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stringster #451

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:03/27/2018 09:09:03Copy HTML

 why was my post edited JM_Runs? the first time i could've sworn i posted it, then i realised i had uncensored swearing in it. so i presumed it was deleted for that reason. now i realise it was the women 45+ comment. can i ask, why is it ok for a female to badmouth an age group of one gender, but i can't say the same about the opposite gender in another age group?

stereotyping on age/gender/nationality is obviously wrong, and why i don't hold to it in real life, but i've had both positive and negative experiences in life from anyone of any age regardless.

i could have easily taken offence (as could many others on this board) about bbyrne78's comment "I think that those are the prime @$$hole ages.", but i don't because i am assuming that because she has had more negative experiences than positive with men of that age that she is somewhat biased in her opinion. this was why i made that comment shortly afterwards, as it is the same kind of thing (based on my personal experience) just applied to a different demographic and age group.
JM_Runs #452

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:03/27/2018 06:31:08Copy HTML

 Good question:  Sometimes it is easy to skip into a bit of Male Misogyny without realizing it.  
Sometimes what might make sense verbally comes out different in print without the nuance of inflection.

When directly replying to someone's comment you have to assume they will consider your reply directed at them.  I recently had a private email with a women from this board who was relaying conversations with other women about the level of misogyny on this board.  This is a good example: 

The discussion was about some men who were being pests on the beach. Men who think a women wearing a thong is a personal invitation to random men to come over and introduce themselves, and  about younger men being more thong tolerant than the 30 to  45.  

It was NOT about women introducing themselves. Nor about women being pests on the beach by not leaving the men alone, or not getting the hint to bugger off.   In this context she mentioned that some men in the 30 to 45 year range were  in their prime ass$ole years. 

" Oh, my, a women as said some men might be ass$holes on the beach, let me jump in and respond by pointing some women of a certain age group, (and possibly the same age as the women who posted), are ass$holes too  !!!  "  

See the discussion was NOT about if some women are pestering men in thongs on the beach. Nor was it about women drivers, or any other part of life where you think women might be inferior.  

As a man who wears thongs on the beach as much or more than anyone, I can say women pestering men in thongs is NOT a thing.  

There is not a stream of women walking over to try and make small talk with guys in thongs, or play close ball games where they repeatedly 'accidently' land their football by my towel. 

While a few women might find an excuse to walk by and check me out, 'while collecting shells', or casually be at the shower at the same time, this is not the same at all. There is NOT a problem with men in thongs being pestered by women. 

So in that context, how are the 45+ women being as$holes on the beach? 

Or was it just that your male ego saw a female saying some men, in that specific situation, are more likely to be as$holes: So you took this as an attack on all men in general? 
Then had to respond by pointing out some age groups of women are as$holes too.  What? Did they cut you off in line at the grocery store and you have been bitter ever since?  
Grabeach #453

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:03/27/2018 08:36:25Copy HTML

JM; Okay with your post up until the last paragraph which was somewhat inflammatory. The last line in particular was very personal and had zero to do with anything. Not something I would expect from the moderator. Indeed, if someone else had said it, you probably would have edited it out.
JM_Runs #454

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:03/27/2018 09:53:04Copy HTML

That is true, the last paragraph is a little inflammatory, for one with soft skin. I thought about that.

However, it maybe appropriate when discussing the casual, groundless and possibly thoughtless misogyny. 
mack_back #455

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:03/27/2018 09:57:22Copy HTML

jm makes a clear point not every woman only some can be nuisance. I’ve been harassed lot more then our lady thongers posting there reply of some football jocks. My analogy of a likeness to a school boys tugging at there hair of a girl, socially inept. 

While males never insulted the female in the group a lot can be said about woman who disagree with my choice of beach attire or appearance. Even my appearance was criticized on the beach by woman stemming from anger or jealousy. When I keep to myself on the beach some find it difficult to accept provoking me with insults.  Any type of female can make it horrible for a thonging male to be left alone or accepted on a beach. Remarks of assumed labels, insults, inflammatory chatter, even threats of assault, directed upon me once from a group of mid thirties females on the beach.  Not to mention the inherent picture, video taking of me yet denying doing so. 

When I read woman pose no threats or harm as stated earlier I have to respectfully disagree out of sheer experience. Woman, men are all the same they can be just as aggressive and stupid. In fact straight men like myself  have it worse. Attacks come from both females or advances from gay males.  

At least I can cope with it not ruining my day unlike some running away from the offenders. Real mature person can handle problems it’s on how you deal with it that matters. 


stringster #456

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:03/28/2018 03:42:47Copy HTML

Woah, to be honest I didn't expect this kind of reply JM_Runs. A small part of me thought you would've seen the hypocrisy in your editing but now I've received a reply that is up there with the level of censorship from a male feminist when challenged with a differing opinion.

The reason I say that is because I'm now shocked that you would label me as a misogynist, and having a 'male ego', completely oblivious to the misandristic comment that instigated my comment, which is just as valid (albeit ridiculous) as the one that preceded it.

I'll just clarify that I didn't take her comment into context with the rest of the thread, because it is a very general comment and didn't appear to be in the context of the discussion topic, but rather her experience with kids on Sunday (I'm honestly surprised she didn't at least have a few disrespectful teenagers, because they can be even worse than adults now due to virtual impunity). She also mentions in another thread that there was no issues on this day, so it had to be a general comment. If it was part of this thread, as I mentioned already, stereotyping is wrong and the general stereotype applied to a single gender age group is not entirely accurate either.

I honestly don't know what you have discussed in your private email, but it's obvious that the male to female ratio on this board is 1000:1, and with my experience on internet forums and social media people will always disagree, get into arguments and eventually get banned/kicked from groups or just blocked by individual users (I think it's the cowards way out). I've noticed that (as in society) there is always protection given (and far more complaints received) whenever a female is questioned or criticized. My thoughts on the reasoning behind this are way off-topic, but yes, there is a hypocrisy problem in the world with minorities and majorities to the point that there is even more hypocrisy in comparison with choice of swimsuit/underwear attire. If popular opinion had it's way, this board would be shutdown and thong swimwear would be made illegal. Oh wait, it already is, in so many places around the world. Even when it is legal, it's still shunned and people are ridiculed. Wait, let me correct that, males are ridiculed far more than females. FACT. Women definitely get sleazed on and that's unnacceptable, but it's something women have had to deal with for centuries, and sometimes males have to deal with it too.


"...The discussion was about some men who were being pests on the beach. Men who think a women wearing a thong is a personal invitation to random men to come over and introduce themselves, and  about younger men being more thong tolerant than the 30 to  45.  ...."
I can absolutely say with confidence, that 'younger men' are not necessarily more tolerant than the 30-45 age group (why is 45+ exempt then?). I regularly hang out with men and women from the 18-35 age group (specifically when I travel) and there's just as much intolerance and hypocrisy in that demographic (millenials) than many perhaps realise. Everyone is different though, and I find it's far better to look at the INDIVIDUAL rather than the age group.

" Oh, my, a women as said some men might be ass$holes on the beach, let me jump in and respond by pointing some women of a certain age group, (and possibly the same age as the women who posted), are ass$holes too  !!!  "In your misquoting you have deliberately left out the age group specifics and the fact that the user in question, appears to be born in 1978, making her 40 and not 45+. The same thing can be said for the user's original post "she jumped in and immediately branded all men in the under 30-45+ group as being a$$holes." Why ignore the venom from the original post?


"...As a man who wears thongs on the beach as much or more than anyone, I can say women pestering men in thongs is NOT a thing. ..."This really depends on where you are in the world and what your definition if pestering is. Whistles, cat calls, prolonged staring, photos without consent and general ridicule is not all that different. It is also a fairly blanket statement and I wouldn't say that pestering women in thongs is a 'thing' either, it's just a certain demographic of people that do it (and it's not necessarily related to age, but can be related to hormones and underlying mental illness). It's funny because when it is welcomed, or if the female finds the male attractive it's OK, and no longer defined as pestering, but if the woman is not interested then merely trying to start a conversation is pestering. Both men and women have different tolerance levels, which is where I was going with the comment you deleted. In my personal experience, and in general life situations, 45+ or 50+ seems to be the point where women tend to become far more neurotic than at a younger age. Anxiety and a sense of control seem to take over (whether this is related to hormones or not is another question). People tend to lose their nerve as they get older and it's all tied in with mental health. Men are far more direct in nature and women tend to manipulate and scheme in a less direct manner in order to get 'their way'. Again, going way off-topic, but the damage that can done by both genders is equally as destructive.

"...While a few women might find an excuse to walk by and check me out, 'while collecting shells', or casually be at the shower at the same time, this is not the same at all. There is NOT a problem with men in thongs being pestered by women...."I disagree, I've seen plenty of instagram and facebook posts where women get close to males sunbaking in a thong to get that selfie. They don't necessarily want their attention but they do want to ridicule someone for their swimsuit attire (and will do it in a less direct manner, later on perhaps over facebook and instagram). In the meantime, they are OK to wear cheeky bikinis or thong swimwear. It's hypocrisy plain and simple. But I do agree that obvious harassment is not ok from either gender. Throwing a frisbee repeatedly to attract attention is stupid, but there was definitely a time when women 'dealt with' this kind of behaviour differently. I think as a society in general (in most western countries) certain movements are trying to teach that this kind of behaviour is unacceptable but at the same time not teaching women 'how to deal with it' when it does happen. There is no overlap between the two and you end up sh!t creek because some people can't and don't know what to do, and just end up inccessantly complaining about every little thing that bothers them, and find comfort among others that also just like to complain about everything in life. This quickly escalates into stereotyping and as long as they can fit into some category age/gender/race - a new 'movement' is born.

