Thanks ohharley! If you mean what brand of gear my pics are, the g-string is from "boy-strings" and the thongs are from Muscleskins.

I've worn Muscleskins forever. Just made an order from Tangaland. Shall see.

Hi, Maxthong Nice set of pictures! Like them! Seems that Mac doesn't have an IG-account........

Yes, try not to care too much.

Funny how a small piece of fabric can make people smile and laugh. I think we need more of both.

I am sitting out at the beach today. I’ve been here since this morning enjoying the day, taking sips in the weather and otherwise keeping to myself. There are several women wearing cheeky ant thong bikinis nearby. So far so good. Then I have two middle age couples show up and set up a little bit down the beach from me. As I am in the water I can hear them deliberately talking about me. “That’s disgusting. He has to be gay. Well I have a gay son and even he doesn’t wear a thong.” Meanwhile right next to them is a group of young women wearing thong bikinis and not a word is said about them. Not a word. I decided to walk out of the water right next to these judgement people to see if they are brave enough to keep taking. As I walk past them, not a word. They are looking down trying to pretend they don’t see me. My attitude is too bad, if you don’t like it don’t look. And don’t judge.

Disgusting narrow-minded people….If they have a problem with your choice of swimwear they could have moved to another spot. But they didn’t…..

Rapidblue: you got your wish. The couple looked away and stayed silent when you closely passing through. Everything you asked for.. As far as distant comments overheard they have right to opinion about someone’s physique. to their close partner nearby. If you overheard private comments not intended directed at you it that wasn’t conscious by them. Making assumptions and disgust with what you’re displaying is voicing confusion to make sense what is visible. Many people make gossip their feelings about what they observe good or bad. If your physique was hurculean maybe the couple would comment he must be gay and stripper.. People have right to their opinions even if it hurts overhearing them speak unkindly or being ignorant. Everyone get ridiculed some way or another. Even gals in bikini thongs also appearing slutty or out of shape. None going say anything negative to gal since they are much more thin skinned overreacting to insensitive comments overheard. I’ve misunderstood talll Lebanese gal appears model-esk observing me for long time. Thought she digs me the manner she closely wide eyed gazed. Only recently overhearing talking to her black male friend. Commenting laughing holding his shoulder to cry laughing upon how unproportional my physique appears.. Was shocked at her negative comments taking me down few notches, gut punch. At least we are not friends or speaking terms with model gal pretending to be friendly with one another. Worst is when someone you know lies two faces. Acts one way to you, while gossiping negatively to close minded people in her circle. Remember you never going to see the couple on the beach again in most like scenerio. Problem is trying to be friendly to those who secretly disgusted with your attire or physique.

Had retired elderly bodybuilder who lost her physique chat me up. She wanted to judge my body part critically without my asking. She  said  i lack this or that needs more work etc.. Laughing at her judgement and criticism. Knowing she does it to everyone take it for it’s worth.  Only late rfeeling down and  depressed. Understood where she is as coining from believing she has knowledge of  bodybuilding.  She wouldn’t criticize someone for that appears average or no muscle.  Whenever i fee. the need to speak out about gals body. Only if you built up this part you be ten.. Yet i stop myself none wants to hear someone’s opinion about their appearance i get it..

Mack_back. For some reason, your posts a nearly impossible to read and understand. Either you do not have a good grasp of English or it is not your first tongue. I may suggest you re-read your post slowly prior to posting. Past and present tense, singlular or plural seem to be a problem in your posts Wonder if I am the only one that has problems reading your posts?

With women I think it’s 30% in each category watching, laughing, and judging you

Everyone judges. There are those who judge in silence, and others who feel entitled to give their opinion even when no one has asked for it. We all know the different opinions out there: - the haters - those who think it’s not appropriate for a man - indifference - those who think it’s our freedom and that we’re living our best lives - those who appreciate open-mindedness and a spirit of freedom - those who appreciate it and look on with envy People express their opinions to varying degrees—whether intentionally or unintentionally, verbally or nonverbally.

