Is she looking? Of course she is. Visual stimuli is one of the most powerful components to human attraction. I’ve had several conversations with my women friends and they all admit to looking and sizing things up. It really is no big deal. Every person has personal preferences. It can get pretty funny and sometimes raunchy when I listen to my women friends talk about size and preferences. In the end it’s all in good fun with lots of laughter.

A few years ago, a friend I had met for the first time at the public pool, told my wife that the first time she saw me, she wanted to become my friend because she noticed my bulge and found it "interesting". I'm always surprised that women speak more freely than men. She had no qualms about talking directly to my wife about my bulge.

I accidently found out! I was wearing a maroon colored missile G string on a S Fla beach and was headed home. As I walked along the beach I thought I ought to cover up a bit but it was still very sunny. I put on a pair of thin mesh shorts I had in my bag. They are partially see thru from a few yards away. I was walking along and saw a solo girl walking toward me stop and unfold her beach chair. She was wearing a small thong. Interesting for me she bent over facing away from me and I got a great view of her as she moved the chair working it into the sand and I was walking diagonal to her. As I passed about 5 ft from her I saw she looked to her side at my leg as I walked by, then looked up at my crotch and held her gaze there several seconds as I walked by. I looked down and saw she had seen thru my shorts and my missile sleeve in directly sunlight looked like the "real thing" and that's why she stared! I guess I learned that I need to consider what a partially obscured appearance of a suit really looks like because it will be noticed!

I’m very self conscious about size, or lack thereof, since I feel I’m somewhat undersized ( I think I am ). I’d guess I’m about average when aroused. However, since I’m over 80, i don’t have many opprrtunities to find out, except from getting waxed or the occasional sensual massage. Nonetheless, i love the very rare opportunity to go to a nude beach or more often when im sailing my boat alone.

Gals tend to turn away or turn blind eye onto me. Since i give nothing to imagination for people to determine its size. Be it wearing bulge string thong which got me reprimanded and banished from the pool. Only that bulge was all to prominent making other uncomfortable. Suppose when you’re obviously allowing imprint bulge to be visible. Many will overt their eyes not to be caught looking. Yet many fully aware what is below with smirky expressions. Do enjoy subtle glances from mature single gym fit women. Never dare say a word but when opportunity arise notice blantant stare in their line of sight to upon my bulge package in leggings. Overhearing conversations from some single mature women. Shockingly describing what they would physically wanting do to my bulge was eye opening. Mature married gal i often chat with is conscious never to look at my bulge. Yet is very aware once spoke i was too big. Confused what she specifically addressing. Apologizing for her opinion but doubled down saying but you are. Only for her to walk away leaving me more confused what she was referring upon. Afterwards dawned that it was about my obvious outlined bulge in leggings. Which was shocking that mature married women would first respond about my physical attributes being the bulge..

Oh women need to know that there are a lot of growers out there.

I wore a thong to a sauna/cold plunge in my area, and no one ever seemed to mind. I did have a young woman tell me she hadn't had sex in a year and that I was throwing her for a loop wearing what I was wearing with my bulge jiggling around as I walked. A rare moment where I could've initiated sex and gotten it immediately, but did not because I'm married and not that kind of guy. it felt great to get some attention like that from a woman.