"...So in that context, how are the 45+ women being as$holes on the beach? ..."My comment wasn't in the context of women at the beach, and as mentioned, some men are more direct in their approach whether good or bad. Women are typically less direct, and sometimes even shy and less confronting as a gender. This holds true in most aspects of life, and I've even been subject to this kind of abuse where I haven't been able to retaliate because of this same gender stereotype of men. I've had also had to accept strong advances, and in one case, physical abuse because I couldn't defend myself for fear of being perceived as the instigator and 'male abuser'.

The last paragraph, as noticed by others, is simply not accurate. I don't have an ego, I just have my opinions and beliefs and they often involve calling out hypocrisy more than the standard sheep mentality that women are the only ones that have it tough in life because they are generally perceived to be vulnerable and men are less so. This is not always accurate but sometimes it is. Just as saying that all men (in an age group) are abusive, narcissistic or aggressive - it's not always accurate, but sometimes it is. This is where the orignal comment was probably coming from and I just retorted with the same comment with a different age group based on my general personal experience in life (and not specifically at the beach) and I was CENSORED for it. It's not the first time I've been censored on an internet forum and I'm sure it won't be the last. I just ask that you consider whether this was the right thing to do, and whether you are abusing your moderator/site owner privileges because you disagreed with them, or saw it as an attack on females (when it was in response to a general attack on males).
Chris_P_Bacon #457

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:03/28/2018 04:38:13Copy HTML

 talk about a dumpster fire. 

We have very few active women on this forum.  Pretty sure such antics will take it to zero again.  I wish quite a few members didn't post with such illusions of grandeur that they come off as delusional a$$ hats.  This community doesn't need these people.  The public doesn't need these people.  They spoil both digital and real world for everyone.
mack_back #458

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:03/28/2018 07:53:45Copy HTML

People here have the tendency to jump to conclusions getting upset and fed up with some unfairly. Often they misunderstand a post calling it ridiculous. Yet when some members share  experiences in a post a happening and i compare it through my own experience, it is dismissed or ridiculed as per prosperous or delusional.  I laugh at the haters virtual sighs, rolling eyes, confused that a simple honest factual experience i wrote could of never happened, sounding unbelievable or strange to them even gradious. Replies sound odd to me as denying, "dogs don't drink water".  If i argue the point saying yes, i seen a dog drink water with my two eyes, they mock my reply as sounding odd or ridiculous. In effect leaving me confused of reading there misunderstood replies. If makes me come off as narrissis i don't feel that way about myself, i'm my own worst critic. 

Often i understand my post aren't clear enough or disjointed and blame myself for it. It does show attitude amongst members who uncaring or inpatient which carries over to their own lives bringing them problems they created. People on this board enjoy marginalizing some only because they don't respect their opinions. 
They be the first ones to push me off a imaginary dock, in imaginary water, into imaginary sharks.  If they can find agreement to my last statement then it goes to show they are have a problem with love, understanding, patience, with people amongst me being included. Members love to throw stones at marginalized people, don't they?
John Howard #459

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:03/31/2018 03:37:56Copy HTML

 Once I read a book about assertiveness, from an author called Manuel J Smith;   he mentioned a technique called 'fogging' where you, rather than react to some negative comment about yourself, respond with something like 'yep, you could be right, a pink thong on a guy might look ridiculous and feminine'......You simply accept the criticism, even if its' untrue, and repeat it back to the person who criticised you.      The person who threw the stones will run out of stones to throw at you.

I haven't been exposed to criticism from anyone for wearing a thong in public, maybe 3 times in my whole life?,  but I believe that if guys are able to handle that situation they can strengthen their character.   I know it requires practice and mental strength, but same as with a mad dog running barking at you;  if you have gone through that experience in the past, you know that to run away will not help;  just stand still until the animal will go away or the owner will show up.   If they laugh at me because I'm wearing a thong, don't know, perhaps laugh with them....  The hardest thing is not to allow them to upset you,  if you don't get upset, then you win.  And you are still wearing a thong.
wackymac #460

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:03/31/2018 04:13:59Copy HTML

Well said, John H.  It's always bugged me that you see ads for beach wear and sunscreen and the woman is wearing a tiny tie-side bikini and the man is wearing dork shorts.  I live in an "over 55" community and I wear women's bikini bottoms. I buy them from venus.com.  Everyone calls them "Speedos".
RapidBlue #461

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:03/31/2018 05:38:17Copy HTML

 Last summer one of my friends finally saw me wearing one of my thongs at the pool. Both he and his girlfriend were quite taken with my comfort and confidence in wearing a thong in public. Later that day he referred to my swimwear as a speedo. 
Now every so often he will ask if I am wearing my “speedo” or if I am bringing my “speedo” to the next pool event. I’m always laughing with him and telling him I never leave Home without it. So instead of him and his girlfriend laughing at me, I laugh with them. :)
mack_back #462

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:04/21/2018 04:44:30Copy HTML

Agree with previous post about females in general not feeling comfortable observing an average dude or boyfriend in a speedo, revealing his jewels for anyone to see. When I wear a speedo it shows that I’m not afraid. I am very secure and confident about how my body appears. 

Many married woman would laugh at their husbands discussing how there bodies can’t compare to mine not being able to wear such speedos. The males arguing they can wear bikini speedos like me to the laughter of their wife and female friends.  

Had experience at the pool when some young Asian woman in bikinis insisted for me to climb out of the pool using the ladder first. Thought these Asian beauties were observing my backside as I climbed out of the pool. Later after we were on the deck of the pool drying off heard the two young Asian bikini clad woman next to me expressing to one another, enjoying the view. Believe they thought my backside looked better then most bikini bottom woman or themselves, with expressive giggles and smiles.  

Or at least I thought, either way I enjoyed the attention making the pool visits fun. Whatever people think of me in wearing speedo at the pool finding it offensive or total exhibitionist show off it doesn’t bother me. In fact I believe when I go to the pool in brief speedo woman notice intially but go about there business as normal. Unless they look with prying eyes subtly upon me often reacting surprised with a smile or big gulp. Yet we both know why woman stare upon me subtly in speedo reacting the way they do. It’s not the speedo or color i’m wearing, but what’s inside them front to back and entire body curves and bulges.  Great ego boast when feeling down, lifts my spirits all awhile wearing tiny briefs. 

Proof woman woman enjoy seeing male in speedo. Seen little boy in speedo with his parents at the pool. The other moms came up to mother of the boy complimenting her about how cute he looks in those bikini briefs. Some asked where she bought them so they can attire there young sons. Observing the boy play with others on the pool deck in speedos clearly shows he appeared better and more comfortable and less awkward even safer then boys his age wearing long dork shorts almost touching the ground.
mack_back #463

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:05/31/2018 06:11:08Copy HTML

 Couple times, not that I wanted to show off. When in the gym wearing some leggings  after finishing  long cardio workout I went over to get paper towel from the dispenser. While my tank top was short it was hiked higher then normal from the cardio. When my back was turned directly behind me was a older mature sexy female on elliptacal cardio equipment. I heard from her oops, chuckle laughter, giggle at the time suspected my thong outlines were showing. I thought so what, many females have the same problem after sweaty workout. Little did I know perspiration on my backside made outline of my thong through the leggings I was wearing. I suppose it was novelty for sexy female who wears thongs to notice I also wear them. What did she believe I was wearing all this time?  Sad thing about her reaction showed that some woman can’t believe a man wearing a thong masculine or normal part of his undergarment. In fact amused noticing a thong outline was irritating standing by listening to her laughter. Wanted to say what’s so funny? Then tell her thongs aren’t exclusive to females males wear them also.
RapidBlue #464

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:05/31/2018 09:37:45Copy HTML

 Maybe I read people differently or it is that I am not there, but when I read a woman was laughing or giggling at the discovery of a man in a thong I don’t go to the defensive. I see it as her being surprised and pleasantly surprised. Yes it is unexpected by many women. Yes they may not know how to respond. Yes they may be shocked. At the same time I have most often found that women are pretty happy and interested. She if approached with a smile and a friendly voice, may say something positive and admiring or not mention your thong at all. At least that has been my experience. Confidence and a smile go a long way. Yes I wear yoga pants and leggings to the gym as well as second skin yoga and volleyball shorts. I get a few looks, lots of smiles and occasionally a complement or two. Always I wear a thong under what ever I am wearing. I know the outline is sometimes more visible than others. More often than not when I hear a giggle I will smile give a nod and or say hello.  If the conversation turns to the thong I am wearing I more often get a comment about being confound comfortable with my body and how much she appreciates a man who is secure within himself. 
mack_back #465

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:06/01/2018 05:01:26Copy HTML

Rapidblue your correct in reading my reply no loss in translation needed. Got to give you compliment that your so optimistic when it comes to woman seeing your thong outline. I'm more jaded in my approach styling a thong or clothes in general. Have no respect or bitter with woman that have a conservative belief or fashion sense sometimes translates to expressing negative comments whomever they observe that don't share there core modest values. This causes me to be hyper sensitive and pessimistic to anyone voicing an opinion good or bad. 
In my experiences find some just don't like a male like myself  pushing the limits being more a provocative in the style of clothes worn. So when i observe someone laughing chuckling what comes to mind is there mocking my style or deeming it odd silly to be wearing. This causing me to sneer about there backlash reflecting a smug belief system is better then my common sense.
When showing a thong picture on my phone to female friend she laughs bending over even after fully aware i wear thongs to tan, swim walk the beach. She can't believe it that i wear such tiny, string like beachwear or swimwear often making her laugh. Yet she stops laughing after looking at my pictures of me in a thong. Some other woman who see me in a thong before comment to me about being reprimanded wearing one. They express asking why would they stop you from wearing it. You be last one that needs to be told to wear more observing others that need more attention what they are wearing.
mack_back #466

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:07/01/2018 06:49:25Copy HTML

On the c\o beach i came back from a walk to my towel. Two bikini clad females were laying out 15 feet away. As I stood in my new sling string from Herron. Heard the one female comment to the other after there initial shock seeing me. Standing with my backside towards them one said, “ if I had a butt like his I to would wear a thong”. 