I think many people are not even really thinking about you. They have their own inner lives, thoughts about where they left their hat; what to eat for lunch; if they have enough sunscreen on; and if they should call work or go for a swim to cool off. A curious glance or two is probably the most effort they will put in. At best they are going to think "Oh, a man in a thong. That's unusual." I am sure somewhere in some dark corner there is some belligerent person who is mad at the world, and by extension also be mad at you. They are probably just as angry with the barista who served them coffee this morning. "Those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter." The phrase means you shouldn't worry about what judgmental people think, because their opinions aren't important. Meanwhile, the people who truly care about you will accept you for who you are, making their criticisms a non-issue. It is an empowering reminder to stay authentic without fearing rejection.

I suspect JM_Runs' perspective is strongly influenced by where he lives.

I'm at a lake in northern Wisconsin right now. There is a sand bar about 300 feet off our dock that gets a lot of boats and people there on weekends.

Nearly every time I'm on the pier I see folks laughing and pointing and can hear them commenting, stuff like "he's really letting it all hang out". It's not just surprise and it is clearly judging. But it is very obvious when they notice. [That said, I am not aware of those that notice and don't say anything--but there is a commenter nearly every day.]

You're absolutely right. Many places as we see don't have the diversity (of opinions/outlooks on life, not racial diversity) that we have in S Fla. Many places that don't have this diversity have/draw those who only want to be around those just like themselves! "He ain't like one of us" "they can have that Miami, no one speaks English!" There is a large population of people who see their defense of their sameness as a divine virtue! The two political parties tap into the minds of people who want everyone to think like they do - because I'm smart and they're stupid if they don't- no logical defense of my opinions needed!

Isn't there a large conservative Cuban population in south Florida?

Yes, but they don't care about men or women wearing minimal swimwear at the beach. Socially liberal but fiscally conservative is my understanding.

Surprisingly that's how most conservatives are aside the Bible belt. Conservatives value freedom in that regard.

I have been going to the same outdoor pool to thong lately, and I haven't had a single comment about my swimsuits. Whenever I go to the pool, there are usually around 40-50 other people, and about 10 of them are in thong bikinis. I don't know what people are thinking internally, but no one has shown disgust towards me or my swim thongs. I strategically set up next to a female thonger so that I can be assured that thongs are ok at the pool. I don't know what the female thongers think when I set up next to them, but so far, they have been quite chill with me.

Kiyoothong: 20% gals in thongs that’s incredible number. Public outdoor pool observed in passing. Not seen one single thonger or any cheeky bikini bottoms worn. Although it’s legal to wear thongs many women choose not to. You must pickup on gals demeanour once you settle next to her at the pool? Often gal will notice sole male wearing skimpy front thong before one can focus on anyone in particular. Gals aren’t intrigued enough what men are wearing or want to see more, bare buns. No matter how much Greek god your physique appears. Only so gal doesn’t appear needy or show cards on the table. Never wanting to give wrong impression to a gentlemen. Often assume gal is uninterested ogling men. Or find male wearing skimpy swimwear not masculine enough. Therefore labelling into a box as beyond approach. Male thonger being thought as gay or disgusting exhibitionist, poser needing attention. Only reasonable to conclude gals choose to ignore not observing any male thonger. Not give into satisfaction you receive from ogling eyes. If there is negativity or push back upon make thonger. Usually it’s never openly displayed as verbal objection. Instead gals discreetly go to lifeguards pool managers complain about male thonger. Kiyoothong appears it’s not your only visit to the outdoor pool. If you regularly visit there is already recognition of what you’re wearing. Even if you arrive in street clothes. People already understand and prepare themselves for thong choice swimwear. Often they’re no surprises or shocked reactions. Most criticism are never verbal these days but phone text messaging. You never know if gal is laying beside girlfriend are texting to one another. Only to be discreet messaging check out the guy in the thong. Being very hyper observant with cues gals display poolside. They can be very discreet but longer the visit certain reactions or commentary is eventually  verbalized. Two older women and male were in corner of the pool deck. Conversation was far away from me half way of pool length. When i was leaving picked up discussion about me. Dude accompanied two women, saying to them, “I can look exactly like him”. Getting into shape isn’t that hard. Gals began to giggle in disagreement maneuver their towels. One female replied, “you don’t have the same body”. He argued, “no i don’t but it’s different.” Gal laughing, at him you don’t measure up to it”. Dude replied, knowing gals conversation was more then my physique or black speedo. Laughter of gals finding him amusing, since one appeared having personal relationship. She replies to her female friend trust me his little one  can’t compare to it, no matter how hard it gets. The females begin to laugh. All a while walking passing through neither gals glanced upon me once.

