym difficult for anyone not to notice. Or wearing short 1.5” inseam  running shorts in freak accident package falling out. 

Da6772 #34

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:09/30/2018 03:28:35Copy HTML

mack_back,


I guess I've been lucky when at the beach.  I've never been to a nude beach, but it sounds like some women don't know how to act.  First they hate it, then admit they love seeing a naked man.


It's also funny how some married women will act shocked when seeing a guy in a thong.  Those women have seen all the parts of their husbands, so why does a bare butt shock them?  (Especially since thongs have been around so long that the girls and young women now wear cheeky suits that sometimes look like thongs.  "Everything old is new again.")


I wear thongs and g-strings for the tan lines they leave, but didn't like attention until the past couple of years (naturally, when those women taking a look are much too young for me).  I'd like to be able to walk the beach in my swimsuit in the middle of summer and not be treated any differently than a female.  But we both know there's a double standard.


The only time I liked the attention when I was younger was when a young woman (who turned out to be older than me) gave a bold compliment.  We got to be friends and gradually I was able to discern her strong compliments from her flirtations.  She's really too good to be true, and even though I haven't seen her in nearly 20 years, I sometimes wonder how she's doing.  She and her boyfriend had been together 10 years when we met, but he didn't like being in the sun, so she was glad I was there because she got too many guys trying to pick her up when she was at the beach alone.  She appreciated that I behaved myself too.


Even one guy I knew from that beach, and had a knockout blonde with him one summer, told me that the lady I was with was the best one on the beach!


Back to your story; that trainer must have seen your accidental showing if she was paying such close attention afterwards.  I would agree that women do have a code when they want to talk about a guy's manhood.


That's why I've always liked women who were straightforward with me and didn't play games or say what they thought I wanted to hear.


I don't know if the trainer is the age you like, but maybe she will ask what you like to do during summer!

mack_back #35

Re:The I am a stripper defense for wearing a thong

Date Posted:09/30/2018 08:46:29Copy HTML

Da6772:


Lucky you finding a beach companion, always looking for perfect one regardless of her age. 


Couple years back older female trainer told me just as your beach friend said to you very boldly, voicing to my attention loving my body and what i wear. She indirectly told me she wanted to go to the beach, Telling me only once male took her but was miserable cold day. Wishing to be accompanied by someone in plautanic manner. I replied go alone but she shunned that idea wanting to go with someone. 

Later on i learned through many conversations she wasn't a lover of the beach after all, afraid to tan her pale skin, dislikes just laying out doing virtually nothing. Curiously i put the pieces together that she subtly wanted to look upon my body be it nude or wearing minimal swimwear which she knew about when i swam in the gym pool known by her associates.


Recently have female that took a liking to my gym clothes and body. Knew her for years but rarely talked knowing she has crush upon me. Yet her being married doesn't stop her from enjoying observing me telling me so. Talking to her she seems a bit reserved even prudish when it comes to thonging lifestyle or participaent to a c/o beach.


As for the black booty trainer don't no the cataylst that started her curiousity with me. Do know when with her clients and after a chat about complimneting my body she seems distracted when i'm around glancing upon me often. As i told a friend this pierced tongue black trainer looks wonderful and signs i see or imagine is all to wonderful. Summer is over doubt she is the type to lay out getting some UV rays. Assume she doesn't care what i like to do in the summer but put her hands on me loving what she can try to do to me.



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