Funny to hear such comment yet sad at the same time. That the two woman with decent bodies are so negative on the way there body looks that they can’t  wear a thong. 
NudeNArizona #467

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:07/01/2018 12:50:45Copy HTML

 Mack, I totally agree with you, and have heard similar comments, but I have also gone over to ladies, before or after hearing these comments, and have reassured them. You should try it some time.
JM_Runs #468

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:07/01/2018 02:44:23Copy HTML

Mack_back,  It does not sound like the two women were shocked.  It sounds to me like one paid you an honest compliment. 

It is true that many women feel unnecessarily embarrassed about their bums. Yet other than coming here to lament the fact, you did nothing. 

Next time someone compliments you start by saying Thank You. Then find a way to return the compliment without sounding patronizing. This can lead to something called conversation. 

I like to find something to compliment in return: Their choice of large beach blanket that keeps sand at bay, there sensible choice of umbrella, or the color of their swimsuit.  You may not like the style of the swimsuit but you can say that color blue looks good on you.

At least say Thank You, even if you just overheard the complement.

Remember the golden rule, if you can't say something nice, don't say it. So if in doubt mention the Weather.  

Sometimes it is difficult to think of the right thing to say, without sounding defensive, so practice "Thankyou for the compliment. It is a good day to tan."  This leaves the door open for them to follow up.  

While it might come naturally to some, I have found learning how to comfortably take and return unexpected compliments takes practice. 
mack_back #469

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:07/02/2018 05:39:02Copy HTML

Went again to the c/o beach making in two days in a row. Didn't have any hope the day at the beach will be better then previous visit, fact it was lot worse. 

Kept mindset of wanting to be alone through the overcrowded  loud party atmosphere where i settled upon. So i kept walking over to more secluded area of the beach from where i left my towel and gear in the middle hub of action.

Walked the beach for four or five times over the course of the afternoon, not caring or looking at anyone particular in fact minding my business. Suppose a group of young lean bikini clad adults females one naive beauty  decided to run after me through the maze of towels laying on the sand. She finally caught up to me, "Hope you don't mind me  asking, or i apologize for offending you in any way. So i stopped felt like honestly crying for personal issues i dealt with for better part of the previous week. Ready for her serious question thinking to myself here it comes load of bricks onto my back... She stands close to me so only making eye contact. "What's the purpose of what your wearing?, is it for something many of us don't know about? My closed mouth smirked knowing she was talking about my dubio extreme g-string comet and glan ring, c-ring. Felt like telling her in sneering manner yah, i use it to fish using it as a lure and the string to tie everything together, decided it's much easier to wear it then carrying it around with me. 
Instead i told her it's like earrings or accessory then she nodded saying oh! thought it was for something different. Yah it's like your nose ring you have on. She repeated in childish manner Yah! like my nose ring Yah! uh huh.. She and i parted way almost wanted to sigh out loud why the intrigue or the stupid child like questions.  Although i knew she and her friends talked about c-rings are for sex she probably wanted me to tell her that and in detail how it's used. Only she got the PG answer no reason then decorative purposes unlike JM you may differ. 
Doubt the friendly young female had her head in the gutter wanting me to spill those juicy details. 
As i walked down the beach i began to ponder hitting me what i kept denying to myself today, i'm to old for these ladies. They see me as some old fart gezer, no guy they would seriously be interested in. Everyone is young looking at the many bodies i observed near the waters edge. Observing some thong attractive females smirking upon me in groups assuming i was out to lunch wearing what i do.

 As i stood observing the yachts chained together about eight while some were spraying soap foam bubble through a red cannon onto the people in the water, music loud  bass thumping girls in thongs dancing on the various boats and larger then average unicorn floats people getting on and flipping over of the hull of the yachts. So many bodies in the water in and out was crowded scene. Then a young female with her boyfriend making her way out of the water in passing told me i had nice dark tan, i said what? you have even tan looks nice. I said thanks. Spent better part of 7 hours on the beach thought it best to leave before i can cycle home with some visible daylight.
Before i left i seen a woman had sign holding it up selling weed. I chuckled upon her as she walked through maze of many empty spots and towels on the beach. She came around behind me up close telling me she loved my clean shaven body. While inadvertently grazed her breast with my arms she told me being a lesbian that's why she like clean shaved bodies, walking away. 
As i was at the bike racks preparing to leave getting dressed i took off my dubio extreme comet g-string wiping the sand of my body. Seen couple young females enter the the beach. They look twenty but you could tell there teens with the giggling coming to c/o beach enjoying the viewing pleasure to watch males nude. Well the first one they seen was my butt cheeks which i didn't realize had impressive tan line from the dubio string i was wearing all afternoon. They made there way around towards the front of me giggling ha hey hey giggling like school girls. Didn't take my glan or c-rings off yet but knew these young woman were willing to take a look, and yes they did, to my shaking head exhibitionism does it get tiring or old but today it certainly felt that way.


JM as for the two gals yesterday i seen them settling down nearby me with slight grin on one of the females mouth looking over towards me. While i sat in my short shorts for the better part of 45 minutes for unknown reason on my towel, refusing to take my clothes off as i always do. Overhead the one lady making comments to her friend once they settled her asking if she should ask me to use the suntan oil i had laid out on my towel. She wanted to start up conversion with me by using the oil as an excuse. But her friend told her not to it may look desperate.  Only when gay group laid down inches from my towel one of them complimented on my tan asking what lotion i use. When i told him he can try it him refusing the girl eyeballing me sighed while her friend said i told you he's probably gay.
Later as i decided to bolt from the stupid assumptions and the gay males walking over me with there cell phones pointed down as i lay on my stomach. Enough is enough i got up nude into the water and arriving later wearing my sling back string from herrods knowing it will get wide eyed attention from anyone on the beach while i stood having people stare while i ate in relaxed manner unaware people are gawking and discussing me. Not to sound arrogant but regulars expect my string glan c-rings to be worn for entertainment purposes sort of your new here check out that guy.

 
itanng #470

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:07/02/2018 12:27:13Copy HTML

Gee, Mack.  PLEASE learn how to take a compliment and engage in conversation.  You'll find that your beach visits are more pleasant and satisfying.  Even though  nothing changes except your perspective.
mack_back #471

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:07/13/2018 07:10:42Copy HTML

 Thought about posting reply here saving JM deciding to move it eventually.
My topic was experience  at the beach "not the reaction of amusement" i got but observing another thonger fix her thong immediately after seeing me.

Yes i was at my favourite C/O beach seen this 50's couple walking the shoreline earlier she was wearing triangle v-string string printed thong. Wide hips few tattoo's on her but overall liked her in the thong. While the husband in dork shorts.
 
As i was leaving at the entrance ramp of the beach where the bike racks are located. I was in my sling back v-string and c-g-rings posted couple pics in my picture albums, nude beach - sling v-string.  While unlocking my bike lock i overheard someone coming down the wooden ramp onto the beach. Heard slight chuckle from the same  thong woman i described earlier seeing on the beach. Suppose she noticed my string funny to see a male wear, from the backside facing her. As she got to the bottom of the ramp she and her man were side by side walking away down the beach, opposite direction from me, as i looked who reacted. Just as i looked upon her backside she began to adjust her triangle back string to my amusement, no need it looked fine. Maybe she noticed my v-string looking perfect, thinking hers maybe off center paranoia creeped in i assume, or i just maybe my projecting. 
Either way nice to see someone wear a thong very well like her and bold enough to walk out in the park area off the beach in one even though she was accompanied with her dork short wearing man.
John Howard #472

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

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 In circumstances like that I can't help to ask myself 'what is she doing with a dork short guy'.... they don't look that good together;  if at least he was wearing a pair of speedos they would look more harmonious.    Anyway, maybe she enjoys the contrast of being the one who shows more skin;   some ladies don't like competition.
mack_back #473

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

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 JH think woman see men differently and don't share the beliefs like we do. As there "man" brawny  individual can't pull it off like a shapely females could wearing a thong. It's not competition but how they believe other like minded woman would see it also. Often woman prefer a burly male shape built like a brick waist and chest same size rather then someone that has more slender curvy female physique. 

Lot of songs have been written about your boyfriend looks like a girlfriend, or dude looks like a lady.  Last thing woman wants to be walking along side a male that has similar body features or better as them, narrow hips, tight core, shapely buttocks, lean appearance it's often a turn off for them.
 While bigger taller brawny male and hairy is someone that clearly looks different and never could look good in a thong thus dork shorts are required.
 Which many woman choose to date and find any male body that is fitting to wear a thong like myself is way to feminine to be seen with. Maybe in the back of there female minds the laughter it would cause walking alongside on the beach with male like myself is to nerve racking for most females to feel comfortable around. They don't know if there the ones being laughed upon or the lean thong wearing male. Sometimes woman feel there body doesn't look as good in a thong as first impressions and comparison with a male like myself is off putting which they stay clear of.




Had another Sunday visit to my favourite clothing optional beach. For couple hours i laid down eating my lunch observed the many cheeky bikinis and HOT thonging ladies surroundings. Little did i know a cute lean red bikini wearing female setup over top of me, earlier male was in that spot but left the area open.  At first didn't think she was wearing a thong the red bikini looked conservative from the matching top until she walked passed me into the water. 

While i couldn't keep my eyes off Kendal Jenner fitness trainer look alike shown in my albums labeled "Edith"you be the judge of the resemblance. She had the amazing one inch side T-back black thong on with little tight body to die for, you be the judge. Topless little flat tiny breasts but every hetro guy was eyeballing a chance to talk with her, see more pics in my tights album named Edith . While many guys lingered tried to get her attention little or no success she was focused on her live in boyfriend and ignored anyone in her way. Only time i noticed her looking upon me god i tried walking in her way coming out of the water couple times or beach strolling opposite directions. Only time was seeing her laying out about 100 feet next to my blanket while i stood sipping water. She walked towards the garbage bin and looked surprised onto me but went doing her regular thing.