Little did i know women were discussing about me. Even though i was far away not to overhear. Everyone except female lifeguards appeared not to care what i was wearing or displaying. Only realizing once i exited the pool. Appeared i was topic of conversation for some  ladies. Being good or bad isn’t me to decide. At least it showed poolside there is more discussion and judging going on then we believe. 

Reason i avoid largest outdoor city pool. Heard female relative visiting the outdoor pool location. Sometimes heard that one or both the sons join or meet up with the mom along the wife and kids to the pool. Don’t want to chance meeting be forever labeled in unfair prejudicial, stereotypical manner if witnessed in a skimpy bulge thong. Had other encounters with described older female cousin which is a grandmother. Few encounters outside the confines of a pool with female cousin while wearing denim cutoff short shorts. She voiced jokingly more than once i should wear more clothes to coverup. Often exaggerating to make her point, such as using words appearing naked. She wouldn’t say anything about my clothes unless it’s disturbing. Or her sense of wrong or right in wearing any particular clothing. Thong would completely knock her off rocker, Gossiping for intervention upon me to other male relatives about my clothing. She is close to another distant second female cousin who is gossip queen. Who believes i’m infatuated with her. Only because she walked into my backyard unannounced witnessing suntanning in very brief swimsuit. Ever since second female cousin who is sexualized, sharing accounts with flirting female cousins. Avoiding me and gossiping about what she witnessed, believing my intentions was of only seduction. Which she is obsessed and confused with when i stood up in yard that sunny day. Ever since all my liberal married female cousins have silly smirks always elude to wise cracks upon me. As i stand confused, puzzled, picking up the  pieces why such comments are thrown in my direction. All stemming from one brief wearing backyard encounter. The second cousin inaccurately believing i’m wearing skimpy swimsuit to seduce her. Oddly enough some sexually charged females in my family. Have delusions reason for my brevity swimwear is to simply seduce them. Otherwise why would i be wearing it. The female cousins feeling uncomfortable around me. Is indicative of their own sexual desires for men. Only that i bring them a taboo fantasy witnessing my fit body as sexy. Therefore they need to voice their displeasure about my appearance in naughty swimwear as inappropriate.

Basically female cousins find my body appealing as some complimented in the past. Once gossip about my brief swimwear was rumored. They enact measures to keep me uncomfortable complaining by not witnessing me in skimpy swimwear. Only so they can free themselves thinking about taboo sexual thoughts and revealing swimwear one particular part of my anatomy. 

mack_back is SO full of himself, it is unbelievable. While he has a poor command of the English language, it appears that even after years apparently never proof reads his posts. I certainly am not family and I too would not care to be around him. We do not care about his self pity or lack of support from his family. Get a life and move on.

thongexpert: Glad you had positive feedback. Often then not routinely in leggings or spandex shorts people mind their business. Only because they made their mind up labeling the outfit feminine. Interaction is limited what i’m wearing only reason i can assume they don’t find it appealing for male to wear. Those that recognize my gym outfit often just tolerate only glancing if they find color familiar or intriguing.