Seen the frustrated reactions with peripheral vision of the red thong bikini wearing woman laying behind me reading a book alone. Later couple friends joined her and she changed into one piece red polka dot swimsuit for whatever reason. Maybe she felt awkward not looking good in her red thong bikini seeing the nude lean couple next to her or the other plump booties surrounding us least not forget the Kendall Jenner clone topless in a black thong. 

As i felt standing near my towel was maybe blocking other peoples view of the surrounding i decided to stand close to shore in ankle deep water drinking my water listening to music. Pierced guy came up to me apologized for asking me few questions about my background. Then as we chatted he told me how dark tanned i appeared standing here with great booty to match while many just observing you when walking by.  Wearing my C-G-rings and comet extreme Dubio g-string with a better then average  displayed  shaft hanging was definitely getting attention while walking along the shoreline from many unsuspecting  ladies. Even seen three young ladies laying close to shore on there back each elbowing each other to take a look upon me strolling by.

As i packed away my blanket heading to the bike racks on the beach. Had one male from group sitting beside step up asking where i bought the amazing looking g-string i was wearing? 
After unlocking my bike lock at the beach entrance still nude i noticed the female who laid over top of me with her two friends during the afternoon started making her way off the beach.  They could clearly see me from about 100 feet unobstructed along the volleyball net.  The one male friend of her pushed her away in fun kind of manner. While didn't know why couldn't hear anything she shyly began to wave towards me suppose it was his way to push her to chat with me. While i was looking down at the time didn't see her wave initially only noticed her meagre soft wave with laugh towards her friend to appease him. Thought i could later catch up to them in the park waiting in a line but they soon left in different direction. 

Before i left the beach clothed with my bicycle on wooden ramp entrance to the beach i got hit in the back of the shoulder arm by regular nudist beach walker. He seemed angry all afternoon not getting the attention he thought deserved at the beach.  I thought his accidental bumping me was accident both our faults only thought it bit weird. Then this blondie was standing in front noticed it and me and stared like she knew my dirty little secret. Smiling at first i thought OMG! its the female co-worker and gym member which has one track mind with the likes of me.  As my wide eyed expression mouth open in total shock as i was busted. She kept staring in in exact dirty smile my female co-worker does. While i looked over her body thinking please not her, i began to notice she looked a bit different maybe a younger sister but she said nothing. So i sighed with relief that we didn't know each other only that she noticed me nude walking along the beach and given her smile loved it. Only she was with a boyfriend i didn't feel the need to chat trying to catch up the group leaving earlier.



While in the park a group of females were heading to the facilities and concession stand the male who bumped me earlier started yelling angrily to them. He had euro accent but the woman began to laugh at what he was saying about dropping f-bombs and that they have skin cancer not him, blah blah thought he was crazy... Later as i left the facilities seen the male in question talking to older nudist beach regular telling him to calm down. Him explaining that the girls were provoking him mocking his tan etc... Then i pieced it together that he looked angry walking the beach that afternoon suppose he didn't get the reactions he was looking for from the ladies. Then when he tried to have conversation they mocked him looking to dark and developing skin cancer etc.. His response was to stop taking  enough crap from these pale looking woman and dish it out in poorly done manner comparing himself being out in the sun as long as they were today on the beach... 


Goes to show you sometimes woman have perspective of just criticizing males on c/o beach as having fun day at the beach. Yet when one guy takes exception he is looked upon as more crazy yet when ladies are in a large group  they find less threatening then alone.



MrFalcon #474

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

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Woman absolutely feel differently about it than we do. My fiancee is embarrassed to be seen with me wearing anything less than short trunks. She thinks people will laugh. I'm not sure what makes me sadder - that's she's so beholden to others' opinions, or that she would find me unattractive in, say, a speedo (I think I look pretty good!). But I'll trade wearing the shorts (for now, anyway) for her to wear cheeky or sheer swimwear.
bbyrne78 #475

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

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wow I never realised guys felt this way. To be honest there are times where I would prefer my hubby to wear something briefer and sleeker, but I know that he is more comfortable in board shorts or trunks. I know that he wears briefs when competing in surf lifesaving as it is part of the uniform, but it is clearly not his favorite. The only time he likes wearing briefs is when lap swimming. 
In the end, I want him to be comfortable and to have fun.
I know that he has rarely asked me to tone down my beach attire and wants me to be myself. The only time he has asked me to wear something more conservative was when we went to a work thing and I wore a WW 211 sailor stripe. No one cared and no one laughed.

@JH point is an interesting one. Not sure whether girls are competitive, more like they are insecure. No one likes to be "shown up" even if it is unintentional. Best thing to smile, wave and be nice. Luckily that has always worked for me. 
Love Bren
RapidBlue #476

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

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 My experience is somewhat different. The women in my life ALL encourage me to wear thongs or less to the beach. They are disappointed if I wear short shorts or a speedo type suit. More often than not they will go through my collection and choose what they want me to wear.

They will wear cheeky bikinis at the most with me on the beach. I get told how sexy I am, how brave I am, and how confident I am. They tell me how much they like being seen with me.

I see many other women on the beach looking or snapping photos. Several women come up to talk to me and complement my choice of swimwear. Most recently I got, “We like everything about you!” I find that by being friendly, smiling and giving people time the friendliness goes up.

I know there will be those who laugh or not like seeing someone in a thing. I don’t let those people interfere with my enjoyment. Rarely do they come up to me and say anything. It has happened in the past, but these days everywhere I go, from Australia to Toronto, CA, to all of the USA and beyond I get smiles, some nervous giggles and friendly waves and conversations.
mack_back #477

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

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 Sometimes bold confident stranger seen such as a male wearing a thong can influence woman not to be shy but wear a thong also. Time after time read stories of males in thongs at a vacation resorts and next day few woman decided to wear there thongs  following suit.  Or like me being only one in a thong at a FLA beach, and later noticed bikini clad young lean female laying on her stomach scrunching her bottoms into a thong. 

I find it is opposite gender thong wearing examples that has influence to begin wearing thongs to the beach or pool, rather than celebrities like Kim Kard, SI magazine styles or trending social media pics. It's about people feeling comfortable in there own skin, or in this case how you determine your buttocks appears comparably to your peers.  

In the fitness world many are proud showing there buttocks off because of the physical work they accomplished with there physique, yet sometimes best of us are at times too self conscious about our appearance. I am never satisfied on the way I appear. At times proud and confident yet body hasn't changed that much from one day to the next. It's our perspective and tastes change from one day to other. 

A fit athletic woman may look in the mirror before going to the beach and decide to wear full bottom bikini, afraid to show her booty, not feeling confident and playing it safe. While next day in the gym same female wearing leggings wedged up doing leg exercises is proud looking upon her buttocks taking selfies while many compliment her assets. 

So what's with this Jekyll and Hyde mentality we as humans feel from day to day or hour by hour?

When we get compliments how wonderful our behinds appear we tend to celebrate wearing thongs showing off.  Once we hear silence rather then voiced compliments about our appearance we retreat reassessing to more conservative clothes. 

Over dozen years on this forum wearing thongs or variation of that sort I noticed increase and confidence of thongs randomly seen at pools and beach's. Before 2005 I seen rare occurrence of brave woman in a thong seen as provocative.  Now it's almost a norm, with cheeky bikini bottoms or thongs. Some credit has to do with easy availability of conservative thong swimwear today or changes of online shopping habits rather the tractional brick and mortar department stores and little selection or availability of thongs and sizings.

Have I seen increase of the number of thong males since early 2000's not really. Yet i do see some males and females wear them to impress other thongers? Sort of hey! i like wearing thongs too, take  a look at mine... mentality.  Yet not a word spoken but the smiling stares tells it all. Do find when i walk around in a open front sling back g-string few people take notice may i humbly say. After few visits i see maybe one or two ladies smiling showing off themselves in g-strings after looking at me... Gather they feel i'm not the only one rocking a g-string back at the beach.  Coincidence or just being seen as a regular on the beach scene some people get idea i to want to try wearing one.
mack_back #478

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

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Depending where i wear it, reactions vary and type of people. On the beach i get stares even smiles from some that are not use to seeing a male in a thong both male and female. Sometimes very attractive self absorbed thonging female stares upon me in shock open mouth disbelief from the help of her friends pointing me out. Noticing i rock a thong on the beach well as she to the bemusement of her group of friends. Wearing Y back black string thong, have certainly gotten envious stares from very attractive married woman checking out my straps in the back. As they do a slow calculated stare upon me in passing reaction to me looks like envy. She usually sees me nude on the the beach without caring but once i put the thong on she definitely notices it. Wearing muscleskins skinny side thong have been told from macho males i wear it well such feminine attire. While couples surprised of me walking from the beach showers in my orange poser thong the woman often smile enjoying the view. Wearing sling string thong from Jovana had a comment from a married late forties female walking along the crowded beach. She with a group of people noticed me, while i was  standing talking to someone. As  i turned  away from my conversation unaware of her walking passed, she faced me about few inches pausing looking at my string pointing her finger down, in honest manner saying, oh i love your bikini it's so neat. Suppose she never seen a open front sling string g-string before being very new to her. At the pool i get smiles from the female associates noticing my Desmitt thong. Asian mom with her young adult teenage daughter in the whirlpool ignored me in principle. Wearing my camo t-back thong. The mom stared little shocked at my large bulge size  when i stepped into the water beside her by the steps yet the daughter appeared unfazed staring ahead not even noticing. While showing my back towards them in the whirlpool the mom stared mostly looking over was surprised i had on a thong. After they left the daughter wearing a one piece thong black swimsuit was drying off on the deck of the pool lingering, maybe she wanted me to notice while i didn't care to look only in my peripheral vision. After they both began the walk backside  facing me i was able to see shocked at the asian daughter was wearing a thong black one piece. While i was stereotyping earlier when entering the whirlpool the asian mom and daughter thinking they are often way too conservative of a race to wear thong swimwear to my shock. Other asian males with wives at the pool seem to ignore me while making light harded comments of me in there native tongue  to there wives as a joke. Yet the attractive mid forties woman  seem intrigued that i wear a thong seeing they are wearing full covered one piece bottoms very conservative and proper not to stare. Yet when elder asian woman discussed me to younger mid forties woman about me she shunned her not to discuss such things a man is equiped and flaunting in minimal swimwear.  While that discussion was a long time ago the conservative asian married woman can't help herself but stare upon me with the thong since her friend made it to her attention to my body. While Philipian attractive female wearing cheeky bikini bottom alone was very self-conscious taking her towel off exposing her bikini. After i showered on the pool deck in my thong she watched intently. When she finished with her whirlpool soak she felt confident to walk back to the change room with her towel in hand, showing her cheeky bottoms for me to watch and others at the pool. Yet i seem to be looked upon as oddity and ice breaker for some to feel relaxed wearing minimal swimwear. Woman who walk passed the pool facility large  bay windows looking inside. Often notice me in the pool and have big grins on there face either noticing me in my thong as i stand in the shallow end. Or assume my swimsuit looks to be tiny with the side straps when i swim on my back  and maybe had a glimpsed  from some other occasion of me in  a thong. Either they are entertained or find my thong swimwear amusing for male to be wearing in public pool for anyone to observe.

gnoht #479

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

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mack_back - thank you for responding to my post, the thread was deleted for some reason but I appreciate your feedback. :D For me if the pool was surrounded by ladies, I dare to thong / g-string. If the pool has guys around, I shy. So far the impression I got was ladies were generally fine, guys tend to find it otherwise, however it depends also on where these people are from. All in all I've recently tried to be more natural when it comes to exposing my cheeks and I've not have any adverse reactions, been doing that for the past year across various hotels in various countries.
mack_back #480

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

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Beeing stalked at the pool whirlpool. 

Wearing my thong to the pool many have noticed looking in from the big bay wall windows from outside, walking back to the changing room from the gym floor. Seen a lot of smiles from woman and young males alike noticing me swim laps on my back. Suppose many conclude i'm wearing a thong without exposing my backside in the water swimming. Desmiit thong isn't all that small, compared to a  beach muscleskins string.

I've been swimming consistently for many weeks in my various coloured Desmiit thongs. Before i begin to swim i walk overlooking into the whirlpool after my gym workout from outside. Seen couple young attractive woman in the whirlpool when looking in the pool facility from outside before i get changed from my gym outfit. Takes me about 30 minutes to use the steam sauna, shower, change, shave, and fuel up for my swim. 

Long and behold i walked onto the pool deck from the change room and seen the same cute young woman sitting along the whirlpool edge. Felt like these attractive young woman were waiting for something or someone or just enjoying the whirlpool for very long time. I was hanging my towel up on the pool deck exposing my entire thong backside to them and everyone in the pool facility, turning around slowly inching down the whirlpool steps observing peoples faces.

 Cutting across from these cute young females trying to find a spot to sit while other side of the tub was full along the jets. Could see a smirk on one of the female faces.Probably wanting to finally to see, something they rarely or never seen before man in a black thong. Each woman were facing the other one leg in the water while other on the deck of the whirlpool. Walked passing them both finding spot vacated by another gym member just across from them. Had my back entirely towards facing could hear some giggling from them both yet they hid their intentions quietly what they came to observe a male in a thong. While i stood in the whirlpool showing off my whale tail backside peeking out of the bubbling water. Could tell by peripheral vision they kept focusing upon my body.  Soon they began tired and began to leave walking from the water up the steps onto the pool deck to there hanging towels. They kept looking over to see if i would acknowledge there beautiful bodies or what they had on, printed modest one piece swimwear. As they held onto there towels kept walking very slowly to the change room along the entire side of length of the pool deck. Noticed one paranoid woman adjusting her full back bottom not trying showing any butt cheek. While the other had full bottoms as well but deciding to leave it exposing her cheeky butt somewhat fairly modest not obvious. Enjoyed observing there backsides both looking great imagining how they both would look great in a thong.   Amusing to observe some young curious lean half breed cute asian ladies 20 something looking at a male in a thong at the gym pool facility. They all seemed intrigued yet amused to see a male so comfortable walking along in a thong as me. 

Then it occured to me what these young woman think. Why am i wearing a thong for? Is it to get attention reactions from others? Is it to feel sexy showing off my telling body and cheeks, bulge? Is a woman going to be more interested in me wearing it? All these thoughts come to mind pondering wearing my thong as those sexy woman walked away. Thinking to myself what if they were wearing thongs rather full one piece swimsuit bottoms. Surely they had the bodies tand butt to wear such exposing cheeky thongs.  Then i began to think comparing myself to woman, doubting that i look decent in a thong, versus any woman like them. What am i proving, wearing it? Is it the thrill of being seen? Exhibitionism that nobody dares to wear themselves at that pool?. 

The thrill is gone having no anxiety wearing a thong whats so ever. Use to be afraid who seen me, do i leave the whirlpool having everyone look at my backside or wait for them to leave? Now i don't care it seems routine wearing a thong talking to other gym members on the deck of the pool uncovered while others stare at my backside. 

Feel some woman are bit shocked seeing me wear a thong to the gym pool or afraid of me. Recent visit gym buddy chatted as he was about to leave the pool change room doorway i stood in my Desmiit thong on the middle of the pool deck holding only my swimcap. Seen a young female open and enter the pool deck change room door while i had my profile facing her she looked intially shocked upon me while entering the dry sauna. I didn't flinch but i could observe it startled, even may have  uncomfortable seeing someone appearing in a state of undress like me while she was attired in total gym outfit and shoes. Only encouraging thoughts come to my mind is; showing my body in a thong makes some woman self conscious, about there bodies, observing them  afterwards adjusting there backsides, for more coverage either wrapping a towel around there hips or pulling the materail for more coverage on there tush. Only gives me some sense of bearings that i have decent backside compared to general poplulous. Rarely do i get a compliment at the gym pool from any ladies. Although some i know find it most appealing telling me i'm last person to be complaining about to have to wear more at the pool. Maybe that is some reason none from management comes by telling me to wear more when i visit the pool area.


Even after these woman left and i finished my laps in the pool ready to climb out using the ladder. From the reflection of the windows in front of me i noticed a mid age woman in one piece swimming laps next to me. Give a pause looking upon my backside as i climbed out of the pool. Certainly she knew i had on a thong swimming on my back turning around at every lap being in the next lane. Why the stare, but no discernable reaction from her, she just kept on swimming as normal. Later i got out of the dry sauna and started to walk to get my towel going into the change room. Seen the lady swimmer get out of the pool same time as me, walking along the pool deck towards the shower getting her boxed water left nearby and towel. Uneventfully seemed like i had on normal swimwear from her reaction to me wearing a thong. Either she found me horrifying to wear a thong, or couldn't believe man could dare wear it. She was outfitted in standard  full bottom navy one piece swimsuit and swimcap, googles.


Always thought any woman wearing modest swimwear have no regard for anyone wearing a thong be it woman least a man. If i see a woman in cheeky swimsuit is often telling they want to uncover there backsides and accept others more wearing less such as a thong. 

When i seen those two asian half breed young woman i felt they had nice bodies and glutes but have learned behaviour to wear modest swimwear in public. Even though i could tell the other showing more butt cheek then the other probably would enjoy wearing less but afraid to thong in public. While the other mid age lean swimwear lady showed no attention to ever show off her backside eve,r and probably beleives others like myself should follow suit, just a hunch... 



mack_back #481

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

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As some hear state i have yet to categorize my thonging experience as bold. Have ideas to visit the local and largest open outdoor pool in my city. Yet never felt the opportunity to visit only because i drive by on  my way to the c/o beach during summer months. Always feel the c/o beach i be more bold nude rather go to public pool where people find a speedo very racy swimwear for man to wear. 

One summer i did try to visit the said pool during early evening only because the c/o beach was closed off for period of time. Felt the need to exhibitionize myself if that's word, at the pool. Felt anxious when in the locker room pool while i wore very low AQUX swimsuit brief. Didn't have the guts to thong remembering years ago young cute female being dragged to to the lifeguard office wearing blue g-string and tiny top with sandal wedges. The boss staff lifeguard told her she was allowed to wear it, conditionally. Yet she was being escorted along the large pool deck on opposite end where the offices were located from the entrance of the pool. Everyone with eyes could clearly observe she was being sought out and in some trouble for her g-string. Through the humiliation she stayed with her boyfriend then left just as quickly unknown if the g-string was allowed from the staff members or not. 

 So when i visited years later having doubts thongs were acdepted while an all female staffed lifeguards were working maybe ten or so being a very large outdoor pool. Glad i didn't decide to thong only because the eyeballs and deep stares and over reactions from the staff upon me as i entered the pool deck. Even leaving the pool after it closed waking in the parking lot near the beach, seen couple female lifeguards recognizing me earlier from the pool pausing staring upon me in there VW golf, while closed my trunk and gotten into my car.  Felt that my modest swimsuit was enough to cause a stir for some female lifeguards at the pool. Now i'm regretting not making the time to use the pool wearing only a thong. 

Only reasons i talk myself out of wearing a thong  knowing male co-worker frequents the pool as well a older voluptous married woman my family knows for years. Was warned by my mom, "son never have that woman, ever see you tanning in the bikini. Only thing was she walked into the yard one day unannounced  seeing me in my tiny swim briefs leaving little to the imagination. Let it be said she gotten eyeful and abruptly left red faced and visibly shaken. Causing quite the reaction and treatment of me from then on. Even lied to my mother why she left instead of telling the truth of observing me in small swimwear in the yard stired  feelings she couldn't control promptly leaving quickly. 

The older married female family friend  seeing me in such swimsuit which i find conservative, makes her assume i'm clearly interested in her romantically if you can believe that. Not like i was walking around in lingerie or trying to seduce her.  She even made attempts casually sexaully assulting, and flashing  as though we both are flirting with one another playfully.  Yet i ignored her clever accidental devised gropes and flashing exclusively for my eyes only with surrounding people. With her large open cleavage and open slit dress  showing me clearly she is not wearing any underwear. 