Once i min awhile do attire spandex short shorts one inch inseam. Warm summer days enjoy the freedom to show off my tan legs yet keeping tightly package. When i first wore these super short shorts gal in the gym i recognized for years just gazed walking across focused on the shorts not saying a word.  After looking myself in the gym mirror don’t like how flat my booty appears in none scrunch shorts. Find them less provocative than scrunch short shorts. Only time had older male comment never seen me wear shorts before always pants. 

Few weeks ago at the gym entering the change room compliment towards my soft fabric nulu racerback spandex tank top. Reconever spoken gnizing the brand logo saying it looks great and brand perfect for summer use. During my gym workout noticed blank stares from individuals. Later when i was in locker room male approaching complimented my tank asking where he could purchase such a tank. Began to explain the brand and name searching online showing it is discontinued. Only used marketplace he can purchase the tank but limited to sizing and color. Appeared didn’t bother him it was women style tank shown on models online. First time male didn’t pass judgement on gender style clothes. As for females rarely would compliment my gym outfit. Recognizing it’s styled only for female use. Some females may get upset or not want to encourage male in female type gym wear. Therefore many stay silent not approaching to compliment. Few who dare say anything will only compliment my physique. Yet clothes go hand in hand to expose the body shape. Simply gal who recognizes me may only say i still look good. That’s after they observed me for years but never approaching saying a word. For whatever reason most women don’t want the stigma of being involved knowing male who wears female style spandex athletic gear. Even though they find color choices pleasing even desirable. Only not worn on a male no matter how fit. In fact many women find my choice of outfit too needy wanting attention.

Never owned a missile thong, blatantly bulge in public. Although do own “subtle” depending on your modest understanding and interpretation of a projecting bulge thong. Find it fun to wear, observing virtually no reactions from people. In fact many choose to avoid eyeballing for many reasons. Do know i’m recognized by gals initially since there is shock factor reaction or smirk. Be it just the thong bare skin backside or tiny string coverage and noticeable wet bulge. Enjoy conversations with chatty friendly married ladies when wearing thongs. Closely observe any eye contact onto my bulge. Many females do very good job avoiding glances. Fear they would send wrong message. Only later when i’m fully dressed recognized by same gals chatting wearing a thong. There is odd expressions suddenly overcome their senses about me. Big grinning smiles or biting their lips as having certain memory on her mind. As if they witnessed me naked and know a personal secret trait none is fully aware. Often believe i leave lasting impression that many gals can’t forget. All contributed to what my thong bulge projects. Enjoying cat and mouse game with friendly gals wearing swimwear. They know what i’m wearing is excessive but choose not to recognize it. Later fully dressed, gal may feel comfortable gaze upon my clothed body and smile giving a compliment. Attribute it to lasting memory observing me in a thong in the recent past. Yet afraid to recognize the thong or say any word about it at least to me. Wearing bulge thong walking showering on the pool deck. It has to have effect on gals observing even though subtle careful not to be blatantly noticed eye popping reactions. Although some friendly gals initially can’t help themselves stare in shock gaze mouth open good or bad. Until i wave smile saying hello. Good or bad bulge thonging is enjoyable in public. Since it envies reactions initially or much later. Some gals can’t come to terms of bulge thong. Openly voicing that’s disgusting, none wants to see that display of a bulge. As careful some women are to avoid looking at my thong swimwear. There comes a time married women i know just smile gaze upon bulge presented in front of them line of sight. Grinning saying you have nice body. Replying what in particular usually they answer everything shyly walking away. We both know it wasn’t my new haircut that draws them to a compliment. When married gal is pressed to give example about features of my physique being critical. On occasion married gal told me i was too big. Which shown her true colors what effect wearing bulge thong did to her senses.

Feel if every women i met seen me in a thong or image. Believe many feel closer kinship towards me rather act  uncomfortable stiff, awkward or cold non responsive.  Often makes others more comfortable. Sharing they once dated a stripper.. Why would gal share that information unless witness me in thong had lasting memory. 

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