As this long time female friend visited she clearly was relentless observing me scanning my body from head to toe being excited meeting me much more then ever before. Clearly the woman is infatuted with me so i decided to get her over the process of any emotionally fantasies she had about me. So one day i seen her looking inside the doorway sitting comfortably on patio chair postioned only she could observe me. As we made eye contact my nudist tendacies became evident next walk i would be making indoors will be entirely naked walking into the bathroom. Although i never made eye contact as earlier she had to notice me naked walking from room to room. Later as i gotten dressed i seen her stare upon me unusually as though school teacher will be displining a student. She had wry amazed astonished smile focusing upon me then chucklling in disbelief which i assumed was she did notice me naked inside. From then on she has smile and chuckle upon me as no time i ever seen her. Her advances have clearly stopped even her visits clearly she was frightened what she seen and uninterested in me in any sexaul context.  




So my fear if wearing a thong at the public pool and seen by the co-worker or female excited family friend things would develop serious consequences in my work life and family life.


Yet contemplating it would be very bold to risk the attempt wearing a thong which would be very bold if family friend so happens to visit the pool at the same time and day as me. Who knows what would transpire. Worth the risk? Wait until summer to find out.

mack_back #482

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

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I have being on textile beach with kind minded female companion. Unfortunately all my beach visits are always nude, so the shock factor or modesty many woman feel would not apply in a same experience.


Did have chat with vacationing married female friend she went to Carribean island, Cuba, i believe. So when i was talking at my local gym about her experience she reacts exactly like your female co-worker friend smiling laughing with disbelief at my outfit and bulge. First reaction i get when saying hello is OMG! to herself or woe! as i caught her surprised  standing besid  her, without realizing i was closebye. Notable she does often enjoy looking my body over sometimes when i talk moving subttly behind me, to the other side getting glance or peak upon my booty and bulge. Yet says nothing about it, only smiles laughs, sighs. While i closely  notice other woman grinning upon how clever this married woman is scanning my body closely, yet subtly all over when i talk with her about nothing. 


Later as i chatted about her vaction she told me truthfully  the time she was laying on the beach, she couldn't stop thinking about me, was picturing to see me walking along the beach. Telling me no doubt others surrounding her would go crazy to view me as much as her. Shared with her summer time beach string thong pictures off my phone, with her months ago. She can't get the picture of me in tiny dental floss g-string  out of her mind. Funny how she doesn't use the word g-string or thong but says, "you know what i'm talking about your tiny string suits" with her laugh and giggle. All awhile few females were nearby suppose they could of listened in with our chat, yet looking around seen few keeing there eyes on me closely. Later on was interrupted with very voluptous woman i always seen in the gym pool but didn't know to well. My female friend introduced us saying, you know my friend she  likes to wear sexy swimsuits like you in the pool here. I laughed as the woman had been absent for years wanting to talk seriously to my friend so i left them alone to chat. 


Just like i often fantasize wanting to take the leap to ask or have some female i know to the beach as companion. Do understand nudity is often makes woman uncomfortable being  closet nudist, hiding  the fact to many i see, off the beach. Yet always dremed of having a female colleague or friend join me on textile beach wearing very tiny poser thong adorned with c-g-rings. Although quite sure that would be novel time for most modest woman i meet seeing me in my splendor. Only problem i have is i prefer being nude rather wearing a thong on textile beach. Guess i have to wait for limited options of nude beach readily available nearby and take textile beach as default accampanied by perfect kind loving lady as you did.

ithongit #483

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:04/29/2019 03:16:51Copy HTML

Face it -- some people are laughing at you. This does not mean they are right or wrong. There is a slight chance that they are laughing about something else, but if you feel you are the focus of their laughter, then you can feel hurt. Try to accept that they are immature or have other issues if they laugh and dismiss them like you would a door-to-door sales person. Some people like to call out what they feel are imperfections and try to get you to react. If they don't get you upset, then your day will not be harmed. If they get you all wound up, then you might not have such a good day. One way to counter the incident is to take a good look/listen to what they do and say. If you can find something funny about them, hold it in until they are out of the area and then have a good laugh. If they dress like a clown, or can't speak in total sentences, or are emotionally juveniles think "do I really want to get fashion advice from that person?" and then laugh it off in your mind. I have had others come around after such and incident and actually apologize for the actions of the laughing person. They say something like "I am sorry that person laughed at you." Take this as a great compliment and thank them for their opinions.
mrhb2008 #484

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:05/01/2019 10:45:39Copy HTML

Maybe they are. At least you gave someone a smile.
32189 #485

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:05/05/2019 03:30:35Copy HTML

Maybe they are laughing but there should be some level of expectation for that. I do not condone it or think it very polite or neighborly but some people just can't control themselves. Or they may truly think it is a joke and that you are trying to be funny. Thongs for men are still not mainstream or widely accepted. Unfortunately, a lot of society's experience with men in thongs have been from the movies and in the movies it is a joke. It seems it is more tolerated now as the lines between gender are more blurred overall in society. If we know that what we are doing in not mainstream and have a built in expectation of laughter or shock, then we will not be as surprised when it happens. It still does not feel good but at least we can be more prepared for it. We could be a long way off from male thongs in public being normal.
mack_back #486

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:07/18/2019 09:41:39Copy HTML

Wearing my thong for better part of the summer in the pool, sauna, whirlpool none gave me any trouble. Do see asian adult woman in groups with there husbands giving off bad vibe. When i wore my Desmitt swim briefs gotten initial stares from time to time from the usual regular visiting asian ladies. They all seem to go on with there lounging, swimming without much chatter or commentary about me. Once i changed to wearing desmitt thongs attitudes have changed from these groups of regular visiting asian ladies. Some have made comments to husbands about " sitting here staring at his silly "TONG" "he wear". Most ladies are much delibrate not to look upon me,  more so than wearing swim briefs. Looks to me some asian ladies go out of the way not to look in my direction even if in the whirlpool covered up by the water foaming jets. Seems to me these asian ladies find it troubling even upsetting to be around me. Even few regular visitors have changed there usual time at the pool coming in later or earlier then when i use the pool. Just the other day walked onto the pool deck using the whirlpool seen regular married 50 something asian lady using the pool with elderly mother. Just as quickly i settled into the whirlpool the asian ladies rushed out of the main pool far end and into the change room. Seen bit of a stare from one, but elderly one she was with slowly followed looking upon me as though i was been talked about by the other warning her about this man in thong. Just vibe i get is the regular asian ladies i've seen throughout the year in the pool are avoiding me in fear whenever i'm around. Only thing changed was my toned tanned smooth backside is showing more. Question i'm asking is are modest asian adult family woman narrow minded when it comes to man wearing a thong. Ask myself what harm am i doing wearing modest thong in the company of adults, coverage exactly same upfront then my regular swim briefs at the gym pool. Why are the regular ladies so freaked out seeing me in thong? Don't go out of my way to show off but don't go hurrying hiding my backside either. Don't know if any of the asian ladies visiting the pool complain to management. Do feel some asian woman can't speak english clearly to communicate to the gym employees minded their business. So these asian groups rather go at times to ignore me or avoid the pool seeing me using it.   Find the sneering looks and commentary these woman do to their husbands. Reactions from the husbands bemusement of their wives thoughts and caring so much of me in a thong. Don't want to paint wide brush on any culture, in my experience find asian woman Japanese, Chinese  are much more prejudice, upon male thonging like myself, then some other countries. Added to the fact my body is well groomed, tanned, toned, not at all troubling to observe in fact many others complimented me about it. 


Only answer is there bigots observing many asians males females with non-toned bodies and conservative swimwear in the pool is amusing for me. Female gym member very athletic shape came to use the pool once. Seeing her body compared to asian ladies gave new understanding at how lean bodies versus fit person looks that much better.  Watched how the same asian ladies observed the fit female with wide eyed stares gave me inkling to how sheltered some people view themselves with closed eyes.

stringueur #487

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:07/18/2019 10:07:21Copy HTML

Asian ladies don't like tanned bodies. They avoid the sunall the time. So, maybe they don't like your tan ? Whatever, asian ladies can't approve minimal swimwear because minimal swimwear is linked to maximal tan and they avoid tan.
mack_back #488

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:07/18/2019 10:14:00Copy HTML

There are different types of asians but Stringueur your right most if not all the asian ladies seem to never been out in the sun, pale indeed. Do find others having sunburns even asian husband, shirt tan line. Yet i feel it's more then my tan they find repulsive if indeed that is true. Makes asians being prejudice with black people. Maybe they have stereotype that has made them so judgemental.


Do remember time in my Desmitt briefs one of elder asian females in the group made comments about me in the sauna to conservative attractive friend.  The asian female found the elderly friend was being to descriptive pointing out my physique embarrassed her to utter such words describing me.  Ever since the asian woman heard comments about me she observed me much closely. She be looking upon me subtly all awhile talking to someone be in the pool while i sat in sauna  while i noticed her intrigued eyes. 

At many visits to the pool i gotten impression the elderly lady planted seed in the mind of the friend of my body which she admired. Now the asian woman can't help herself to observe me subtly unlike before ignoring me.

Now that i thong asian married female is bit afraid keeping close quarters with her husband in and out of the pool. Making unknown comments to her husband while both look my direction. Don't know if the asian married woman visiting the pool noticed my eyes on her believing i'm infatuated with her attractive appearance. Thus advoidance at the pool and my recent thong attire maybe clue i want her attention and reaction. Her being careful not to be left alone that i may make move on her. 


Sometimes signals get crossed asian woman finding male dressed provactivly may be aggressive in nature thus she needs to be careful. While her intriguing stares at the pool were simply curiousity seeing someone looking so muscular in nature. Believing she may had given wrong signals to me thus her avoidance and fear being around me.

mack_back #489

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:07/25/2019 09:09:24Copy HTML

yup

mack_back #490

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:07/27/2019 05:30:24Copy HTML

No reason why some may find it wrong, only being offended looking at someones bare butt. Do believe in my experiences older asian woman find it upsetting seeing me in a thong at the pool. They are uncomfortable yet find me encourageable at the same time, saying nothing yet ignoring me as best they can. Just like any attire once people see you often enough subtly or wide eyed disbelief time after time observing male thong grows being accustomed. Woman in particular with modest ideals find a thong provocative better left as lingerie and for woman to wear as tool for seduction. Observing a male in thong some beliefs from conservative woman may assume your being exhibitionist or using it to get attention.  Thus some get upset from site of male exposing his backside believing it maybe a way to show off lot more. Leaps and assumption could stir up fear to one observing. Convincing the observing female that male is up to some sexual satisfaction. Waiting for moment to expose entirely to unsuspecting woman or sexaully assualt her. Those ideas thoughts may sound far fetched for us thongers but for prudish modest people that can be logical assumption. Just look at some woman wearing full one piece swimsuits, often adjusting themselves wanting fuller bottom coverage wrapping towel around there hips believing in the notion showing her butt is not flattering, resulting in sending wrong message to strangers.  So the belief for modest woman may find male wanting to seduce someone using his thong for bait. This sends signal to whomever is observing that this tactic of less clothing best used in private not publicly.   Revealing clothing is often inspire stimulus for other person to reach a goal or idea they have.  Be it sex or some sort of sexual satisfaction conservative people are alarmed by the choice of swimwear. Crazy as that sounds many woman i experienced have those thoughts. Warnings from like minded people keep watchful eye policing my actions and be vigilant he may attack someone. Of all never be in sitation alone with that thonging male it will give him opportunity to attack Yet the stereotype of trench coat flasher or male nude wearing large towel covered up letting it drop "mistakenly"  initially and  seemingly, is less worrisome then thonger exposing his butt cheeks like myself.  Which of course i mind my business and by all means never stare making eye contact to fearful, modest, narrow minded, upset females. Always thought the best of people yet many believe the worst of me. Asian late fourties married female visited the pool often ignoring my brief swimsuit i wore. Felt she was type to mind her business not polite to stare upon strangers. Little did i know of her only by observation she loves to gossip about people. Yet she is quite as mouse to strangers like myself. Only her mouth won't stop moving talking to her friend she brings along to the pool. Thought things were cool she minded her business i do the same. One day together in the sauna her elderly friend commented on my body or part of it not exactly sure what was said. Brought visible reaction to the mid 40's married asian woman, scolding her elderly friend not to speak utter such sexual thoughts about man even a stranger sitting next to. Little did i know the seed was planted by elderly woman to asian modest female i described earlier.  Each visit i was being closely scrutinized  by her. Noticed she kept subtly  looking upon me, without husband being aware, even believed i had been desired by this married woman even inspired. We never said a word to one another not greeting or goodbye for all i know she doesn't speak english. As summer neared i started wearing a thong to surprise to regulars in the pool. The asian lady i described made comments shocked, intrigued at my new fashion swimwear modest thong. As others made comments undoubtably the asian woman began to avoid me even feared being in pool same time as me leaving early or coming in later

mack_back #491

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:07/28/2019 07:42:53Copy HTML

No reason why some may find it wrong, only being offended looking at someones bare butt. Do believe in my experiences older asian woman find it upsetting seeing me in a thong at the pool. They are uncomfortable yet find me encourageable at the same time, saying nothing yet ignoring me as best they can. Just like any attire once people see you often enough subtly or wide eyed disbelief time after time observing male thong grows being accustomed. Woman in particular with modest ideals find a thong provocative better left as lingerie and for woman to wear as tool for seduction. Observing a male in thong some beliefs from conservative woman may assume your being exhibitionist or using it to get attention. Thus some get upset from site of male exposing his backside believing it maybe a way to show off lot more. Leaps and assumption could stir up fear to one observing. Convincing the observing female that male is up to some sexual satisfaction. Waiting for moment to expose entirely to unsuspecting woman or sexaully assualt her. Those ideas thoughts may sound far fetched for us thongers but for prudish modest people that can be logical assumption. Just look at some woman wearing full one piece swimsuits, often adjusting themselves wanting fuller bottom coverage wrapping towel around there hips believing in the notion showing her butt is not flattering, resulting in sending wrong message to strangers. So the belief for modest woman may find male wanting to seduce someone using his thong for bait. This sends signal to whomever is observing that this tactic of less clothing best used in private not publicly. Revealing clothing is often inspire stimulus for other person to reach a goal or idea they have. Be it sex or some sort of sexual satisfaction conservative people are alarmed by the choice of swimwear. Crazy as that sounds many woman i experienced have those thoughts. Warnings from like minded people keep watchful eye policing my actions and be vigilant he may attack someone. Of all never be in sitation alone with that thonging male it will give him opportunity to attack Yet the stereotype of trench coat flasher or male nude wearing large towel covered up letting it drop "mistakenly" initially and seemingly, is less worrisome then thonger exposing his butt cheeks like myself. Which of course i mind my business and by all means never stare making eye contact to fearful, modest, narrow minded, upset females. Always thought the best of people yet many believe the worst of me. Asian late fourties married female visited the pool often ignoring my brief swimsuit i wore. Felt she was type to mind her business not polite to stare upon strangers. Little did i know of her only by observation she loves to gossip about people. Yet she is quite as mouse to strangers like myself. Only her mouth won't stop moving talking to her friend she brings along to the pool. Thought things were cool she minded her business i do the same. One day together in the sauna her elderly friend commented on my body or part of it not exactly sure what was said. Brought visible reaction to the mid 40's married asian woman, scolding her elderly friend not to speak utter such sexual thoughts about man even a stranger sitting next to. Little did i know the seed was planted by elderly woman to asian modest female i described earlier. Each visit i was being closely scrutinized by her. Noticed she kept subtly looking upon me, without husband being aware, even believed i had been desired by this married woman even inspired. We never said a word to one another not greeting or goodbye for all i know she doesn't speak english. As summer neared i started wearing a thong to surprise to regulars in the pool. The asian lady i described made comments shocked, intrigued at my new fashion swimwear modest thong. As others made comments undoubtably the asian woman began to avoid me even feared being in pool same time as me leaving early or coming in later
MNluvthongs #492

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:07/28/2019 11:30:52Copy HTML

The laughers are usually total pricks from the wealthy suburbs and/or fat old women. Some of them have nothing better to do all day then to look for something to talk about.
mack_back #493

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:08/05/2019 06:07:53Copy HTML

ThingThong you should contrast your thong leotard with another colour other then black. Possibly woman initially didn't recognize your leotard because of the monotone appearance with black leggings. Thus the staring trying to differentiate the two different outfits blending in to one another top and bottoms. Often it's quite intriguing by the observer seeing your outfit was subtle because of the monotone colour choice. Do believe she thought this guy is bold to wear thong leotard i will show him how its suppose to be worn. On occasion people want to send a message by their style without saying a word. You took the bait and looked and got the message loud and clear, i'm positive she noticed. 

 Can't say how you look in thong leotard, good or bad but many in the gym are judgemental. Thinking you or me wearing thong leotard or leggings is not suitable for our  body shape or gender.  Without saying a word to us or being upsetting they try to show off in effort so you or me will look and realize our outfits don't look as nice then a woman does. Its shaming without any words to offend. Subtle woman want you to look at her and believe you realize that outfit doesn't work on you as once believed. Using herself as measure of comparison you in a thong me in a thong, now make a judgement. Through your reaction she will know if it was successful thong flash or not. 

 I have been in both circumstances often being the one showing off to get my point across to many ladies. Woman tend to look and realize that they need to dress differently or lose all hope in ever achieving their goals in shaping their bodies. While them flaunting there outfits or bodies to me is more uncommon yet still exists. Sometimes it just means they want recognition from me or reaction what there wearing impresses or makes me envious. It's flirting without someone saying a word. Sometimes not talking is best solution seeing many women are partnered with someone and don't want explain or give reasons why they intrigued with someone other than there relationship.

mack_back #494

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:08/07/2019 03:50:48Copy HTML

ThingThong i appreciate your tenacity with the outfit and workout regime you follow. Having many years experiencing different reaction i could say many woman's priority is work there legs specifically there booty.


You just reminded or inspired her after looking over your thong leotard to workout specific muscles she may have avoided or didn't feel the need to train harder.

Often i see the same reaction woman look at my tight gym attire specifically my backside and feel they need to outwork or train as hard to achieve there goals.

Some woman or myself get motivated looking at others saying i don't want my body or booty looking like that. Not implying your body or backside is flat like a dish plate. You need to understand other gym members observe others good and bad and get inspired to change themselves comparing themselves to others.

On occasion some woman can stare at a person like me for example. Then get discouraged of themselves that the fitness routine isn't working. She could of easily left the gym thinking i did my part no need to overtrain or feel self-concious. 


I've thought the same looking over someone and thought oh snap, i forgot certain exercises from my earlier workout. Never had i gone back and resumed training but seen others do it. 

Male gym member went to the gym early in the morning did his workout. Later in the evening after work he stopped by the gym telling me he just forgot to do calf exercises early in the morning. So he did his exercise and left the gym, found it amusing he needed to return to the gym because of few sets and reps.

 

mack_back #495

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:08/18/2019 08:27:27Copy HTML

Less and less i notice people staring upon someone like myself in a thong at the pool. Don't know what it is people being more subtle or choose to ignore it because they find it offensive or inappropriate to be wearing.


 Remember early years of wearing thongs to the gym pool some woman would report it to management or stare eyes bulging like dear caught in headlights.

 Today i walk out of the water from the pool or whirlpool woman position themselves intentionally backs facing me so they don't see my backside leaving. Do know when initially enter walking onto the pool deck hanging my towel woman swimming or sitting in the hot tub can't help notice me for split second.

 Yet never stare as they once did, or commented to their friends about the thong. Maybe because they sense my confidence in a thong unlike before weary of getting warning to wear more at the pool.

 

Must admit feel disappointed that i don't get the attention from wearing a thong like i use to.  Not that my body looks worse then before in fact look better than i ever had in my life.
I've gotten compliments from others my body looks amazing seeing me wearing a thong or not didn't matter.


Just maybe some women find wearing a thong can be intimidating for them self-conscious to be stared upon. So they act non chalant not bring attention to me by staring or observing closely. Sort of treat me as they want to be treated, ignored. This could be reason why most women find turning around when male like myself walks out of hot tub giving them privacy of sorts. Like my early years of thonging having anxiety walking out of the whirlpool knowing people in it will look at my backside and react. Back then i stayed in the water until everyone left first or weren't looking in my direction. Today i careless in fact prefer more women oggeling watching me more.


Talked to female friend telling me woman definetly notice me in a thong be hot neon pink, sheer yellow or basic black, difficult to miss those colours. They just don't show it with any notable reaction in fact do the opposite pretending to ignore.  Almost all my recent experiences woman were together with there boyfriends or husbands. Woman didn't want to ignore them showing interest and focused in conversation even more so than usual. looking directly in their beloved eyes.

Recently seen couple in hot tub the female had her back to me when i entered the pool deck and hung my towel on the wall. She easily could of seen my profile in the corner of her eye or glanced looking i was wearing a yellow thong. Slowly i walked down the steps into the whirlpool passing them both. While the water bubbles were past my waistline couldn't see i was wearing a thong. As i stood near the whirlpool jet beside them she could look over her mates shoulder at me facing her man, next to me. When i got on my toes i could reveal my yellow thong facing the jets bending over leaning on the lip of the whirlpool. As i had enough of the whirlpool i began to make my way out passing them both. Only difference was the woman observed me closely looking my entire upper body over, as i struggled through the bubbles and jets pushing against me..  Yet when i climbed out she had her back conveniently turned not looking, although sensed she knew what was wearing intrigued her. Later in the pool doing laps i noticed she was climbing out of the whirlpool with boyfriend. I couldn't help wanting to see what she was wearing or how her body looked. She stared in my direction to notice my intrigue of her string full black bikini bottom and red string top and body. We locked eyes while i swam on my back watching her walk on  the pool deck towards the sauna.

mack_back #496

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:09/08/2019 01:18:23Copy HTML

Sometimes you need to dive in deep water to figure if you can swim with the big fishes. Whatever your wearing has to be confident to get any peace of mind regarding others reactions or overreactions. Once you overcome your fears no matter the swimwear you will become comfortable wearing a thong as it was any other kind of clothing. Sharing a recent experience, some shy thong wearers on this forum need to realize, ain't the swimwear your wearing people react to it's how your body appears. Recent visit to the pool i was shallow end while married asian woman who i've seen but never spoken with. Noticed her stares of me for many visits to the pool be it in brief swimsuit or my Desmitt thong. She was doing laps next to me and finally lifted herself up to the pool deck and walked sitting into  the whirlpool no more than 10 feet away from end of the pool i was exercising. We both were facing one another but i try not to make eye contact to woman only so i don't make them uncomfortable.  Yet i seen her in the corner of my eye she was trying to get my attention. Little did i know without her complimenting me in our conversation that my swimwear wasn't issue or topic to be discussed.  Her motivation was to make observation of how people treat and lack care of there physique.  Even though she never said i look amazing. She did ask the question, if i was personal trainer at the gym? Suppose i could take the leap believing the way my body appears i must workout a lot and it shows thong and all. Always found it puzzling what some regular swimmers especially woman think of me when i visit the pool. It's not my wardrobe labels, logos, brand or colour of thong swimsuit. Even amount of coverage it has but what in it and how every part of my toned tanned smooth skin is so firmly shaped and displayed that makes them watch.


After the chat with the asian lady i was doing calf raises on the pool ladder. Two females one younger standing upon the other facing towards  the other while she sat on a bench back facing me. There was two panes of glass one foyer room looking into the pool. The female standing must of observed me before as they were waiting for there studio class to begin. Telling the other "You should see this guy in the pool he wears a thong is ready coming out" Immediately the woman sitting whipped her head turning looking upon me while i was standing on the pool ladder doing exercises. None seen my hot pink thong seeing i was still below the pool deck in the water only my torso was moving above the lip of the pool.  

Ceases to amaze me never gets boring nor do people observing someone like me in a thong is some kind of happening that they don't see everyday. Unlike the asian lady which speculated and intrigued knowing on my time spent in the gym.

Thonged4Life #497

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:09/08/2019 04:32:34Copy HTML

MeSooQuiet:  those look perfect! How is the sizing in relation to the Speedo or even better the Sporti?  Those look like the perfect next step. It’s not some sort of self confidence thing like mack_back seems to imply that everyone but they have. I am a big fish, I want everyone to feel comfortable swimming with me. I’m doing my laps a a community indoor pool so trying imply or claim I’m doing it for the tan is a non starter.  I just don’t want to shock narrow minded.  I wear thongs 99% of the time as underwear and so the speedos at the public pools. All the guards and regulars know I’m a normal (confident) guy, so no worries there. But again as others have suggested, I want to make the change gradually to make it easier to accept.  If it was 100% up to me, nude for the win.  Unfortunately that’s not the world we live in here in 99% of the US.   Once again thanks for the suggestion.

mack_back #498

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:10/22/2019 02:23:32Copy HTML

Thonging alienated asian couples at the gym pool. Have distinct belief me wearing Desmitt thong for last few months at the gym pool has made some asian couples avoid using the aqua facility entirely. For many months like clockwork seen regular same asian couples hanging around the gym aqua facilities sauna, whirlpool and pool it was there go to when visiting. Ever since spring i began to wear a Desmitt thong and slowly but surely the asian couples have avoided using the pool. Seen them on the gym floor but many avoid using the pool unlike before when i was wearing brief Desmitt speedo. Like clockwork i can time the asian couples pool visits day in day out for months. Since my thonging i seen steady decline in there visits to the pool. Seen initial reactions of me  serious confused stares even disgruntled, reactions by the conservative women. Maybe it's my paranoia but seeing how i was looked upon by the asian couples especially the woman didn't seem  to appreciate my pool thong. Do believe if they complained to management the females at the front desk, didn't do anything. In fact the female associates give me pleasant smile entering, exiting the gym. The staff  knowing i thong at the pool seeing me first hand taking water test samples or me on surveillance camera. Observing some social media pictures of one female staff member often seen  taking selfies in the sauna wearing only a thong when off there shift. One female lifeguard policing the dress code for woman wearing thongs but with me none says a word, in wearing more. In fact i know some of the female staff like to observe me in a thong. Even notice some female staff clearly looking upon my backside or butt when following me to retrieving the dirty towel basket from the change room area while i'm dressed in leggings. When i do see the asian couples or specifically the woman who visited the pool as habit now only being on the gym floor using cardio equipment seem perturbed. Maybe they find seeing man in a thong to much too observe at the pool and complaints go on deaf ears making there gym visit less than ideal.


If my conclusions are correct about the ultra conservative modest asian older couples  not appreciating my thonging, it's win win for thongers. In the past or other posts many males are immediately warned to wear more when some complaints are made to staff at  a pool facility. Doubt it's me or the female staff at my gym that takes thonging male side or maybe times have changed ultra conservative people need to know wearing a thong isn't bad thing get use to it..  


Once i left the pool facility dressed walking out i seen through the outside window young female in a thong bikini talking to her boyfriend in the whirlpool. Feel i have inspired the amount of time i spend at the pool some females observe my thonging in passing looking in from outside. Gives them courage of wearing it to the pool and hot tub with there boyfriends. While other woman visit the pool notice my body in a  thong and often cover themselves with towel when leaving feeling less comfortable with there bikini bottoms.   

mack_back #499

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:11/21/2019 10:05:24Copy HTML

Convinced more and more other people believe when male is wearing a thong no matter how conservative the coverage they feel it's exhibitionism. Had an encounter with mid 50's asian couple with my regular swim at the gym pool wearing a Desmitt thong. The couple took months off  using the pool since i was regularly wearing a thong we all show up at the same time. They used the gym floor exclusively, stopped using the pool, spa facilities as regulars, as in the past seeing me wear brief Desmitt swimwear. Since i changed to thongs the asian couple  became absent at the pool. Few times they did visit seeing them i could tell the woman didn't want to look, ignoring me, more so then i was wearing brief swimwear. In fact i picked up vibe the asian couple found my thonging at the pool not appropriate even being cautious guarded with her husband around me. Picked up a vibe when walking by them on the  gym floor the couple laying on the floor stretching after there treadmill walk. The asian woman looked in the mirror gave out audible negative grunt  when i walked by her. Only thought was she didn't appreciate me showing off my muscular bulging physique good as it is in leggings. back and front getting upset with me.


Recently seeing the asian couple once again sharing the pool and same lane. She crashed into me when swimming without saying a word or apology. As though she didn't want to communicate with the likes of me. All while swimming first in a busy pool having first rights using the lane while she joined in later with the husband clearly she seen me. Couldn't believe the disrespect asian lady shown towards me in the pool while i swam on my back same pace or faster then her. Only have to conclude she found my choice of swimwear disrespectful thus treating with contempt ignoring me, swimming straight upon my path. Guessing people (conservative asians) disagree with male like myself swimming laps in a modest thong are treated like crap to show their views as i'm not social acceptable in my choice of swimwear.

stringueur #500

Re:Are they watching, laughing or judging me?

Date Posted:11/22/2019 04:01:17Copy HTML

It will always exist a fraction of the people who are puritanical. The less they are, the better. But we have to deal with this. And puritans are narrow minded for both genders. All combinations are possible. The best solution is to ignore them since they don't prohibit you to wear what you want. If she don't come to the hottube, it is her problem, not your.
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